Experience on how to set a good example for children

how to be a good example for children?

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How to set a good example for children? Experience 1: A friend traveled to South Korea this Mid-Autumn Festival and saw many Chinese speakers walking in the streets. There were many Chinese warning signs posted on the streets of South Korea, which seemed to be specially set up to remind China people. She said that she was very uncomfortable.

when I turn on the computer, a group of pictures pop up: a Chinese mother who is traveling to Japan is holding her child to urinate on the grass, a couple crossing the street and waiting for the traffic lights, and a young man standing in the middle of the road taking pictures ...

Whenever I see Chinese people traveling abroad, there are many uncivilized behaviors that are looked down upon by foreigners, and I always think helplessly: Why don't people who travel abroad know the customs and habits of the country they are going to, at least know some manners of others?

Today, I read an article entitled "The Most Difficult Risk to Control". The author is Wang Jishi, the general manager of Hongkong and Shanghai Banking Corporation in Shanghai Branch. When he first arrived in Shanghai, many phenomena made him unable to understand, for example, playing golf without rules and dressing casually; There is no order in the car. When people see the car coming, they rush up and even squeeze the elderly and infirm. The sanitation of the public toilet is messy, and mosquitoes and flies fly about in the public toilet. Look at the wall, there are slogans everywhere, such as "keeping clean is everyone's responsibility", "a small step forward, a big step forward in civilization", "the city is my home, and civilization depends on everyone", etc., which have no practical effect and are only used to decorate the wall and go for a walk.

in order to cultivate colleagues' awareness of civilization and hygiene, Wang Jishi decided to start with the hygiene of the bathroom. He asked the cleaning staff to stand at the door. Whenever someone came out of the bathroom, the cleaner cleaned it immediately, and everyone just cleaned the environment every time they went in. Seeing that the bathroom is so clean, everyone is embarrassed to dirty it again. Over time, the bathroom will be as clean as new.

seeing this, I got into thinking: as a teacher, what should we teach our children? What kind of role model should I set for my children? Adults urinate everywhere on the roadside, and children will follow suit. Adults throw garbage and spit everywhere, and children will become accustomed to it. When these children grow up, they will become new uncivilized citizens.

I think schools should not only teach children knowledge and help them form the habit of loving learning and reading, but more importantly, cultivate them to form the habit of being civilized, hygienic and polite from an early age. Only in this way can children's behavior not be despised and criticized by others after several years.

How to be a good example for children? Experience 2: My son has a new course: technology. He said that technology includes information technology and general technology. I have been in contact with junior high school in information technology, and general technology is a brand-new course. Because I don't understand, I casually asked my son: What do you learn about general technology?

Last week, I finally got my homework with general technology. After my son finished his homework, he showed it to me with the books to let me know what he had learned. Actually, I'm not interested in this kind of knowledge, I'm just curious.

after reading my son's homework, I foolishly praised his son for drawing a good three-dimensional picture, and he simply had no ability to judge whether his homework was right or wrong. I took a photo with my mobile phone.

wake up the next morning. Talking with his father about the general technology his son is learning, he showed his father the pictures his son had drawn. At this sight, the father immediately discovered his son's mistake. The homework is required to draw three lines of sight according to the three-dimensional diagram. So he looked down one question at a time and found two mistakes. Let me remind my son to think again. If he really doesn't understand, please ask plasticine for help. I'm ashamed, I have no imagination, and I'm tired of doing this kind of problem. I really don't understand it.

before my son gets up, my father has cut a three-dimensional diagram on the exercise paper for his son to observe after getting up. Clever dad, who used the rice cake in the kitchen, cut out a three-dimensional picture exactly like the exercise paper with a few knives. As soon as my son saw this picture, he immediately corrected his hunger mistake, but his father explained that his son had understood his mistake. The other mistake was the same, and it was corrected immediately.

Dad never checks his son's homework. This is a new subject for my son. I showed him photos by accident, but my father found the problem. When the father found the mistake, he didn't immediately blame his son, but showed it to his son himself, so that his son could understand the reason for the mistake. I just didn't do it well.

This reminds me of my son's story about checking my homework in elementary school. Whenever I check my son's homework, I find a mistake, an impulse, and I always want my son to correct it immediately. For this matter, I have been accused by my father many times, saying that I have cultivated the dependence of my children by doing so. Even if he can correct all his homework at home, who can guarantee that he won't make mistakes in school class? Wrong, let him bear it himself! I seem to deceive myself by checking my homework and letting him finish it perfectly.

In fact, my heart is quite contradictory. I always want to find my son's homework with high quality, and let him be wrong if I think about his mistakes. I have been very entangled in my heart, and I believe that there are many mothers who are as ambivalent as me. After a period of adjustment, basically from the fourth grade, I can do my homework without accompanying him and let him be responsible for right or wrong. Sometimes I feel really uncomfortable when I see the dazzling red fork on my exercise book. But, it doesn't matter, the mistake is to do it right next time! Always comforting yourself like this. Although the quality of the exercise book is not very beautiful, it is his own level, which makes me more aware of my son's weak links and prescribe the right medicine. This is the key. If you help your children to treat their homework like this every time, then the exam will be as you expected!

I always remember a sentence in Yin Jianli's "A good mother is better than a good teacher": No matter what is the best management! That is to say, on the way to parenting, it should be said that it should be suitable for the management of children. There is no right or wrong way to raise children, only whether it is suitable or not.

"If a child has a fundamental problem, it is definitely a family education problem; Just as the root of a tree is rotten, it is useless for a gardener to take good care of the crown. " Obviously, the importance of family education.

Whether we are happy or not depends entirely on ourselves. If we have a strong and optimistic heart, we can smile as brightly as summer flowers even if we are on the precipice. No matter how bleak and wronged life has given us, we must make ourselves clear, so that a heart will bravely go on; In this way, our short life will be happy! Face everything with this positive and optimistic attitude and influence my children. Practice and be a good example for children! Try to make our children better!

How to be a good example for children? Experience 3: Every parent knows that he is the first teacher of his child, and he also knows that "the power of example is infinite".

If we ask parents to talk about how to be a good first teacher for their children, it may not be clear. Some people think that the first teacher is to urge the children to learn their lessons well. If the children don't understand, tell them, and if they can't do it, teach them to do it. Children have shortcomings and mistakes, so we should criticize and educate them. Children have advantages and progress, so we should praise them.

Of course, these are what the first teacher should do. Is there anything more important?

as for setting an example for children, it is not necessarily clear.

first, be upright and make progress.

most parents are decent. Today, with the development of market economy, there is corruption at the upper level and moral decline at the lower level. It is not easy to be decent. This requires a correct outlook on life and right and wrong. We should not only distinguish the ugly phenomena in society clearly, but also hate evil, the opposition of the opposition, the exposure that should be exposed, and the boycott that can be resisted. If someone pulls you into the water, you will never go along with it. This attitude should be clearly shown in life, so that children can see and hear it, which has a great impact on children.

It was reported that a child took a bus with his mother, and the child found a thief reaching for someone else's purse. The child said to his mother, "Mom, that person is stealing someone else's purse!" Mother glanced at the thief and said to the child, "Don't talk nonsense, that uncle is joking with others." The mother said this because she was afraid of the thief's revenge, but she completely confused right and wrong, good and evil. What impact will it have on her children?

progress is reflected in both work attitude and ideological style. Although parents have become adults, they can't do without self-motivation. Parents constantly pursue and make new progress, which has a great incentive for children. Children will learn the true meaning of being a man from their parents' spiritual outlook.

second, be diligent and self-disciplined.

Diligence is the foundation of our country and our health.

Diligence and thrift complement each other. People who are not industrious don't understand that material wealth is hard to come by, and often don't cherish the fruits of their labor. Every parent should inherit and carry forward the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, diligence and thrift, on himself and in his family.

According to our survey, the family economy is relatively difficult, and the children's hard-working and thrifty performance exceeds that of the family economy. This reminds us that the more money we have, the more we should be diligent and educate our children to be diligent.

Madame Curie, a famous scientist, extracted grams of pure radium from tons of asphalt slag through hard research.

at that time, one gram of radium was worth more than 1 million francs. Madame Curie's husband died in a car accident, and it was suggested that Madame Curie sell these radium to raise her children. However, Madame Curie resolutely gave these radium to the Institute of Radium Studies in Paris for free. She believes: "Being poor is inconvenient, being rich is redundant and annoying, and it is only natural and proper that children must fend for themselves in the future."

She often teaches her children: "You should not waste your life, you should work voluntarily and persistently like a silkworm, and always work patiently towards an excellent goal." Madame Curie demands herself and the next generation with the virtue of diligence and thrift.

To be diligent and thrifty, a person needs a strong spirit of self-discipline, and any success and progress can't be achieved without the spirit of self-discipline. Parents can be strict with themselves and persevere, and children will see it in their eyes and keep it in mind.

Self-discipline is a reflection of people's will quality. Parents are strong-willed people, so they can ask their children to manage themselves. It is impossible for parents to educate their children well if they can't resist the temptation of the world of flowers and flowers, often relax themselves and keep their words.

third, be knowledgeable and thoughtful.

Hungry for knowledge and good at thinking are the prerequisites for people to broaden their horizons, establish a good knowledge background and creatively solve problems. People who are too lazy to study and use their brains will not be creative.

If parents are such "lazy" people, I'm afraid it won't help if you tell your children to study hard and use their brains more. Because, in his parents, he can't see the power of knowledge and the effect of using his brain.

I often hear some adults say at home, "I'm exhausted and bored to death. I'm too lazy to think again." Some adults think that the study stage has passed, and now it is the work stage, and they are very indifferent to reading and learning knowledge. This not only affects their own development, but also affects the development of children.

Tagore, a world-famous writer, was removed from the school because of his poor study when he was a child. Tagore's father educated his son well and influenced his son with his exemplary role.

Every morning, my father wakes Tagore up and the father and son recite ancient poems together. After breakfast, my father sat Tagore down, quietly listened to himself singing the scriptures, and then went for a walk together, telling all kinds of knowledge during the walk. Go back to the house and teach the children to read English. In the evening, the father and the father studied together, and they also talked about elementary astronomical knowledge with the sky as a book. Tagore's quest for knowledge became stronger and stronger. His father showed his family's books to his children, and Tagore enjoyed his masterpieces and wrote his first poetic drama.

under the careful guidance of his father, Tagore has become a world-famous writer through his own efforts.

We should be inspired by Tagore's father's example of "seeking knowledge and thinking" and be a parent who loves learning and thinking.

fourth, be civilized and friendly.

If parents are civilized and polite, children will learn from their parents and become civilized people.

Parents are friendly to others, unite with relatives, friends, neighbors and colleagues, and are ready to help others. Children can also learn to get along with others and do more good deeds.

Some parents don't pay attention to manners, only care about themselves and are indifferent to others, which is very unfavorable to their children's growth. In society, no one likes uncivilized and unfriendly people.

Society is like a big family. Civilized and friendly people are respected and welcomed, and people are willing to associate with them, which creates more favorable conditions for his success.

Unfortunately, some parents say to their children, "Whoever hits you, you hit him; Whoever scolds you, you scold him. " After a child was slapped by another child, a parent led the child to the school to find the child who hit him, slapped the child in public and said, "Remember, son, that's it!" " There could have been a better solution. Why did parents do it?

fifth, democracy and optimism.

parents should talk about democracy, as we wrote earlier. Parents should respect their children's independent personality, give them the right to participate in family affairs and give them the right to speak.

Parents and children have the relationship between education and education, as well as democracy and equality. Democracy in education and teaching is emphasized in schools, and the spirit of democracy should also be implemented in families. Children will be more motivated if they talk about democracy. Talking about democracy is not all about children, but all about children will go to laissez-faire. One parent said, "Be lenient and strict."

optimism is a kind of quality, which is a comprehensive expression of broad-mindedness, courage to face reality, correct treatment of adversity and adversity, self-confidence and sense of humor.

In the rough life, it is not easy to be optimistic, and it needs constant tempering. Parents' optimistic quality will be passed on to their children in a subtle way, which is good for life.

Let's make a preliminary exposition of 2 words, so that parents will have a richer understanding. Although it is only 2 words, it is not easy to really do it. This is the direction of efforts. The process of parents setting an example for their children is a process of continuous learning, continuous reflection, continuous adjustment and continuous development. I wish all parents this encouragement.