Notes of Hefei Matchmaker: Love lies in ups and downs, while marriage lies in dullness.

Love is fireworks, and marriage is dull after all.

Coffee shops, cinemas, flowers and chocolates are all ways for lovers in love to express their love sweetness.

Teenagers are deeply in love, and a look and a passing can make their cheeks red and their hearts beat. In the world of love, everything is pure and beautiful, and a woman in love is as colorful as a blooming rose.

When a woman is young, she always longs for the romance of love. And the romance of love is like fireworks, colorful but fleeting.

There are many enviable loves, but few enviable marriages.

Some people say that marriage is the grave of love. It seems that a love will face the death penalty as long as it enters marriage. We have witnessed a happy marriage and an unhappy marriage, and understand that marriage will not destroy love, but will only make love dull.

When two people start to fall in love, they have endless words and endless freshness. This period is called passion period.

After maintaining for a period of time, the attraction of each other decreases, giving people the illusion that love has disappeared, so some people will feel that marriage is boring because they don't love each other.

However, marriage is actually the precipitation of love. The accumulated feelings are the truest appearance between husband and wife, and only the dullness of love is the beginning of marriage.

Some people, thinking that they don't love, let the marriage end hastily; Some people, thinking that they don't love, finally find that plain is the true face of marriage.

Sixteen-year-old Cece is lively, lovely and carefree. If this trajectory continues, when she becomes an adult, she will find a lovely husband, have some lovely children and live a happy and healthy life.

But all this came to an abrupt end when she met Flantz and fell in love. Flantz was the emperor of the Austrian Empire. Flantz is the emperor, and his marriage must be subordinated to his responsibilities.

At a blind date party organized by his mother, he was arranged to propose to a noble girl named Helen. Helen is dignified and virtuous, and she is the best person to be queen. Without Cece, Flantz and Helen would get married under the orders of their elders and live a quiet and passionate life. It was the lively Cece Genvrain who fell in love at first sight.

For the first time, Flantz disobeyed her mother's orders and insisted on marrying Cece, who was 16 years old. At that time, Cece was still a young girl, in the yearning for beautiful love. As the king of a country, Flantz can't give Hong Chen the splendor of love, but only marriage and responsibility.

As a queen, Cece doesn't have much time to enjoy herself with her husband. More often, she has to accompany her husband to perform the duties of the queen, and there is pressure to give birth to an imperial heir. Cece, who is still a girl, has not enjoyed the gorgeous love like fireworks, so she has to accept the dullness and responsibility of marriage. Cece fainted. Even if you are a queen, Cece, like most women, will meet her mother-in-law, who is still the powerful queen mother.

According to the description of available data, Emperor Flantz loves thinking very much, but as an emperor, he can't spend a lot of time with his wife and enjoy the sweetness and beauty of love with her. Flantz's love for his wife is reflected in his respect and love in marriage, while Cece is more eager for the sweetness of love.

Cece loves beauty very much, and takes several hours of physical exercise every day. In the conservative social atmosphere at that time, it was extremely disgraceful for the Queen to swing on the parallel bars. When the gossip spread in the society, her beloved husband chose to respect her and sealed the media for her.

When a woman is young, she always longs for the romance of love. And the romance of love is like fireworks, colorful but fleeting.

Cece and Flantz were too young to understand the meaning of marriage when they got married. In the boring marriage life and the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, they gradually lost themselves and their ability to make themselves happy.

It is said that marriage is the grave of love, but a mature and intelligent woman loves a long-term marriage. Time goes by every minute, and a dull marriage life is the true meaning of happiness.

A woman in love has a smile on her lips, but a smile will alienate people.

A woman's life should not only experience fireworks-like love, but also accept a dull marriage after all. In marriage, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, naughty children, will make women feel chicken feathers everywhere, so they are tired of plain love marriage, and the relationship between husband and wife is in a quagmire.

Recently, a photo of Academician Li Lanjuan was screened in the circle of friends. In the photo, Academician Zheng, the husband of the academician, is cutting vegetables and preparing for the New Year's Eve dinner. This scene touched thousands of ordinary couples in Qian Qian under the screen. Academician and his wife are famous all over the world. The fireworks touched our heartstrings and explained the true meaning of a happy marriage.

The happiness of marriage has nothing to do with fame and fortune. The rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in plain life, and the excitement and joy of raising children are the most real beauty in marriage.

We have worked hard all our lives, after all, for the stability of the world and the quiet years. Love as gorgeous as fireworks is beautiful, but the plain happiness of marriage is our tireless pursuit!

Love is always sweet, and lovers who indulge in it fantasize about a bright future while enjoying love. At that time, every lover firmly believed that this love would last forever. However, when we really entered the marriage, we found that those once sweet feelings were replaced by quarrels, and the long-term feelings we believed in gradually became dull.

In fact, in marriage, dullness is not a bad thing. Love needs ups and downs and life is dull, but we can't lose emotional care because of dullness, and we can't condemn marriage as the grave of love because of dullness. Long-term emotion lies in a person's attitude, but also in how to maintain it. Only by maintaining the feelings in marriage can we always be happy.

Yao Da's song goes like this: This moment is you, let me know that love should be cherished. In the plain story, love means that you have me and I have you.

Marriage is not a simple agreement, but a spiritual bond between two people. The meaning of marriage lies in where you belong to each other. From the beginning, you are no longer lovers, but family.

Just as Gorky said: Marriage is a combination of two people's spirits, aiming at overcoming all difficulties and hardships in the world.

And what you think of as a dull marriage life is actually the essence of life, because life is dull.

The best gift that time gives to love is the feelings that have settled down. Without the support of freshness and passion, there is less intensity and more tenderness.

Envy of love is often vigorous, envy of marriage is often ordinary.

Because after love is dull, it is the true face of marriage and the performance of life. Had a fight, slammed the door out, brought food back, and moved on. Singing a classic that is difficult to sing in your own home all your life, this is marriage.

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