My dad likes my wife and sends her ambiguous messages, but she ignores him. Everything should be open, but I am an unacceptable father.

These things! You need to talk to your father! You tell him! She's your daughter-in-law You can't do this! If you do this, our home will be ruined! My children will be ashamed in the future! If you want to destroy our family! Keep moving. There is no windtight wall! If you want to maintain this family! Stop harassing her! Society will not tolerate your behavior!