Why do men like to send messages at night?

To analyze a man's psychology of sending messages to others at night, we must know what the preconditions are! First of all, we need to know whether this man is married/dating or unmarried; Secondly, we need to know whether the gender of the person he sent the message is male or female; Once again, we need to know whether his information content is of a work nature or a life nature.

Only by knowing these preconditions can we know what kind of psychology it is for men to send messages to others at night!

First, if a man is unmarried and sends a message to a woman, and the content of the message is not the work content, then the man likes this woman in nine cases out of ten. However, whether the law allows it or not, it is morally shameful for non-single men to do such a thing. You'd better tell him directly and don't send messages to yourself at night.

Second, if a man is single, the object of the message belongs to a woman, and the content of the communication is not about work, then the man also likes this woman. Of course, the method he may use is not correct. After all, if the opposite sex has no absolute affection for him, sending messages to the opposite sex he likes at night will greatly reduce his image. If you don't dislike him, you can choose to tell him gently, and you can choose other time periods to chat instead of midnight. If you are disgusted with him, I suggest telling him directly that you want to sleep at night and don't disturb him.

Third, if the man is not single, and the message is sent to the man, the content sent at the same time belongs to the work content. Either you have offended the other person, or the other person lacks a string in his mind. A mature man, even if he needs to find someone else for work, generally speaking, he will not choose the middle of the night when it is not very urgent. If he is not the boss, you can choose to refuse directly. If you are the boss, it depends on whether the attraction of your current job can offset the torture he brings you.

Fourth, men are single, and at the same time, they will send information about their work to their female colleagues. Please refer to the third point, or simply refuse. If you can't refuse, you should decide according to the attraction of your job.

To put it bluntly, the same rice has raised hundreds of people. In the workplace, we can encounter all kinds of wonderful things. Everyone has his own way of life. A qualified person with emotional intelligence often does not choose to disturb others at night. Some special situations are mutual appreciation or good relationship with each other. But judging from your problem, you can rule out the possibility of a good relationship.

It is best to make clear and ambiguous suggestions, which will make the other party push your luck.