My husband died unexpectedly for half a year. Why did my mother call me and not let me go to my mother's house?

My husband and I are junior high school classmates, and we haven't contacted each other since graduation. Maybe it was our fate that we met again at work. Because we are working in other places, it is worthwhile to be happy to meet old friends in other places, not to mention junior high school students. We left our contact information and had dinner together in the evening. We talked very speculatively, and we were junior high school classmates, and we talked a lot.

After a while, he confessed to me that I had a good impression on him, and I promised him. He hugged me and said that if he promised, there would be no chance to go back on his word. I blushed and said that since I promised you, I never thought about going back on my word. My husband held me in a straight circle and said I was so happy. I will treat you well in the future. After we were together, he spoiled me and treated me well. We have never quarreled, and our relationship has always been quite stable.

A year later, I took my husband home, and my parents were not very satisfied with him. The conditions for abandoning him are not as good as mine. But I don't mind. I think as long as people are diligent, life is created by themselves, so I have always insisted on marrying him, and my parents have to agree. When we got married, my husband's family gave me a bride price of150,000, and my family gave me150,000. My mother was afraid that I would be wronged in my husband's family, so she gave me the bride price and let me keep it for myself. I know my mother did it for my own good, but I didn't accept it. After all, it was not easy for them to raise me so big. They have been married for 150 thousand, so I have to leave some money for them.

Our life has been very sweet since we got married. A year later, our first child was born, a son. After our son was born, our life became more complete. Because of the birth of our son, our family is full of laughter. However, something unexpected happened, and my husband was diagnosed with gastric cancer, which was still advanced. Although we have been actively receiving treatment, we have not saved my husband's life. When he died, he told me that it was my greatest happiness that my wife could marry you in my life. You will stay with me for three years after I die, so don't remarry for these three years. For the sake of the person I love deeply, how can I not agree to this request? I promised him, and he left me forever the moment he heard my answer.

After my husband died, I was depressed for a while, and I didn't care much about my son, but my son was very sensible and would hold my hand and call me mom sweetly. The pain in my heart seems to have been cured. Cheer up slowly. I have children and parents on both sides to take care of. I can't just fall down and worry them. I went home to meet my parents, and my mother told me that you are still young, only thirty years old. Why don't you marry another one? It is difficult for a person like you to support such a family. I said, mom, I promised Jigang I wouldn't remarry for three years. Mom, I know you're doing me good, but I can't break my word. When I got home and looked at my husband's photo, tears flowed involuntarily.

Three years passed quickly. During these three years, my mother has been doing my ideological work, and I have never promised. On this day, I went back to my parents' home to visit them. At home, my mother is still doing my ideological work. Suddenly, .....