How to solve the long-term cold war between husband and wife?

The cold war is a way to deal with many people quarreling. It hurts the feelings of husband and wife very much. A brief cold war can calm each other down and think hard. The long cold war is very harmful.

How to solve the long-term cold war between husband and wife

1. The cold war between husband and wife did great harm to their feelings. What's more, your present situation has been cold war for a long time. Now you believe that you can calmly think about any problems you encounter between husband and wife. Now that you have paid attention to this problem, the first thing you need to do is to try your best to communicate with your other half. There is no problem in communication between two people, so you should handle the contradiction well.

If you want to end the cold war between husband and wife, you should be the first person to bow your head. Even if you lower your head to talk to him now, he won't look up at you and never give you a particularly warm smile. But from the moment we decide to get back together with him, we must be fully prepared. As long as our confidence is stronger, as long as we can make him feel that your love for him is the most sincere, we believe that the cold war will end.

What will happen to the long-term cold war between husband and wife

1. The relationship between husband and wife becomes weak

During the cold war, couples waiting for each other to compromise first will only make each other feel that they no longer care about themselves. In this case, each other will temporarily forget each other's good feelings, feelings will gradually fade away in silence, and resentment will deepen. No matter who wins in the end, it is your marriage that loses.

2. Produce "suspicious heart disease"

Both of them were silent and did not speak. After a long time, they will start to doubt each other. The wife will check her husband's mobile phone when he is away to see if there are any strange calls and ambiguous text messages. When the husband saw his wife go out, he suspected that she was outside. The longer the cold war lasts, the suspicion will turn into suspicion, and even after reconciliation, it will leave a shadow in his heart.

3. It is easy to cause "infidelity"

During the cold war, everyone kept their grievances in their hearts. On the surface, it looks calm, but inside it is very depressed. At this time, they ignored each other and had nowhere to put their feelings. They are likely to go outside to talk and seek comfort. At this time, if someone is with you, it is easy to rely on this person. The more frequent the cold war, the more likely it is to cause derailment.

4. Affect children's growth

Husband and wife don't talk for a long time. This depressing atmosphere makes the child feel less warm at home, and the child will feel that he has been left out, and his heart will be cranky. In the long run, children will become introverted, some will become silent like their parents, and some will even suffer from autism.

What if couples often have a cold war after quarreling?

In the course of life, couples may have differences because of a small matter, which may lead to quarrels. Moreover, in the process of disputes, couples may not give in because they don't want to lose face, which leads to the cold war between husband and wife. So what is the solution for couples after the cold war? There are three main solutions: husband and wife must deal with the cold war in time, and one of them should put down his posture and show weakness, and communicate through SMS during the cold war. The reason why couples should deal with the cold war in time is because if the cold war develops into cold violence, the relationship between the two people may be difficult to repair. In addition, one of them shows weakness to the other, which is not a performance of losing face, but a performance of loving each other. If you are embarrassed to talk to each other during the cold war, you can communicate indirectly through text messages and telephone calls.

1, the cold war between husband and wife must be handled in time.

The cold war caused by quarrel must be dealt with in time. If it is delayed, it will easily affect the life of husband and wife. The cold war will often develop into an inertia cold war after a long time. After one party is completely disappointed with the other, the inertia cold war will develop into cold violence, so the relationship between two people may be difficult to repair and may also lead to divorce. Therefore, after the cold war, husband and wife must handle it well, and they can't keep dragging their feet and hurting each other.

2. One spouse should put down his posture and show weakness.

Showing weakness to each other is not a sign of losing face, but a sign of loving each other. In addition, if there is a cold war in the quarrel, it may not necessarily make a particular party put down its posture and accommodate. Right or wrong, after all, after weakness, two people return to rationality and naturally know who is right and who is wrong. During the Cold War, active weakness of husband and wife is a necessary condition to maintain this marriage. Don't abandon the person who loves you for your so-called face, which is not worth the loss. Show weakness to the other party appropriately. If the other party wants to be with you, it will definitely give you a step down. In this case, won't the cold war between you be over?

3. Communicate by SMS during the Cold War.

If the cold war lasts for a long time, then husband and wife must communicate with each other at ordinary times. Many people insist on a situation where you lose and I win, because they can't save face, but they often end up losing both sides. So if you are embarrassed to talk to each other during the Cold War, you can communicate indirectly through text messages and telephone calls. Don't keep fighting and hurting each other, which will lead to both sides losing.

How to improve the cold war of husband and wife separation

If we want to improve the separation between husband and wife in the cold war, we should try our best to create some romance for each other, which can successfully arouse his yearning for your love and imagine those romantic times when you were together. When he thinks that you were so kind to him before, now you will give him many promises and make many changes. Are we afraid that he will not give you a chance? Still afraid that he will not take the initiative to end the cold war?