How to prevent children from destroying mobile phones, these small methods can be tried.

Mobile phones have become an organ of human beings. Needless to say, even a few-month-old doll will have a bright eye when she sees a mobile phone! There are also many primary and middle school students who bring their mobile phones to school. Do you know how a mobile phone destroys a child? Can the baby who is addicted to mobile phone electronic products still be saved? For children who have entered the era of screen-reading mobile Internet, how should they be guided and restrained to use their mobile phones correctly? Today's article is worth your collection. It is not too late to act!

Why do children rely on mobile phones?

Children rely on mobile phones for different reasons:

Social dependence

There are 200 friends in the mobile phone address book, 300 friends in the WeChat circle of friends, and more than 4,000 friends in various QQ groups. Such a strong personal relationship makes it difficult for children to give up.

Game dependence

There are many online games in the mobile phone, and the achievements and experience accumulated in the long-term battle have made the children's sense of accomplishment bursting.

Entertainment dependence

There are not many friends and games in the mobile phone, all of which are movies, music and photos, which make children feel high and always want to touch the mobile phone when they don't want to do homework.

As parents, it is best to analyze it first.

What kind of children they belong to,

Then prescribe the right medicine and find a way to deal with it.

What are the hazards of children's excessive dependence on mobile phones?

The grades plummeted.

Without exception, students with mobile phones are getting worse or worse. Because I am obsessed with mobile phones, I often want to play with them, and the teacher can't listen to anything. Obsessed with online fantasy novels and playing online games ... are extremely addictive, uncontrolled and even unscrupulous, completely intoxicated in this illusory and wonderful world. I was groggy in class, but I lost interest in boring study, and my academic performance plummeted.

Cheating in exams leads to a bad style of study.

Using mobile phone software can quickly find out the answers to test questions, which is convenient. Using WeChat group to publicize the answer, many people will benefit from it and get points quickly. Therefore, in the performance test, some students cheat, cheat and cheat their parents and teachers through their mobile phones. It's too easy to get something for nothing. Students think they have found a shortcut, they are distracted in class, they don't study hard, and they rely entirely on cheating to get results. Primary and junior high school students even use mobile phones to transfer homework answers to each other, which is really harmful.

Weak body, mental disorder

Primary and secondary schools are at a critical stage of physical development, and they need to exercise to strengthen their physique. Once addicted to the online world, they sometimes hide under the covers and look down at their mobile phones all night, which seriously damages their metabolism and normal biological clock, making them weak and their resistance decreased. It will also affect the development of the brain, leading to nervous disorder, tension headache and even death; Playing the Internet with mobile phones for a long time and forgetting the surrounding life and relatives can easily induce adolescent autism, adolescent autism and other mental diseases. Internet addicts will also have excessive behaviors such as stealing and hurting people.

Bring bad influence to others.

Students use mobile phones to send and receive text messages, read novels and play games. They stay up late in the dormitory and even play games in groups of three or five, which interferes with others' rest and affects others' study. At the same time, it also brings great temptation to classmates or roommates. Parents refused to buy it, and they tried their best to get the mobile phone. Finally, they were taken to this road of no return, which made their parents' hard training for more than ten years go to waste. It can be said that it was even more harmful to themselves!

Indifferent personality and estranged family.

Surfing the Internet will make children become more and more withdrawn and unwilling to communicate with the outside world. If you are not interested in any school activities, even physical education class doesn't want to do it. When I finally came back from a big week or holiday, my parents wanted to talk more with their children, but the children played with their mobile phones themselves, and the mobile phones became family killers. The furthest distance in the world is that we are sitting together while you are playing with your mobile phone, which will make many parents feel a little sad.

Myopia is a disaster, which affects career choice.

The number of nearsighted people in China has reached nearly 400 million, ranking first in the world. The incidence of myopia has reached 65438 0.5 times of the world average, and the incidence of myopia among adolescents is as high as 50% to 60%. The number of nearsightedness is increasing year by year, which has become an important problem affecting the health of our people. Even the US military has come to the conclusion that China's students are too short-sighted and the consumption of air combat pilots is not as good as that of the United States, which is by no means alarmist. Playing mobile phones often does great harm to the eyes, often causing children's pseudomyopia, and may also cause many other eye diseases.

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Myopia is extremely unfavorable to college entrance examination and major choice.

(1) If the lens power is greater than 400 degrees, it is not suitable for applying for biomedical engineering, biotechnology, ecology, biological science, law and other majors.

(2) Those whose lens power is greater than 800 degrees after correction to 4.8 are not allowed to apply for medical majors, bioengineering, animal medicine, geology and mineral resources, energy and power, forest resources, environmental ecology, environment and safety, environmental science, oil and gas storage and transportation engineering, ship and ocean engineering, etc.

(3) If the naked eye vision of any eye is less than 5.0, you can't apply for undergraduate courses in flight technology, navigation technology, fire fighting engineering, criminal science and technology, reconnaissance and military schools.

How to make children treat mobile phones correctly and reasonably

Parents should realize that no matter how to prevent it, children's curiosity about electronic technology products will never decrease!

Even if we forbid children to contact at home, children will come into contact with it at school and in society sooner or later.

Nowadays, mobile phones and computers, as tools of life, have been completely integrated into our lives like scissors and pliers, and will be more deeply integrated into children's lives in the future. If we regard such tools of life as monsters and blindly prohibit children from touching them, it may not be a good thing for children's growth.

In addition, we use the method of "containment" to separate children from mobile phones, which will only aggravate children's curiosity and make them more interested in mobile phones. If we seize the opportunity, we will play hard and become addicted more easily. Most families that prohibit children from playing mobile phones have not achieved the expected results.

Therefore, it is the best way to give children proper guidance and norms so that children can use their mobile phones correctly!

This is a mobile phone use agreement made by a mother for her children.

(Parents can refer to the formula)

Son, now you are proud of owning a smart phone. You did a good job. You are an excellent and responsible 14-year-old boy, and you deserve this gift. But while accepting this gift, you must abide by some rules and regulations.

Please read the following use contract from beginning to end. I hope you can understand that my duty is to cultivate you into a young man with all-round development, physical and mental health and social benefits, so that you can adapt to new technologies and be unaffected by them.

If you can't abide by the following agreement, I will terminate your ownership of this mobile phone.

first

This is my mobile phone. I paid for it. I lend it to you now. Am I great?

Second point

I must know the password of my mobile phone.

the third point

If the phone rings, you must answer it, because it is a phone. Answer the phone and say "hello" Be polite. Never intentionally miss the caller ID just because you are "mom" or "dad". Please don't do this.

Fourth point

Give your mobile phone to me or your father at 7: 30 pm from Monday to Friday and at 9: 00 pm on weekends. We will turn off the phone and turn it on at 7: 30 the next morning. If you don't want to call your friend's landline, because his parents may answer the phone first, then don't use your mobile phone to call or text him. Listen to your intuition and respect other people's families, just as we want to be respected by others.

Fifth point

Cell phones can't be taken to school. You should learn to chat face to face with people who contact by SMS, because this is a life skill. If you only have half a day's class, go out for a stroll and have extracurricular activities, you can consider it separately.

The sixth point

If the mobile phone falls into the toilet, falls to the ground or disappears, you have to bear the cost of replacing parts or be responsible for maintenance. You can use your lucky money. Such a thing is bound to happen, so you should be prepared.

Point seven

Don't use this high-tech product to deceive, fool and deceive others. Don't say anything that hurts others on the phone. Be a good friend, or simply stay away from disputes.

The eighth point

Stay away from bad content. When surfing the Internet on my mobile phone, I can only search and browse the information that I can honestly share with you. If you have any questions, you can ask someone else, preferably me or your father.

Point nine

Turn off your cell phone in public places and put it away, especially in restaurants, cinemas or when talking to others. You are not a rude person, don't let your mobile phone change that.

Point 10

Don't send or receive pictures of your body or other people's private parts. Don't laugh. Don't think you are smart, you will be tempted to do such a thing one day. This is very risky and may ruin your middle school, college and even your adult life. This is always a bad idea. Cyberspace is vast, and its power is far stronger than you think. It is hard for you to leave no trace of any such major event, including a bad reputation.

eleven

Don't take endless photos and videos, there is no need to record everything. Experience life with your heart, and these life experiences will remain in your memory forever.

The twelfth point

Sometimes you can go out without your mobile phone. Don't feel uneasy when you decide to do so. A mobile phone is not a living thing, nor is it something that grows on you. You should learn to live without it. Don't always be afraid of what you have missed, but make your heart stronger.

The thirteenth point

Download some popular, classical or unusual music. Don't listen to the same songs as countless peers. Your generation has unparalleled convenience in history and can be exposed to all kinds of music. Make good use of this advantage and broaden your horizons.

Point 14

Don't always stare at your mobile phone, look up, pay attention to what is happening around you, look out the window, listen to birds, take a walk and chat with strangers. Keep a curious heart and don't always use Google to find answers.

Point 15

Suppose one day you make a mess of your life, then I will take back your mobile phone. Let's sit down and talk, and then start from the beginning. You and I are both studying. I am your teammate, so let's face it together. I hope you can agree to these terms. Most of the warnings listed above apply not only to this phone, but also to your life.

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Living in the internet age, each of us can't refuse mobile phones. Teaching children to use mobile phones correctly is also a skill to teach children in later life. So, lovely parents, don't blindly forbid it, choose the right method to guide it correctly, and the mobile phone will bring you unexpected gains ~