What kind of message can you send to a man to judge whether he loves you or not?

In the internet age, many people communicate online, and some men and women communicate with each other and express their feelings. However, after all, people often can't see each other's real thoughts except words through a screen.

In fact, even if you communicate online, you can see each other's ideas from the text. Come to think of it, the pace of life is fast now, and everyone is very busy. Since he is willing to spend time chatting with you, it shows that he still has feelings in his heart. As for the depth of feelings, we can also see him from some aspects.

Chen Lan and Peng Xin are in an ambiguous stage. They are high school classmates. Although they have a certain emotional foundation, they haven't seen each other for ten years. This time, the two met by chance.

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The two chatted for a while and found that the other side had changed a lot. Chen Lan became beautiful, Peng Xin became steady, and both of them had a good impression on each other. However, there was not much time for small talk, so Peng Xin broke up with Chen Lan because of other things, and they agreed to contact by mobile phone.

After returning home in the evening, Chen Lan received a short message from Peng Xin, which was nothing more than care and consideration. Once the chatterbox is opened, it can't stop. They first asked each other how they had been these years, and then praised each other for their great changes and getting better and better.

Evening is the most emotional time of the day. After the first class reunion, the two began to chat. It's almost two months now. Chen Lan likes Peng Xin more and more, and she will be happy for a long time every time she receives news from Peng Xin.

With the deepening of love, the more you care about a person, the easier it is to think. Chen Lan feels that Peng Xin's attitude towards her is very cold recently, and the speed of replying to messages is much slower. They seem to have no topic.

Chen Lan thought that this would not always be romantic. Peng Xin doesn't like herself at all. It's just his courtesy to reply to the message. In this way, Chen Lanyue became more and more sad.

A few days ago, Chen Lan complained to me about it, and I smiled and said? Don't you doubt that he doesn't like you? I'll teach you to test him. You can tell him that you are ill and in a bad mood, and see how he reacts. ?

Chen Lan said? Does this work? If he doesn't have any ideas, then I'm not kidding! ? Then, I encouraged her: give it a try. Besides, you talked for so long. How could you not know? ?

Chen Lan wanted to think, agreed to this practice. She sent a message without any hope, so she packed up and prepared to wash, and even regretted sending a message when washing. However, when Chen Lan came out from the shower and turned on his cell phone, he saw a string of short messages and missed calls.

While in a daze in Chen Lan, Peng Xin sent another message:? What's the matter with you? Do you need to go to the hospital? I'll drive to pick you up now. ? Chen Lan quickly replied:? No, I just have a headache. I'm much better now. ?

Chen Lan smiled sweetly and told me the follow-up of this matter. She said that she and Peng Xin have now established a relationship between men and women, and they are very affectionate, loving and happy.

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In fact, whether a man loves you or perfunctory you can also be tested. When two people get along, when a woman doesn't understand a man's mind, don't think alone, think about a man's mind from her own point of view. You know, sending such a message to a man can tell whether he really loves you or perfunctory you.

I'm sick?

When you tell a man that you are ill, the man who loves you will be very concerned about your health. After learning that you are ill, he will try his best to care for you. He may buy you medicine and send it to your home. He may also drive you to the hospital for examination or come to take care of you at home.

But a man who doesn't love you will only be perfunctory when he sees this news. Well, then drink more hot water. ? There is no doubt that the difference between true love and perfunctory suddenly stands out.

You know, you can't hide or pretend that you really care about someone. Therefore, sending such a message to a man can judge whether he really loves you or perfunctory you.

I'm short of money recently?

It is said that a man who spends money for you does not necessarily mean that he loves you, but he must not love you if he doesn't spend money for you.

This sentence also has some truth. If you tell a man that you are short of money recently, and the man pretends not to understand, reply:? Really? Well, I'm short of money recently, so I have to scrimp and save. And so on, then he doesn't really love you.

Because he doesn't care why you are short of money and what you want to do with it, but he has distanced himself from this topic for the first time.

A man who really loves you will care why you are in a hurry to use money recently. If he had more money, he would lend it to you at the first time. Even if not, he will care about comforting you, not perfunctory you.

Am I angry?

A man who loves you will put down his work to coax you as soon as he knows that you are angry. Even if he doesn't know why you are angry, he will pay attention to your emotional changes and understand your inner thoughts.

If there is a quarrel between you, you can send him such a message, and you can also judge whether a man really loves you or perfunctory you.

Because the man who really loves you will apologize to you for the first time and say to you? I was wrong, dear. Don't be angry again. ?

But if this man doesn't love you, or pretends to be with you, then he will only feel uneasy about your anger, or even perfunctory? What's the matter with you? 、? Why don't you think for yourself? .

Love a person can't be hidden. Although there should be no temptation in love, women should know whether men are sincere or false. After all, love is a matter for two people. Being in love correctly is happiness, while being in love wrongly is disaster.