What should women do if they encounter persuasion in the workplace?

1, lack of wine, use words to make up.

If you don't have enough to drink, you can always say, "Leader, I really can't drink because of physical reasons. I sincerely propose a cup of tea to you. Although tea is not as strong as liquor, I care about you very much. I wish you good health. "

2. Preemptive strike

If you don't drink, take the initiative to propose a toast. If the leader comes to toast you with a glass, you will be passive in toasting with tea. Therefore, it is the best way to propose a toast to the leader and explain why you can't drink.

"Zhao Zong, I am allergic to alcohol. Please forgive me. Although I can't drink, I have a correct attitude. I'll drink this first. Thank you for always taking care of me. " Then I gulped it down.

3. Learning to walk is the best policy

On the wine table, we should be smart. In the middle of the bar, you can tell everyone that you are going to rest in the bathroom. If it really hurts, you throw up, which will be better.

When you really can't drink it, everyone's interest comes back. At this time, you can send a message to your family or friends and ask them to call themselves to help you out, so that you can find a place to drink some water and have a rest.

4. Find friends or family to play and leave the table early.

Say hello to family and friends in advance, or secretly send a message to each other, and call yourself at a certain point to say that I have an important emergency and I have to go first. In this case, if you want to leave first, you can punish yourself for three cups as an apology.

One more thing is very important. If you know that you can't escape this meal, you must try to fill your stomach first, so that you are less likely to get drunk. Even if you are really drunk, you won't hurt your stomach so much.

Remember, even if you don't want to drink at the wine table, you must never refuse, otherwise it will only push the whole scene to embarrassment. As long as the relationship is good, you can drink as much as you want.

We will inevitably meet friends who like moral kidnapping. They like to toast us with friendship on the wine table. At this time, you must learn to reject them with high emotional intelligence, otherwise they may go online to make friends with us, and it will be difficult for you to get rid of him. For example, we can say, "only when our feelings are not enough, will we take other things to make up for it." We have such a deep friendship that we can't mix with water. ! "I believe that said these, the other party should not force you to drink.

2. As long as the feelings are in place, you will be intoxicated without drinking.

Those who can handle the wine business with ease are especially enviable. They can not only talk glibly, but also make each other happy when they refuse to drink. Not only will they not be blamed, but they will regard him as a good brother. There was a colleague Xiao Zhang who really admired his ability to refuse to drink. When others propose a toast to him, he will say, "drinking with people you don't like is a painful thing;" Drinking with the person you like is a kind of intoxication. When you come together, it means that your feelings are in place. As long as the feelings are in place, you will be intoxicated without drinking. "

As long as you have feelings, you drink wine.

We know that you can't avoid drinking when you walk to the wine table. If you don't drink, people will think you are dirty and no one will pay attention to you. Therefore, if you really can't touch alcohol, you might as well persuade the other party to replace alcohol with drinks or tea. You ask him, "Do we feel anything?" He will answer you: "Yes!" You use this situation to say, "As long as you have feelings, all you drink is wine. What is affection? Emotion is understanding. Long live understanding! " Then you worship him with tea instead of wine.

Shallow feelings are useless even if you drink a big bowl.

On the wine table, a thousand words boil down to just one word "drink". A common saying on the wine table is "Have deep feelings, drink." People who persuade people to drink are always caught off guard, and how much wine they drink is related to the depth of their feelings. So, if you really can't drink it, you'd better pay attention to the method of rejecting them. You can say, "If the depth of feelings is directly proportional to how much you drink, then this glass of wine can't reflect our deepest feelings. We should jump into the jar together, because we have known each other for many years and our feelings are too deep.

5, in order not to hurt feelings, I drink; I want to drink a little so as not to harm my health.

I'd rather drink a hole in my stomach than break your feelings! This sentence is not good at all, but it is always used by people who advise people to drink, so in this case, in order not to hurt the feelings of both sides, you can say, "We should drink rationally. In order not to hurt feelings, I must drink your cup; But in order not to hurt my body, I will drink a little, so that my feelings are good and my body is saved? " I believe that if you say so, the other party will not let you drink any more.