What would you do if you found such a message in your husband's mobile phone?

hello! I have also struggled with SMS, and I have quarreled with my husband. Instead of receiving good results, I can only deepen the contradiction between two people and make him more alienated from himself. Later, I began to reflect on myself. In fact, it was my self-abasement, paranoia and self-inflicted troubles. So, I tried to understand and tolerate him from the other person's point of view. In fact, as long as he still loves himself in his heart, why should he be firmly grasped in his hand? Now, I don't bother myself for this, and my life is much happier.

In fact, everyone has his own space. Besides his lover, he can also have friends he can talk to. As long as there is no question of principle, it is actually normal. A man's rebellious attitude is very strong. If you look at him more closely, he will resent you more and want to escape. If you try to understand him and learn to let go, he will be more grateful to you and love you more. Some people say that men are like kites. The tighter the string in their hands, the easier it will break. Some people say that a man is like a handful of sand. The tighter you hold it, the less sand you have. It's not easy to love someone. To learn to be tolerant, to be tolerant of others is to be tolerant of yourself. "Be together for a long time, don't doubt each other", I believe your husband loves you.

Your suspicion of your husband may also be due to your lack of self-confidence. In addition, you are only nine months after delivery, and you may often fall into anxiety and depression due to physical endocrine and other reasons after delivery. Maybe in order to take care of the children, you only have sons and children in your heart. In fact, you can chat with your good friends more and don't always shut yourself in the house, which will only make your own thoughts narrower. Read more books, listen to more music, exercise, cultivate one's morality, and the most important thing is to be the best of yourself, love yourself, and be happy and enthusiastic about your life. To be a charming woman, you are not afraid that your husband will not love you. In short, give yourself more positive psychological hints to enrich your life. I am in charge of my happiness, and I believe you will be happier!