Crash Skills

Put high emotional intelligence into every move and teach you to be a high emotional intelligence person with tips.

At the dinner table, as a younger generation, we should have a look to see if the tea of the elders is enough, and see who is missing chopsticks and spoons, running more errands and talking less.

When you receive email, text message, phone call and other information, you should reply in time. One is to reassure family members, and the other is to leave a responsible impression on leading colleagues.

Treat others as people above others and treat yourself as people below yourself.

The wind and water turn, thirty years east, thirty years west. Only by respecting others and taking care of yourself can we go far.

Pour tea for the elders, even if you kiss, you should stand up and pour tea.

When you come in with curtains, be careful not to hit the people behind you.

When someone wants to make a scene with you in the street, don't be impulsive and don't argue with him.

He just wants to make you angry. If something goes wrong, we'll turn around and leave.

When you are away from home, if your parents speak ill of you in front of outsiders, let's not talk back, just laugh and pretend. In this case, even if your parents are wrong, if you make a scene, others will see your jokes. If you are angry, wait until the guests leave.

Leaders and teachers really often only look at the results rather than the process. If this matter is complicated and you don't give an answer, he will naturally be dissatisfied.

In fact, part of the leader's dissatisfaction is that he thinks you are fishing; So if you finish things step by step, there will be feedback every time you finish, and the leader will not be very angry.

Never be stingy when praising other people's languages. No one doesn't like being praised by others.

When the person you are talking to suddenly answers the phone, you should avoid doing your own thing a little instead of standing there listening to what they are saying.

For an introverted friend, take care of her feelings. She may be embarrassed to say it.

Don't speak ill of others when you are away from home.

Don't interrupt each other when you hear different opinions. Listen carefully and sum up carefully. If the shoes fit, put them on.

When a question is thrown at you in the opposite direction, you should give an answer within three seconds. If you really didn't have the answer at that time, you can say: wait a minute, I'll think about it and call you back.

At the same time, when others chat with you, don't reply too quickly, which will make them feel a sense of urgency.

Many times, other people's spit doesn't need you to say anything to comfort her. She just wants to vent, so just listen quietly.

Don't be afraid of teachers and counselors, your nervousness will also affect teachers; You become relaxed and natural, and the teacher naturally chats.

If you are sensitive and suspicious, friends and classmates around you will become cautious when getting along with you; If you are cheerful and generous, then everyone will naturally dare to say and make trouble.

Subconsciously remember other people's names, even if only once. Because you might run into him again.

But no matter what the teacher and the leader said, we should remember it firmly and don't ask again.

Hide your bad mood, no one will like a person who complains every day and stinks.

When chatting with others, listening to each other's words can increase each other's desire to chat and improve chat comfort.

When you want the other person to be your good friend, but he is very defensive, you can expose your shortcomings a little, or say something embarrassing, which will bring you closer.

Even if you are in a bad mood and life is no longer satisfactory, you must clean yourself up when you go out. Because there is a word called: decent.

If you especially want to point out the shortcomings of the other party, you can bring them up first and then suppress them. For example, you did really well, and we all like it, but it would be better if there were more.

Sharing information will not put you at a disadvantage, on the contrary, it will make you the most informative person.

How to master the method is as follows:

After the first time, I had a preliminary impression.

Deepen the impression.

Always pick up the plate, don't be too careful, just turn it over if you have nothing to do.

Thinking flashes.

Repeated answers will make you passively think of the tips that your senior sister gave you when she did this kind of thing.

Turn thinking into action.

After that, take the initiative to recall the methods of doing things and try consciously.

Empathy.

Think about these two questions. How would you feel if someone did this to you?

What do you think she needs to change?

Draw lessons from experience and use them flexibly.