Girls don't take the initiative to contact but reply.

Girls don't take the initiative to contact but reply.

Girls don't take the initiative to contact but reply. In life, many boys and girls will find that they often take the initiative to find girls, but girls do not take the initiative to contact themselves, she will reply when chatting with girls. What happened? Let me share with you that girls don't take the initiative to contact but reply.

Girls don't take the initiative to contact but reply to 1. 1. Answer politely

Some boys always think that it must be because girls still have a good impression on him. But in fact, some girls are just being polite. She likes to watch mobile phones, so the first time she saw your father's mobile phone, she subconsciously chose to call you back in seconds. In this case, of course, the girl will only call you back for a second, but she won't take the initiative to contact you, because you are just an insignificant person in her chat object, that's all, don't think too much.

Moreover, it's nothing for a girl to call you back in seconds. It's more important to contact you actively than to call you back in seconds. Of course, it also depends on what the girls contact you for. If she contacts you for help, or talks to you about her own affairs, even some private and secret things, there is no doubt that you are at least a very trustworthy and reliable good friend in her heart.

In fact, there is a very important skill in chatting, that is, grasping the key words in each other's words, because this is the key point for you to chat smoothly and quickly close the relationship. Many brothers didn't know this before, including me, of course, but then I stumbled across the secret book Jianghan Lian Bi Book on the Internet, from which I learned a lot about picking up girls and divorcing, especially the technology of chatting. It turns out that I don't have no topic, but I won't continue to expand the topic. To put it bluntly, I just don't understand technology. Later, I practiced carefully according to the book. It is basically no accident that my sister who talked for two days can be taken home by me smoothly, let alone how cool it is. Although I'm not picking up girls now and I'm married, all single brothers should see it. Jiang Han must love art, and there are e-books online. After knowing the technology, I won't be so confused as I am now.

Second, girls are bored.

If a girl calls you back in a few seconds, she can talk to you for hours. But she never takes the initiative to contact you, so you may be just one of several or even a dozen male friends she can chat with like this. And the chat time is longer, probably just because you were chatting with her at that time, and she was in a boring stage when she was free.

Third, girls are proud of their lives.

Even if some girls have a crush on a boy, no matter how much they like another person, the most positive response she can make is even to chat for a second and make an appointment, but she will never contact you actively. This is a girl's proud mentality. She always thinks that it will be humiliating and fall in price to take the initiative to talk to boys, so even if they really want to find you, they will endure it. When I saw you sending her a message on your own initiative, of course she couldn't help calling you back.

Fourth, you are not attractive enough.

If a girl never takes the initiative to contact you, it is because you are not attractive enough to her. As for why she replies to your message in seconds, it may just be that she doesn't hate it when you reply to you politely, or that she replies to your message in seconds when her mobile phone is around. In this case, you still need to work hard!

Fifth, girls are used to not contacting actively.

I am the kind of girl who won't take the initiative to contact. Because there was a shadow of falling in love before (I used to take the initiative to find him), I never take the initiative to find a person, whether it is a friend or a lover. It's not because my feelings are not in place, but I feel bad about sending messages to others and waiting for them to reply. The same is true for making a phone call. Unless there is something, you will never take the initiative to contact. In fact, it can be answered in seconds, which proves that he is very important! Being able to talk for a few hours means that I am willing to talk to him! It was nice talking to him!

Girls don't take the initiative to contact but reply 2 1. Maybe she is the personality of seconds.

Some girls will never take the initiative to contact you on weekdays, because she knows that there should be clear boundaries between men and women. Of course, the premise is that she has no feelings for you, so of course she won't contact you on her own initiative. Maybe it's just that she has such a personality and habit. When she sees a message on her mobile phone, she will read it immediately and then reply. To put it more seriously, she may have "obsessive-compulsive disorder" and will respond habitually when she sees it.

2, the pride of death, self-esteem.

This is also the idea of most girls. They always feel that it will be embarrassing and fall in price to take the initiative to find a boy to chat up, so even if they really want to find you, they will endure it. Of course, when she saw you sending her a message, she couldn't hold back for a second.

You are not attractive enough to her.

Girls never take the initiative to find you, that's because you are not attractive enough to her, why do you call you back? Maybe it's just that she doesn't hate you for giving it back to you out of courtesy, or the mobile phone will call you back when it sees your message.

I like you very much, so be careful everywhere.

It is not excluded that there is a kind of girl who likes a boy to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss unconsciously, who is afraid that getting too close to the other party will cause trouble, and even afraid that the boy who sticks too tightly will resent her, so they always look at each other quietly in the distance and are careful everywhere, but if the boy sends them a message on his own initiative, he will of course reply to the other party's message in seconds.

5. I have a good impression on you and pay special attention to your news.

The same is true of female surnames. Maybe they don't like a boy, but they have a good impression in their hearts. They will never take the initiative to contact each other because they will secretly observe each other's behavior in the dark. Of course, if this favorite boy sends her a text message on his own initiative, she will naturally call back unconsciously.