Dear love experts, come in and help me, thank you very much!

Control your own happiness,,, Come on, I support you! ! !

Teach you another way! ! ! !

Lesson one

Chasing a girl, of course, you must first know the girl's mobile phone number, and then you must have that meaning to her.

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Send a short message: "I was very happy to chat with you last time." Can I invite you out to chat again? "

Note: If the girl agrees, she should make some efforts to find a place, which can be a quiet bar.

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Don't go to restaurants when you are young.

Lesson 2

Don't forget to send a short message when you get home from the date: Nice talking to you and looking forward to meeting you again.

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It’s your turn. Good Night!

Let her know that you are a sweet person. You can send her an interesting message the next day. For example:

1. This is the panda's birthday. He was asked what his wishes were. The giant panda said: I only have two wishes in my life. One is to find.

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Chinese medicine removed my dark circles, and secondly, I wanted to take a color photo.

2. I am Yuanmou from Yunnan, and you are from Zhoukou, Beijing; I hold your furry hand and take a bite.

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Love, let's walk upright.

Let her know that you are a humorous person.

Note: Don't make dirty jokes!

Lesson 3

Girls are vain. You can send some messages like this at ordinary times:

1, I think what you are wearing today is very special and cute.

2. Seeing your beautiful skirt today will make my eyes fall.

Don't be stingy with your description of beauty, be as beautiful as you want.

Lesson 4

I've been in contact for a while, and it's time for you to present your treasure. Please the woman you like with your short message.

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All right.

1, (hint) If there is an afterlife, let's be mice, love each other foolishly and live simply.

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Snuggling together is silly.

2. (Warm reminder) Are you busy? Nothing, I just want to tell you in a way that doesn't bother you. I miss you and hope you.

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When you receive my message, there is a smile on your lips, let your friends around you know that you are happy.

3. (Ask her to answer the question) Do you know what I am doing? Give you five choices: a, miss you; B, I miss you very much; C, not

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Miss you; D, don't think that you can't; E. all of the above.

4. (Issue weather forecast) Tomorrow's minimum temperature 1 degree and maximum temperature1degree. Let me tell you: I care about the weather,

as soon as...

I care about you. Don't forget to add another dress (XX, yourself).

Lesson Five

The advantage of texting is to say what you usually dare not say to your face, even if it is sour, girls, all

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I like sweet words and things that others care about. But pay attention to the following matters:

1, the number is small, girls should not like boys with mother-in-law, are they bored around all day?

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2. Don't always send short messages copied online, but use your own thinking.

3, occasionally it rains for three days and dries the net for two days, playing hard to get. After a series of short message bombardments, suddenly there was no news for a day or two.

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Yes, when your news becomes a hungry part of a girl's life, she will wonder why you didn't send me a message today.

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? When she sends you a text message, no matter what she says, you're halfway there.

4. After giving enough short message care, the first short message a girl sends you is often a complaint, such as "I'm bored to death.

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"I'm going to collapse", "I'm depressed" and so on, hey hey, what are you waiting for? Girls need it most and are the easiest to catch up with.

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Hurriedly encourage her: "In fact, the sky is blue, and the clouds will always disperse." "In fact, the sea is not wide, and this shore is connected with the other." "In fact,

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Also sweet, when your heart has a wish ","In fact, I want you to be happy every day ".

It is necessary to call her after sending a text message.

What kind of first impression should I leave on MM (time: when I first came into contact with MM)

1, I think the most important thing is to let MM see your self-motivated.

The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people can't be "successful" if they don't work long hours. At this time, you should make MM feel that you are a self-motivated person.

Others can talk nonsense, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell MM that you are full of confidence in the future, that you are not satisfied with the status quo, and that you have a long-term plan. In short, you

Our future is not a dream.

2. Be confident and responsible.

Don't be a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to rely on. You should show your confidence and sense of responsibility.

It's better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.

If you have confidence, don't overdo it, otherwise it will become narcissism, and girls are most disgusted.

Not too formal, but not too casual.

Be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should be ridiculed.

Girls like men who are a little cynical, so it seems that they don't care about anything, which is too dull. f？

Step 4 look mature

A leisurely man has fatal attraction to mm.

Second, how to further contact MM (time: the stage of starting to chase)

1, the most important thing at this stage is not to worry, not to make things so clear that people can see at a glance that you are chasing others.

Think about it, most people don't like you at first sight, but they don't hate you at first sight. They are all children of ordinary people (unless you look like Chow Yun Fat, Andy Lau or kevin costner).

Good feeling needs to be realized through constant understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

Think about it from the girl's point of view: if you rush directly to have sex, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If you don't like you after a period of contact, it's not.

Is it a trick? So if you come out resolutely from the beginning, you will basically be bored back immediately.

Step 2 start with a low profile

First of all, we should position the relationship as a "friend", which is originally an "ordinary friend". You want to be a "good friend". A tasteful person can also ask the other person to become a "confidante" or something. In short,

Never say "chase you". Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then girls will have no chance to "refuse".

This can relieve the psychological pressure of girls and let you have a smooth relationship. Don't fantasize about agreeing to marry you after three days. You should fully communicate and understand. Feelings don't come out of thin air.

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Don't be too impatient in the process of communication.

Relax and don't pester others all day. Anyone who does this to you will get tired of it. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing girls is eight words-"hot and cold, playing hard to get"

This is the crystallization of my classmates' efforts for many years.

Staying with people all day, naturally you won't think you are good. If you are indifferent for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your existence.

Also, don't take out the ambition of "unless you don't marry" It is not good for the price to drop too low. Sometimes you can play a little trick.

4. Create opportunities appropriately.

I said before, don't turn things into "you are chasing others" right away, you need to get close to girls. At this time, it depends on your creativity.

Make a strong daily exercise plan.

Exercise can relieve mental stress and depression, which is definitely the basis for solving problems. When you feel stressed, you can double your exercise.

You can collect information,

Find a way to turn waiting for rabbits into encounters; You can also pretend to be casual and find the best reason to invite someone to do something with you.

In short, this is the most technical place. If it is really not feasible, you can consult your predecessors.

5. Never: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually.

Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things for others often, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo. ? As the saying goes, "get something for nothing", you are giving people such things.

If you exert pressure, people will feel that they owe you, so they will try to pay you back. If they can't pay you back, they will try to keep away from you, so that they won't always owe you a favor.

If you want to show your sincerity, invite girls to spend money together, for example, find a good restaurant to eat, or find an expensive place to play together, so girls can naturally see that you spend money.

A lot of money, but after all, money is spent by two people, not something to take home.

Third, what is a "girlfriend"?

1, "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise.

You start dating girls, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends" to "very, very good friends who talk about everything". On a sunny afternoon, you were "careless"

Pulled her hand; In "Willow Shoot on the Moon", you suddenly attack and kiss her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks you are her boyfriend.

I know the best. I didn't ask "Would you like to be my girlfriend" until I went to bed. Finally, the girl was anxious: "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend!" " So,

Don't rush to break the window paper, the more hazy the situation, the better for you.

2. What is "confession"?

As I said before, confession is actually just a form, and the correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend, and you can confess to others. Many people can't get it.

Knowing this problem, I always feel that people promised to be their girlfriends first, and then what happened. I can only say that they are very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid". Ching Dynasty

3. Have you ever had to confess?

Yes, for example, there is a third party, or your relationship with a girl is immature, but two people may be separated for a while. The confession at this time is a confession with immature conditions and great risks.

Similar to the situation when playing Go, the backward side is forced to release the "winner". If you win, you win. If you lose, you can only say that you are born with bad luck.

4. Don't export the word "love" easily.

I often see a "bold confession" in the forum. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit and commitment.

It even embodies a kind of responsibility.

A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.