The best way to break up.

The best way to break up, even if it is saved, may be a drop in the bucket. It is very difficult to save the heart of a lover. Couples who have cheated many times don't have to stay, and happy love is fragmented at the moment when they know the truth. The following is the best rhetorical experience of breaking up.

The best story of breaking up 1 is a good example of breaking up.

Popular version-avoiding meeting and prevarication

Xiao C began to work overtime crazily from the day he moved the idea of breaking up with her boyfriend. At first, she called to tell the other party to work overtime at night. A week later, she sent a short message. Two weeks later, the other party called to ask when she would come back. She said helplessly, "I'm too busy to wait for me."

The intensity of work is great, which brings with it that Xiao C is not in a high mood when he comes home and has no desire to chat with his boyfriend. I don't want to move when I get home at night and lie in bed after taking a shower. Several times her boyfriend tried to make out with her, but she responded weakly: "I'm really tired." Let's take a rain check. "

Pushing two things and shirking three things, Xiao C's practice makes her boyfriend very tired.

Boyfriends don't understand why Xiao C's work will dilute their feelings. To his disappointment, Xiao C didn't want to talk to him about the pressure and emotions in his heart. No man will be left out by a workaholic woman for years.

At first, he cooked dinner at home and waited for Xiao C. Later, he came back very late, either eating and drinking with his buddies or playing football.

Xiao C sees that the heat is almost the same. When he comes back from a long business trip, he will have a showdown with his boyfriend. His boyfriend seems to have long realized that the two are drifting apart in this relationship, and he regretted it and didn't raise any objection.

Classic version-risks, mourning soldiers pretend to be poor

Although little d's family opposes her dating her boyfriend, the decision is still in her own hands.

In two years of love, she has to admit that it is difficult to give her a happy future with her boyfriend's economic conditions and family burden. Just then, a more suitable candidate appeared. ...

On the night when she decided to break up, she waited for her boyfriend to get off work in tears. Her boyfriend jumped up and asked her what was wrong, but she just cried and didn't answer.

It was not until her boyfriend asked her if she had quarreled with her family that she sobbed and nodded, intermittently saying that she had fallen out with her family, and her mother forced her to choose between her boyfriend and her family. And with a mother's tone, I live a life with a house and a car for my friends around me, but I am still talking about a poor love in my late 30 s. ...

Boyfriend knows that he can't let little D live that life. After a long silence, he finally made a painful decision and resigned.

Little d shook his head and cried that he only loved his boyfriend, and asked him to find a way. After all, she is the only child in the family and must live with her parents after marriage. How to choose?

The boyfriend who can't solve this problem comforts Xiao D, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

He thinks he caused the contradiction between little D and his family. Although I didn't get married with Xiao D, I still cared and helped Xiao D as my brother after breaking up.

Sacrifice version-playing hard to get is annoying

Little y knows that her boyfriend hates being tied down. The reason why he broke up with his ex-girlfriend was that he couldn't stand her being suspicious all day. Later, when he came back from work, he kept texting and checking posts. Therefore, Xiao Y's performance in this respect has always been praised by her boyfriend, his colleagues and friends.

There are many reasons why Xiao Y wants to break up with her boyfriend, but her boyfriend is a face-saving person and has never left her on his emotional path. Little y doesn't want to fill this gap. Besides, for her, breaking up is just a result, and it doesn't matter who brings it up.

So Xiao Y began to imitate her boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, deliberately taking her boyfriend and his female colleague on a separate business trip as an opportunity, not only calling her boyfriend's mobile phone and hotel landline, but also calling her boyfriend's female colleague's mobile phone!

Although her boyfriend was suspicious of her sudden change, he was quickly suppressed by disgust. Just a week on business trip, let him feel that there is a year between the customer and Xiao Y!

On the day when she came back from a business trip, Xiao Y found her boyfriend's briefcase and laptop on a carpet. This is the first time that Little Y has done such a thing.

In the following period of time, Xiao Y strengthened the monitoring of her boyfriend and called her friends and colleagues' mobile phones when she couldn't find him.

My boyfriend was overwhelmed recently and finally broke up with Xiao Y.

Inevitable breakup strategy of life-saving breakup code

Refusing righteousness over kindness-for a grumpy boyfriend

Your breaking up without warning was a bolt from the blue for him! His first point should probably be that you cheated first, and now you have done it without showing him the cards.

He tries his best to look at the opposite sex around you, from throwing things and yelling, to drinking all day and going crazy after drinking!

In order to explain the misunderstanding clearly, you entangled with him on this issue. In the end, not only did this breakup end in failure, but you also had to work hard to clear yourself of cheating!

Goodwill Deception —— Against the Boyfriend of Mother-in-law

His carefulness used to be your attraction, but during your time as his girlfriend, you can't stand his carefulness-checking your short messages, peeking at your chat records, printing your monthly phone bill and so on. And want to end this relationship by walking away.

So I used the white lies that "the company wants to send me to work in the London office" and "my father forced me to study in Singapore" ...

Watch out! He has a cautious criminal record. Who can guarantee that he won't check with your company boss? Even if you tell your family that one day, you should study in Singapore, but your new boyfriend appears in Haagen-Dazs, and his eyes will catch fire. What used to be a white lie has now become a more serious crime!

Do everything for your obsessed boyfriend.

Leaving early in this relationship makes you feel more or less sorry for him. Yes, he has no shortcomings except obsession, but please don't forget that you don't love him is his shortcoming!

In order to minimize your guilt, you put all the reasons on yourself when you break up, "I don't deserve you", "I don't suit you" and "I don't want to keep you" ...

Honey, don't treat men like fools. Even if you list a thousand bad things about yourself, as long as he says "I don't mind", you can completely overthrow it and make you speechless!

He will also wisely analyze the reasons why you take responsibility on yourself, and finally push you into trouble. At this time, it is difficult for you to change your tactics and fight back against him.

Sisters negotiate-for a boyfriend whose face is higher than the sky.

Frankly speaking, this is a way of breaking up with a high success index, which is widely used by girls.

Men who don't care about face don't exist. No matter how you want to keep it, no matter how you plead, you can only turn it into bitter water and swallow it in your stomach.

what can I do? Your dirty laundry has become so public that he not only doesn't want to see you again, but also doesn't want to see you and your friends.

After really dumping him, one day you will find yourself complicating things. Obviously, the breakup of two people can be resolved peacefully, but they have made enemies!

You made him lose his girlfriend, hurt him and hurt his self-esteem. Even if one day he lets go and helps you when you need it, can you guarantee that you won't be embarrassed at all?

The stupidest five elements of the burn one's bridges code

1, "You are a good man ..."

The implication-but can't keep a woman.

Smart people think that this kind of praise affirms his character and denies his ability to love, which is tantamount to humiliation for him.

2. "You are not a suitable man to be a husband ..."

The implication-I didn't intend to marry you when I was with you.

He thinks you're just having fun. You used to pay more for this sentence.

3. "I feel very insecure with you ..."

The implication-I met a man who gave me more security than you.

He finally understood that in the process of your relationship, you never stopped examining whether other men can bring you security.

4. "Don't you think our side is not harmonious?"

The implication-I'm sorry, you've never satisfied me sexually.

He will be very angry! It is a fatal insult to question a man's sexual ability. Why don't you give him another excuse?

5. "Everyone around me is against me being with you ..."

The implication-even my grandmother's dog is more important than you!

He finally realized that he was the last one in your heart. It's not that people around you crowd him out, but that you look down on him at all.

Break-up statement

1, don't choose to break up on holidays or anniversaries, and brand yourself as a heartless woman for no reason.

No matter how much you don't want to face him, don't break up by text or phone. This rash behavior is disrespectful to him and this relationship.

Don't let him be the last person to know the news of the breakup. Take care of each other. Breaking up is not breaking up.

Never let him know that you have started a new relationship before breaking up with him.

The best story of breaking up II. How to say that breaking up doesn't hurt each other?

Don't mention old scores

Many people don't break up overnight. It must be that you often have conflicts and finally can't communicate. Of course, some people always turn over old scores when they break up. It hurts to turn over old scores. Although you can break up quickly, it will also cause a great blow to the other person's self-esteem, so try not to do so when breaking up. Everyone can find some shortcomings of their own, instead of commenting on each other's shortcomings.

Be sure to say it in person.

Nowadays, most couples like to say it by phone or text message when they break up. In fact, sometimes it is easier, easier and less harmful to each other to say it in person. After all, when we break up, the other party will definitely ask the reason. You can make things clear face to face and save the other party's suspicion. On the other hand, breaking up face to face also shows your determination to this relationship. Breaking up with the person in charge and many people means texting or calling. Do you think there are many things that can be made clear in short messages?

Say hello to each other's friends in advance.

When you are in love, you will definitely know each other's friends and your friends, but after a long time, you will definitely have dinner with your friends, and your friends have recognized your relationship. If you want to break up, you can say goodbye unilaterally first, and then tell your friends after breaking up. Don't say anything. If you meet each other's friends at the next meal, maybe friends will make you embarrassed. If you have a good relationship with your friends.

Don't slander each other

After all, you love each other. The other party broke up for various reasons. After breaking up, don't speak ill of each other. Don't slander each other in front of friends, because no matter how bad they are, you all had a good time. If you slander each other in front of your friends, they will think you have a personality problem. So when we break up, we can be together or apart, and there is no need to say something bad to ruin each other's reputation.

Bless each other

Maybe many people can't let you bless each other after breaking up, but after all, it's not easy for you to meet and fall in love, but it's a pity that you can't be together for various reasons. Be generous after breaking up, bless each other to find a more suitable person, and also bless themselves to forget the present and look forward to the future.

Second, how to break up without hurting each other

Don't cheat, just tell the other person why they broke up.

Why on earth did he break up with me? Many people can't extricate themselves after the end of a relationship, indulge in it and can't get out. They will be like this, often not because they can't forget each other, but because they have never understood the reason for breaking up.

Because some people, they either disappear directly, or tell all kinds of lies and choose a very extreme way to end their feelings. People who don't understand the reasons are always upset and can't let go. Therefore, when breaking up, if you want not to hurt each other, you must make it clear that the most direct way is the most acceptable.

Affirm each other's efforts and don't slander each other.

I believe that no one will choose to break up if they can go on. Since we can only break up, when we talk about breaking up, we must not speak ill of each other, say that we are really blind, regret having loved, or even blindly deny the past of two people.

You have to understand that tearing each other apart is not only meaningless, but will seriously hurt each other. Now that we have fallen in love, and we love each other so passionately, let's end this relationship. Generous affirmation of each other, thank him for his sincere blessing to each other, so that such a breakup will not make each other too embarrassed.

Say goodbye to each other and draw a satisfactory full stop for this relationship.

In fact, feelings are not afraid of ending, and they are afraid of not saying goodbye, and then they have been thinking about it, thinking that it is not over yet. Then I kept thinking that there was no way to say goodbye to the past and start a relationship again.

Therefore, when breaking up, if you want not to hurt each other, you'd better say goodbye to each other calmly and solemnly. Such a sense of ceremony seems cruel, but it is actually the best way to say goodbye, whether it is to say goodbye to a person or a relationship. The other party will really feel that it is really over and will put it down.

Breaking up is always a sad thing. If you don't want this sadness to last too long, don't hide it, don't slander it, and don't run away. Directly tell the reason for breaking up, sincerely thank each other for their efforts, and finally say goodbye.

This way, seemingly tragic, will not hurt each other at all, and will not affect each other's future.

Third, how to say it is better to break up?

1, cut the gordian knot

"Long pain is better than short pain." When feelings come to an end, procrastination is the most hurtful thing. Although many girls think it hurts to break up first, they don't like it anymore. It is the most painful to drag others' feelings for a long time. Ask him out, talk calmly, analyze and review the process from acquaintance to harmony, and don't always complain about his bad past when expressing language, but tell the truth objectively. Because girls complain that breaking up will only make boys think that girls are really fooling around, not really wanting to break up. Of course, language should not be too stimulating, personal attacks are not desirable, and it is important to keep a certain distance in the communication process.

Step 2 refuse to the end

"Refuse with cold temperature." Many girls really don't want to talk about "breaking up" when dealing with breaking up. It may be a better choice to take a cold treatment. Boyfriend's date is directly refused, and the best reason for refusing is: I don't want to go. Never use some busy excuse. First, such an excuse is clumsy, and it will make boys embarrassed after being exposed. Being rejected and being cheated are two kinds of feelings. Second, direct rejection can make boys understand that feelings have come to an end. Of course, the ice style does not mean avoiding, but keeping a distance. No longer as sweet as before, the attitude of speaking will become more rational and objective.

3, convey, avoid embarrassment

"Let others tell you." If you can't say it yourself, there is another way to convey it through your best friend. The "others" here refer to people who are very close to the girls, and they are definitely not ordinary people. Otherwise, boys will have a sense of irony that "the whole world knows, but he doesn't know", which is absolutely impossible. And the communication between girlfriends can't be that girlfriends directly tell their boyfriends to break up with him. You can ask your best friend to send a letter or send a message. Although you can't say goodbye in person, even indirectly, you must speak in the first person, so that boys will feel respected.

4. Reasonable control language

"Speak well." Break up with dignity and peace. Girls should respect each other no matter how they break up, and don't end up with a rash "I don't like you". Such behavior is too hurtful, and it is easy for boys to become angry from embarrassment. If the boy's language is a little extreme, the girl should stop talking, don't provoke him with excessive language, just listen to him quietly. Tell him the reason for breaking up and thank him for his efforts. No matter what the situation is now, I have really given and really loved each other.