If you could go back in time, which year would you most like to go back to and why?

I want to go back to 2017.

I once had a very good friend. She was a very lively and lovely girl, but she would think a lot about very emotional girls in the middle of the night. The classmates in the class at that time said that I looked very similar to her. We were so good that we bought the same clothes and shoes, bought the same bicycles despite the objections of our parents, went to educational institutions to make money by handing out flyers, and secretly bought bus tickets to Shenyang together. , they would go to other people’s fitting rooms to try on clothes, take crazy photos, and do crazy things together. One of them was that they cut their hair very short together at the beginning of the second semester of high school. It was very short, just above the ears, which surprised many classmates.

It was really crazy. Later, she broke up with her boyfriend and she was in a very bad mood. Finally one day we had a big fight over a trivial matter. Our relationship has been in a relationship since then. We went downhill, and slowly we separated. We no longer wore the same clothes, and we no longer talked to each other easily. We were like half strangers. It was so strange and such a pity.

I often pay attention to her, and I can feel that she often pays attention to me, but I can never go back to the past. Just last month, I met her on the train. She is now She had a boyfriend who loved her very much in college, and they were very happy. We just had a brief conversation, and I walked out of the carriage. I couldn't stay any longer. I stood in the smoking area until I got off the bus. I didn’t even say goodbye. I was afraid, I was afraid that we would have to carry our luggage all the time. The awkward situation of not knowing what to say replayed over and over again in my mind. Thinking of this, I chose not to say goodbye.

As for why I want to go back to 2017, it’s because in the past few years, I have understood a truth. If you really want to be friends with someone, you have to spend a long time. You can’t put all your sense of humor in a short period of time. Dedicate time to the same person. In this case, before new growth occurs, there will be no gap between the two. It is like two trains meeting each other. The closer they get, the faster they go. On the contrary, there is a force that pushes them out and keeps them. A friend should leave room and seek common ground while reserving differences. In college, I also met a friend I like very much. She is very similar to her. She is very emotional and likes to think a lot. This time I chose to leave room. I am not far from her. Not close, maybe not so-called best friends so they won't be the first to break up.