My wife went back to her mother's house for ten days and sent me a text message saying that she wanted a divorce. What if the child is still so young?

It is often said that men live for face and women live for emotion. Both husband and wife entered the marriage with endless love and deep blessings, but they had to go through various tests of marriage together. Running-in, quarreling, disappointment, appreciation, understanding and respect are all essential in marriage. But if you don't handle some details well and hurt your wife deeply, how can you save your marriage when your wife wants a divorce? Give you the following advice:

Reflect on your own problems

No matter who initiated the divorce between you, it must be because the expectations of the other party are too far away, or because you have run counter to each other. So at this time, you should first reflect on your own problems and think about where you let your wife down. Only by recognizing your mistakes can you get your wife's forgiveness. If you don't know how to save a failed friend, don't lose heart. I wrote an article called "Chen Azong's complicated mental journey", telling my successful recovery experience. You can go and have a look and make a recovery after reference, which will be of great help to you.

Effective communication.

The most indispensable thing between people is communication and communication. This is especially true for couples. Lack of communication will only make each other's lives more and more boring and estranged, which is not good for you and her. If you want to save your divorced wife, you must learn to communicate with her effectively. What is effective communication? It means that through these communication, you can reduce the contradictions between you and enhance your feelings, instead of greetings in a few words and unnecessary digressions.

Enhance one's charm

When you know the real reason why the other person wants a divorce, you should learn to change yourself. For example, change the bad side of your temperament, or change the way you speak and do things. Whether your wife can't stand your hot personality or your disregard for home, you should work hard in the direction she wants to enhance your attractiveness.