Fate amp; love amp; duty

It is fate that two people meet each other, it is love that two people know each other and they are together, and it is duty that two people have nothing to do with each other. So what do these three words remind you of? Is it a certain encounter you had with him/her/it, or the path you have traveled over the years, or is it just your own well-being and obscurity?

When I see these three words, I think of an elementary school composition, a composition topic most commonly used in elementary school, an article that can be written more than five times in elementary school without going off topic. Composition, its title is "Give up your seat". When talking about this topic, maybe everyone will recall that when we first wrote this article, we met an old man on the bus. Some people around him were pretending to sleep, and some were playing with their phones with their heads down, but I took the initiative to stand up and give up my seat. The act of giving up your seat is called upon by people, and giving up your seat for the elderly, weak, sick, disabled and pregnant is also the most common slogan and sign in public places. On this point, everyone may agree.

However, in society, more and more headlines surrounding giving up seats are no longer encouragement and praise, but have become criticism. It is said that young people are uneducated if they do not give up their seats. They all believe that young people should give up their seats as long as their limbs are healthy. Giving up their seats has become a natural "rule". But then again, how do you tell the difference among "the old, the weak, the sick, the disabled and the pregnant"? Those with gray hair are the elderly, children are the weak, those with crutches are the disabled, and the difference is even more obvious among pregnant women. But what about the sick? Does it mean that the sick should lie in bed instead of wandering around?

With these "I thought", the first reaction of the old people when they get on the bus is to go to the young people and wait desperately for their seats. Some even ask for them, but when they get the seats, they will say, "Young people nowadays are really If you are uneducated, you don’t even know how to give up your seat!” But who knows if the “young man” sitting in the seat is feeling unwell? Is she pregnant but just not showing it? Or maybe a disabled person that no one else can see?

Is "giving up your seat" voluntary or mandatory? Some old people say that I can’t stand anymore and have to sit for a while. Then who knows how long the “young man” who offers you his seat will have to stand? An hour? Two hours? Or longer? Some people get on the bus and start grabbing seats. Even the elderly can do it. They are so energetic and grab seats quickly and accurately. Do you really need someone to give up your seat?

I remember once on the subway, a pair of middle-aged people asked someone to give up their seats. Seeing that no one left, they said, "Why are young people nowadays so uneducated and don't even know how to give up their seats? They all read books." Where are you? What’s the use of reading so many books? How did your parents educate you? Yu Mianzi listened to your words and gave up his seat to you. He couldn't stop and fell down or even fainted. Who's to blame? Strangers point fingers at their family members and reluctantly give up their seats. In the end, no one will apologize to A for being hurt. Maybe you will say, 'We didn't force you to give up your seat. You stood up on your own. What does it have to do with us?' Then A has given you protection and made you comfortable, but what about A?”

We often hear people say that people who don’t give up their seats are selfish, so why not those who ask us to give up our seats and keep saying it in our ears? What about selfishness? There are old people, who may be stronger than young people, but they ask for seats based on their age. Isn't it selfish? If these reasons for giving up one’s seat “because of my age” are legitimate, then the reason for not giving up one’s seat, “I have to be myself, and sit peacefully in my seat, is my duty, and keep myself safe” is not wrong, right?

In an article "Give me your seat", maybe I will no longer write the same style as before. The scenes I wrote before no longer make people think that this person is worthy of praise in the eyes of today. , just did "what should be done".

Some people said that many times they asked to give up their seats when they were in difficulty (such as coming back from the hospital, or carrying several large and small bags...all kinds of times). They asked, could they just Do you have to wait until you get older to sit in a certain seat? Do you have the obligation to give up your seat to a stranger you don’t even know, and the reason is just because he is older? Does the world revolve around them and we are just their messengers?

I can’t answer this question. I think this is the current society. If you want to blame it, maybe I would blame it on the fact that we wrote too many "give up seats" in the past, which made it a "rule" in this era. and “necessities.”

I don’t know if this phenomenon will change in the future and return to the era when people voluntarily gave up their seats and were appreciated, and behaved themselves and were forgiven. I just think that the words of two unknown people are very reasonable: "I will let you go because of love. If I don't let you, it will just be because she/he is doing his/her duty!" "Who said everyone should surround you? Rotating around you? Even if it doesn’t revolve around you, the earth’s rotation will not stop. Days will still pass by, so don’t take yourself too seriously. Without you, the earth will still rotate.” Although the words are harsh, but carefully! Think about it, isn’t it? "Love", "duty" and "fate" are three seemingly unrelated words but they are inseparable. They seem to be inseparable but they bring us trouble.

"Giving up your seat" only expresses the relationship between these three people in this society. However, in events other than "giving up your seat", or even in the family, aren't there other places where everyone needs to reflect on themselves? I think it is your duty first, and it does not mean that everyone agrees with you to be right. It does not mean that you are right because you are older, senior, or have a higher status. Right and wrong are up to one's own mind, not that you can control other people's thoughts.

I do my best because of my duty, so I will meet you because of fate, and I will give in to you because of love! It’s not because it’s our duty to give in to you that we get to know each other, nor is it our duty to give in to each other!