How to flirt with your husband (smart women flirt like this)

Many friends will fall into negative emotions after their husbands cheat.

In the face of their husbands, they always quarrel uncontrollably and ask questions. Even after the return of men, they will always be swayed by considerations of gain and loss and get along with men in a cold tone.

I believe many wives have discovered:

This way of getting along is actually not conducive to the feelings of husband and wife, but also pushes men farther and farther.

But I can't control myself, and I don't know how to repair and enhance the feelings between husband and wife, and I gradually lose my passion with men.

On the contrary, it will be found that the third party always makes good use of skills and methods to make men forget it. Whether it is physical obsession or psychological attachment, they can firmly grasp it, as if there is a magic.

Maybe her education, looks and abilities are not as good as yours, but she can always snatch your husband away easily and hold a man's heart tightly.

Over the years, we have helped thousands of struggling wives. From the countless original matches, we have drawn some common features of San Xiao, which many original wives need to learn and make up for.

We also find that lovers need emotional appeal, and flirting is even more essential in marriage.

So, how to flirt with your husband? Let's learn these flirting skills.

First, keep the mystery.

People are often interested in what they can't see through, so that they can't stop. You should learn to remain mysterious. It's boring to understand everything clearly.

Keep a little mystery. Every time you meet him, it will bring him mystery and freshness, so that he can find something in you every time, and naturally he can't help but want to explore. The attraction between men and women is nothing more than this.

Let him look at you with a mysterious eye, and over time, he will naturally strengthen his emotional concentration on you and let him return to his family, which is not difficult.

If a woman has calculation and clever skills, she can re-bind a man's heart.

Second, create emotional ups and downs.

If you want a man to stop wanting you, you need to mobilize his emotions and let him invest in you emotionally.

What is emotional investment? I am happy for you and worried about you.

For example, sometimes a man sends you a message, and you don't need to reply in time. Deliberate neglect will make him think and associate.

And when he takes the time to study you, his feelings for you will gradually develop, and your position in his heart will become different from others.

This kind of emotional involvement is actually to create a feeling of rapid heartbeat and make the other person feel that he loves you. This is the role of making men's emotions fluctuate.

So how to increase his emotional input?

First of all, use words in chat and learn to create surprises.

Even a little noisy in public places, such as walking in the street, holding his arm gently, and then suddenly lying on his left ear and saying:

"Well ~ I think you look particularly handsome today. I was touched for a while. "

or

"I suddenly want to kiss you."

or

"For a moment, I suddenly wanted to push you down."

In a word, it is to say a sweet word without warning, and then pretend that nothing happened and continue your previous things and topics.

Another example: when you are eating, you suddenly stare at him all the time, and he will wonder what you are looking at. If you don't say a word, he will be lost or behave in other ways. Let him think you're over, and then you say:

Take a closer look, you are still quite handsome.

This technique uses a very important technique-push and pull.

It is often said that a woman is like a book, so a man should have the desire to read, and the more he reads, the more he wants to read.

Why do many men like playing games? It is because of this unknown feeling that they will never guess what they will get in return for the next moment. This is an unknown surprise that will fascinate men.

Third, knowing how to show weakness will pretend to be pitiful.

When a man has compassion for a woman, it is actually a kind of love.

The woman a man loves deeply must be the one who can stimulate his heroic complex and his sexual desire and compassion at the same time. By inspiring his sympathy, they can make this man have emotional investment and spiritual investment, and let this man continue to invest in her, and this man will get deeper and deeper.

We will find that Xiao San often fabricates a story of being abandoned and hurt, disguises herself as a painful woman, and even lets men know that she is a hurt and self-indulgent woman. This image will arouse men's desire to save.

So the third party firmly controls the man, because they have aroused the man's sexual desire and sympathy, and they have been able to successfully manipulate the man's thoughts and emotions.

Generally speaking: women should be good at playing Tai Chi; It is necessary to understand that defeating the strong with the weak; Learn to show your value; We must learn to shape our own image.

Honey, have you learned?