How to write a letter from home to your daughter who is going to college far away?

The following is a letter from the father to his daughter:

Baby, time flies, the sun and the moon fly. A long time ago, when I was a baby, I learned English and was toddler in the yard. Unconsciously, you have grown up, and in a blink of an eye, you will go to college. It stands to reason that 18 is an adult, so I shouldn't have worried. It's just that you haven't left home since you were born. I've been worried that you can't take care of yourself outside. I understand and support your saying that you don't want to go to college locally. The sky is vast outside, so you can fly at will.

You hate preaching, but I still want to say a few words when you go out to study. It may not have any effect on you, but it is a comfort to me.

Being a moral person is nothing new. I mainly want to talk about how to do it. Morality is first and foremost a kind of practice, and goodness cannot be confined to the heart. I remember once taking a bus, I gave my seat to an old man. At that time, you and your sister both said that they didn't expect me to give up my seat. Let me ask you, isn't that what the teacher taught you? You said yes, but you felt a little embarrassed when you did it. I understand the psychology of young people. When I first started helping others, I was also very concerned about other people's eyes. Now that I think about it, it's totally unnecessary. A good thing, no self-interest, what are you worried about, afraid to talk about? There are many small things in life, as long as they are handy, they are a kind of good deeds. Don't be stingy when you can help others The world will become a better place because of your little efforts.

▲ About major

The quality of a major is relative and dialectical. A good major today does not mean a good major forever. When everyone thinks a major is good, it is not far from destruction. Don't measure the quality of a major by the standard of interest. Choosing a major is choosing an interest. No matter how hot the major is, no matter how strong the subject is, it is meaningless if you don't like it. The criteria of interest are not long, but the criteria of interest are more stable. Doing what you like and reading your favorite books is a great enjoyment of life. Pick what you like, learn what you love, work should be happier, and life will have a higher quality. With the continuous development of human society, the professional division of labor is more detailed, but the professional division of labor cannot be divided into two. All kinds of majors are ways to explain the world. If you dabble in them widely, you will be smarter.

▲ About knowledge

"Reading is useless" exists, and so do people who make a fortune without reading. But the case can't explain the problem, and the common phenomenon is convincing. Anyone who knows a little common sense knows that knowledge can't be ignored even when measured by money. Otherwise, famous multinational companies attach great importance to intellectual factors, which is inexplicable. As long as you do a simple statistics, you will find that knowledge and income are positively related. Whether reading is useful depends on how you look at it. You can't just take "money" as the standard. Knowledge makes life more possible. Knowledge determines a person's temperament, interest, vision, appreciation level and values ... these are the key factors affecting the quality of life. These are the results of knowledge edification, not the products of money exchange. If you can realize that there are many more meaningful lifestyles after graduation, then this university will not be in vain.

▲ About reading

The biggest difference between a university and a high school is that there are more freedoms and more people who squander them. I hope you can take advantage of this rare freedom and read more books. Nowadays, many young people don't like reading. They can spend a lot of time shopping, Taobao, playing games and chatting online ... but they refuse to spend time reading quietly. I once wrote a reading message to students: "Fall in love with a good book while you are young." I emphasize that it is not easy to take time out to study when you are young and step into the society. I also emphasize reading good books. Some books are really harmful, lacking in thought and mediocre in content. Reading is like making friends, you should carefully identify them, unless you are good, you should stay away. A simple way is to read classics, which are the product of time choice and the result of readers' picky. There must be a reason why a book becomes a classic. As long as it is a classic, watch it as long as you want.

▲ About competition

Now, we need to speak with strength. Rules should be more and more fair, and competition will be more and more cruel. Dad is a stubborn man. He doesn't like asking for help at work, and he seldom asks others for help. I transferred from primary school to junior high school because the principal thought I was capable of teaching junior high school. Later, the school in the county recruited six teachers, and I got the third place, but I didn't. It doesn't matter, I don't ask others. The next year, I was admitted to graduate school and left that place. Do not rely on human feelings, rely on ability to compete. Although it's hard, it's great to win the respect of others outside and get peace of mind! You know, if a person doesn't want to live a humble life, he must have the capital to hold his head high. You should seize the opportunity to improve yourself. Face up to the stormy life and meet the challenges of the times.