The reason for not returning my messages &; The meaning of giving gifts

I spent a long time reading what you wrote, and I was deeply touched. Our situation is very similar, so I am most qualified to answer this question. ..

First of all, I tell you that my story is basically the same as your beginning, development and climax, but the ending is that I have completely failed. I hope you don't end in failure!

Later, I analyzed that girls like this are generally reserved, introverted, and face-saving, or vanity, afraid to take the initiative in the face of emotions, afraid of being hurt or rejected, so much face!

So you have to be thick-skinned, don't pretend to be an intellectual or a literate person, wait for her to take the initiative, and don't even think about it until you die! Don't care about her reaction, be generous when giving gifts, and be generous when wishing you a happy holiday. Don't procrastinate and be indecisive, because these things are what she hates most! I'm just lost in indecision!

I'm sure she has no feelings for you, or she's not sure whether you will bring her happiness, eternity and hope! So she has been keeping her distance from you to cool you down, because she wants to test you and see if you can really let her rely on you! However, from what you said, it's a pity that you didn't stand the test. You gave up halfway to pursue another girl! Just like my mistake ...

I'm telling you, you still have a chance to save it. Don't be male chauvinist. Find a chance to ask her out and talk it over. I believe that if you are attractive enough, she has no reason to refuse to be your girlfriend. All you have to do is make her believe you. You can handle this yourself. If a man wants a woman to fall in love with him, the first thing he has to do is to make the woman believe him!

I can see that you have always maintained high self-esteem and love face in your attitude towards these things, just like me, but my ending was a failure. I hope you can rewrite this ending! You know what I mean, that is to say, too much self-esteem is not necessarily a good thing, you should consider slowly letting go of your blind self-esteem (don't be too face-saving, you are a man, you can't let girls take the initiative! And it is this kind of girl who won't take the initiative, which is why those text messages are so intimate. She won't let you leave, but she can never tell you this voluntarily! ), pursue your own love!

Calm down and think about it. You'd better find a chance to talk openly with her, after all, it has happened with her for so long! (E-mail or writing is ok)

I hope you don't approach carefully like hedgehogs, and then leave quickly for fear of hurting each other. If this feeling was in ancient times, maybe the world was at peace and all's well that ends well, but what age is it now? Speak out your love boldly, pursue it hard, and never regret it in the future! Hesitant, arrogant, waiting for others to dig your corner, you will regret it yourself!

Maybe I'm a little emotional and impulsive. I hope you can understand what I mean. Be brave and fight like a man!

I sincerely hope that you can change the ending, which may be a comfort to me!