The girl texted that you disturbed my life. If it is really for my good, please don't contact me again. I like her very much. Do you want to keep chasing her?

There are great differences between men and women. The girl said 100 broke up, but none of them were true. Boys say 1 break up, which is mostly the result of careful consideration. Many girls will be a little slow to respond to the sudden breakup of boys. It was fine a few days ago, so why break up now? For a long time after breaking up, girls were very sad about this difficult life, but it really made girls angry to see that boys still lived a regular and normal life. Why do I suffer so much, but he seems like nothing happened? In fact, there is a process from the idea of breaking up to the real proposal of breaking up, and in this process, the girl doesn't know it, but she is still with the boy. In other words, boys spent the most difficult time with girls, but girls suddenly accepted the news passively. This process is a process of active production and passive acceptance, which leads to different States after breaking up. Running away is mainly to show that most of the breakups proposed by boys are the result of careful consideration. The idea of breaking up, from birth to implementation, will go through a difficult process and will take into account all aspects. If we finally decide to break up, ten cows can't be pulled back. Moreover, most of the breakups girls said were angry and passed away in a hubbub. In this case, if you want to save it, it will test the wisdom and ability of girls. 1. It is a difficult process to establish a good mentality and maintain a peaceful mentality. At this time, the two people are very familiar with each other and know all the shortcomings of each other. They even have an unbearable image in each other's mind: he will think that she is not gentle and considerate enough, and she will think that he is self-centered in everything and never considers her feelings. When two people break up, the evaluation of each other is often so bad that they completely forget what they were like when they were in love, and the rest are complaints, dissatisfaction, criticism and accusations. Therefore, before you save it, you must know that his evaluation of you now is terrible, and this kind of him is by no means something you can easily save. In the process of recovery, you may encounter his indifference, rejection and disgust. If you are treated like this, your mentality will collapse, which is basically irreparable. If you are determined to save it, you must do a good job in psychological construction, be prepared to be rejected by him, and be prepared to tear down the fence and continue walking even if you hit the south wall. No matter what happens, you should always be calm, or even if your mood fluctuates, you should try to get rid of it immediately and let your mood return to its original position. Keeping a good attitude and completing it successfully is half the battle. 2. Reduce the sense of demand and contact. Many girls can't stand the sudden pain of being alone after breaking up and will try their best to save their ex-boyfriends. The wrong methods used include: intensive bombing such as sending text messages and making phone calls; Please lower the bottom line and hope he can get back together; Self-abuse to gain sympathy; Find a friend to say a good word; Run to each other's place or unit. The end result is that your ex-boyfriend becomes more annoying or repulsive to you. Now that he has decided to break up with you, it is inevitable that you will not meet the standards of his girlfriend at this time. If you are still trying to get back together and blindly reduce your image instead of trying to change yourself back to the lovely little fairy, then these methods are of course ineffective, and they are temporary solutions rather than permanent solutions. Even if he is soft-hearted and gets back together with you for a while, your feelings will be difficult to repair, and the two will only become jittery and cautious. So at this time, we should reduce our sense of need and try to control ourselves. Maybe many girls will have this situation. I know I should not pester him and contact him again, but I just can't help it. Now, if you can't control it, you must. You can't set the wolf free without your children. If you can't control yourself, your relationship will probably get worse. When you can't control it, you might as well go out to play with your girlfriends, so it's not so difficult to control yourself when you are busy. This shows that girls should never alienate their girlfriends because of love. When you are hurt, she is the one who will always be with you. At this time, reducing the sense of demand, on the one hand, avoids continuing to struggle with the decline of image, on the other hand, can effectively enhance his sense of demand for you. When you don't cry or talk to him, and he doesn't know your news, he will think, what are you doing, how are you recently, have you met any new opposite sex? When he is curious about you and especially wants to know your recent situation, you will be one step closer to success.