Smart words remind others that today is my birthday.

Well, if you want to use words skillfully to remind others that today is your birthday, I think you can say it in a circle of friends in advance and send some messages, such as the year after next is different from today, and the year after next is more euphemistic.

Or you can simply say, alas, I was still with someone at this time last year, which made me feel very moved. Most people will ask why you are with you, or what special day you have had. You can say, alas, nothing special, most people will continue to ask questions.