What kind of experience is it from feeling love to feeling dull?

Xiaohe and Mr. Yun had graduated from college when they met, and they talked very well as soon as they met, not to mention a brief encounter, and they also had a friend to talk to.

The more lively the appearance, the more lonely the heart. Xiao He is such a person. Everything used to be smooth. Now Xiaohe has suffered many setbacks that she has never experienced before, and can't extricate herself from the depression of suffering.

Mr. Yun looks rough, but his heart is still warm. After knowing him, the two men had some intermittent contact. Teacher Yun will greet him from time to time. One night, he heard that he had a headache and wanted to see her and buy medicine. He showed special resistance to Mr. Yun's concern and refused. Mr. Yun said that I had arrived at your downstairs. He decisively closed the curtain and turned off the light, telling him that he had gone to bed. Xiaohe is a little guilty about this matter, but she doesn't want to have any further relationship with Mr. Yun, so she doesn't care about Mr. Yun's loss in that matter. The next day, Miss Yun asked Xiao He early in the morning if she was better and wanted to see her. Mr. Yun's concern doesn't seem like a long-time friend. So in the future, Mr. Yun invited Xiao He to go out for a walk, but almost all of them were rejected.

In fact, for Xiaohei, Mr. Yun seems to have no other shortcomings except shaking his legs, so as a friend, it has nothing to do with himself, but as a boyfriend, he seems to be unable to stand it. Why do you say that? Because a month after we met, Mr. Yun confessed.

In fact, sometimes Xiao He can feel that Teacher Yun has a good impression on her, because although Teacher Yun is one year older than Xiao He, she always looks like a child who hasn't grown up, and her IQ seems to be getting lower and lower in front of her. Even Teacher Yun himself says so.

? At the time of confession, Mr. Yun told Xiaohe that there was love at first sight in this world, and that's how he treated her. The river seems to be a fairy. However, Blackie didn't accept it. She may not hate Mr. Yun, but she is not in love. At the same time, she didn't refuse because she was afraid of losing such a pleasant friend.

In a couple of days, Mr. Yun will come to Xiaohei and want to make it clear to him face to face. Blackie didn't dare to see him, and she didn't know if it was sunny. Xiaohei was alone at home, and it was dark. She was so scared that she sent a message to Mr. Yun, but Mr. Yun, who looked dignified and strong, ignored the message. Later, Xiao He learned that Mr. Yun didn't have the habit of reading short messages. It seems that he is deeply poisoned by modern society and relies too much on social software such as WeChat and qq. In the evening, Mr. Yun arrived in a hurry, and Xiaohei stood at the door, afraid to enter the house. When Mr. Yun arrived, fear overwhelmed the embarrassment in Xiaohei's heart, so they talked a few words. In a short time, the circuit in the community was repaired, and the lights at home were on, so there was no feeling of being afraid of the dark, and an embarrassing atmosphere came to me. ...

Then Mr. Yun began to talk about all the sweet words he had prepared, only Nuo Nuo. Xiaohei didn't hear clearly and joked, "What did you say?" Mr. Yun seems to have the courage, too, and began to talk a lot without his own preparation. Xiaohei paused and asked stupidly, "Ah, what did you say?" Mr. Yun looked at her affectionately and said, "Do you want me to say it again?" Xiaohei was shy, lying on the table, his head buried under his arm, not looking at him, and then there was an awkward silence. Blackie was at a loss. It was Mr. Yun who broke the silence. He doesn't know where he got the courage. He stood up and touched Blackie's hair and said something he didn't know. Small blackhead is stupefied, say: Then you try. Then Teacher Yun is as happy as a 200-pound child. He asked timidly, can I hug you? Then, he hugged Blackie. Two older children who have never been in love started their happy life. Later, Xiaohei asked Mr. Yun what sweet words he had. He said: you are like the stars in the sky. There are so many stars in the universe that are not as dazzling as you. Xiaohei laughed at his naivety, but his heart was warm.

Then, the two became very close, and Xiaohe slowly fell in love with Mr. Yun, and even thanked God for letting them meet. Maybe it's really because teacher Yun is a support when she is in the most difficult time, and then there will be a long-term love.

? Usually, the two also love each other and kill each other. Xiaohei taught Mr. Yun to cook, and then Mr. Yun was always scolded for being clumsy. Then Xiaohe may feel that he is a little too much and impatient, so he will secretly kiss Teacher Yun. In Mr. Yun's words, carrots and sticks make people want to stop. When Xiaohe and Mr. Yun are together, sometimes they deliberately embarrass him and force him to fall in love. You know, it seems very difficult for him whose literary accomplishment needs to be improved. Then every time I said it, I was laughed at by Xiaohe as childish, but Xiaohe knew in her heart that it was her own warmth and she was very happy. Mr. Yun loves Xiao He. He got rid of the problem of shaking his legs for Xiaohe, learned to wash and cook for Xiaohe, and worked hard for Xiaohe. In fact, these little black eyes are in his heart.

Time is a lovely and disgusting thing, which will leave beautiful memories and make love dull. The period of love gradually disappears in the days of companionship. Xiaohe and Mr. Yun have become more like relatives. Both of them have their own things to do, and the speaking time seems shorter than before, and staying together is not as tired as before. Although Mr. Yun won't kiss Blackie's forehead when he leaves, as before, what he does is more subtle and practical: even if he is uncomfortable, he will pour Blackie a cup of hot water before going to bed at night, hold her to sleep when Blackie feels cold, silently wash her dirty clothes and leave her what Blackie likes to eat. Therefore, the love after the passionate love period is not the weakening of feelings, but the dullness of feelings and the weakening of feelings are basically two different things. When feelings are weak, they don't love. When feelings return to dullness, it means that people who love each other more trust each other, so that passionate love can return to life and become more secure and practical. It's the kind of peace of mind that I feel as long as you are around, like the kind of peace of mind that autumn pants are stuck in socks.

The story of Mr. Xiaohe and Mr. Yun is finished, which is an experience from realizing love to feeling dull. May every lovely you have such love.

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