Divorce also scored 30 million! After driving away love rat's ex-husband, Alyssa Chia raised her daughter better.

On June 7th, Alyssa Chia's eldest daughter Wu Tongmei suddenly posted that she was threatened by a stranger and exposed two pictures, which was very scary.

In the picture, a strange netizen sent her a message, which not only insulted her, but also threatened to ruin her life.

The netizen also intercepted other people's photos and said that he would send them to Wu Tongmei's friends to ruin Wu Tongmei's reputation.

To this end, Wu Tongmei was very scared and nervously wrote: "I was threatened! What should I do? " Also kindly said to netizens: "If you receive any information, don't trust him, everyone should pay attention to this person!"

Wu Tongmei is only 15 years old. She must be very nervous when she receives this message, and she doesn't know what to do.

Fortunately, she didn't hide because of fear or fear, but made it public, so that everyone wouldn't believe this netizen.

To a certain extent, she took the lead in hitting back at the netizen. I have to praise her. She is a very brave girl.

Her bravery is inseparable from Alyssa Chia. This is not the first time that Alyssa Chia has protected her daughter.

When she was a baby, Alyssa Chia fought with her ex-husband for her.

At the beginning, Alyssa Chia got pregnant out of wedlock and married into slips. During pregnancy, it was reported that her mother-in-law asked her to get started with transcendental DNA.

But I didn't expect that even though I married a so-called rich family, Alyssa Chia still couldn't live a comfortable life with a rich family.

After marriage, she gave birth to her daughter Wu Tongmei, but soon, news of emotional changes came from both sides, and the media reported that Sun Zhihao often went out to have fun.

Alyssa Chia also suffered from domestic violence for four years.

Sun Zhihao also accused Alyssa Chia of being greedy for money, sharing a room with Huang Lei while filming, and sending ambiguous messages to Huang Lei.

However, Alyssa Chia insisted that he and Huang Lei were not more than friends, and sent messages only to annoy Sun Zhihao.

Afterwards, Alyssa Chia also issued an apology statement, apologizing to Huang Lei. Huang Lei's response at that time was: "She and her husband are crazy".

Later, as we all know, Alyssa Chia and Sun Zhihao quarreled face to face.

Sun Zhihao and his parents left directly with Wu Tongmei, and they couldn't be contacted for four months.

So Alyssa Chia had to have a meeting and cry on the spot, hoping that everyone could help her find her daughter's whereabouts.

As a result, the two sides went to court to fight for the custody of their daughter, and Alyssa Chia was exposed to run out of savings to file a lawsuit.

What is eye-opening is that Sun Zhihao, who is obviously worth hundreds of millions, sold it to the court, saying that he has no property (not in his own name), his monthly salary is only 35,000, and his deposit is about 6,543,800 US dollars.

After Alyssa Chia married his grandson, he made a lot of money just through advertisements and movies. Therefore, Sun Zhihao requires both husband and wife to divide the same property in half: NT$ 26 million.

Therefore, the two sides fell into a long-term tug-of-war, and finally agreed to give the property right of Shanghai real estate under her name 1/2 to the Sun family.

Sun Zhihao gave up Alyssa Chia's property distribution: NT$ 26 million, and Alyssa Chia got custody of her daughter as she wished, and the farce officially ended.

Ten years have passed. 19 On June 3rd, Alyssa Chia and her ex-husband Sun Zhihao attended the graduation ceremony of their daughter Wu Tongmei, and they took photos in the same frame for the first time after their divorce.

Alyssa Chia's current husband's letter of introduction was also present, and Wu Tongmei also took photos with Alyssa Chia and the letter of introduction on social networking sites.

Afterwards, Alyssa Chia described his feelings as "many emotions welled up in my heart", saying that it was because of his love for his daughter that they got together, and nothing was impossible in life.

After reading netizens' comments, almost everyone lamented that Alyssa Chia had a big heart.

It's a miracle that she is willing to bury the hatchet for her daughter when she was obviously calculated by this scum ex-husband.

Perhaps those who are surrounded by love are indeed more emboldened to reconcile with their past.

At that time, Alyssa Chia had a fierce struggle for custody, and now she has generously reconciled with her ex-husband. It's not brave to act together.

And this courage is also perfectly passed on to her daughter.

On graduation day, my daughter sent a message thanking her parents and "Uncle Xiu" who took care of her.

For her, she is not afraid that her parents will abandon her because of her new love, because she knows that her parents have always been there, but they are no longer in love.

She understood and accepted.

Speaking of Alyssa Chia's life after remarriage, we have to mention the love between Alyssa Chia and Jiexiu.

Along the way, we don't think much of it. Everyone thinks that the letter of introduction has accomplished nothing in career, and it is a soft meal.

Moreover, the woman has so much "black history" that everyone is worried that the handsome young Jiexiu will abandon her sooner or later.

On the contrary, the letter of introduction doesn't care about Alyssa Chia's past. In the program, he bluntly said: This is just a part of her life.

Although Jiexiu is 9 years younger than Alyssa Chia, his style is mature and steady, surpassing his peers. He also likes Alyssa Chia very much.

When two people introduced themselves on the program, the sweetness of the picture overflowed.

Although they are not young, their mode of getting along is still as warm as first love.

Many people say that Alyssa Chia has finally met the right person this time and can finally heal the wounds she suffered in her last love.

Maybe it's only a matter of time before love comes again.

As Alyssa Chia said, "I won't fall, I will collapse where I fell. The moment I fell, I would think: something must have happened to one of my parts, so this happened. After thinking about it, I will remind myself that you have met it, but you must not repeat it. "

After harassing the eldest daughter, we can see that Alyssa Chia has a strong desire to protect her daughter.

Through her daughter's personal social platform, we can also see that her life is very comfortable. In a remarried family, this kind of happiness can be said to be quite rare.

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Why are children still happy after remarriage?

1. Strong self-ability

Many people say that Alyssa Chia lives happily because he met a good man.

But no one is clear about this. The premise of meeting a good man is to live first.

Some women have no stable income after divorce and have to take care of their children, so they are down and out.

Worried about 1000 yuan every day, where can I dress up and fall in love? How can a child have the courage to stand up straight when he watches his mother worry about his life every day?

Only capable mothers can raise capable children.

Instead of thinking about how to "chicken baby" to make children step into the sky, it is better to set an example and create wealth value.

Teaching by example is not as good as teaching by example. Day and night edification will make him grow into a decisive and brave child. On education, we should believe in the power of time.

That's because Alyssa Chia used to work hard and got some attention.

So she can start over peacefully after the divorce. Life is too short to start from scratch.

Only when you have money and time can you straighten out the chaotic life and have the right to start from scratch.

The fundamental factor for children to live well after leaving their original families is that their mothers have strong economic ability.

Whether you choose to remarry or not, you can protect your child's life well.

2. Perseverance will affect children's mentality.

For Alyssa Chia, remarriage is just a choice and an ornament of life.

But for some women, they must remarry after divorce, otherwise they will be condemned by society and feel insecure.

Their life is a closed loop, because there are problems, so they divorce.

After the divorce, I hurried to find another person to marry, causing new problems, and so on.

They seem to be in a hurry, in a hurry, regardless of whether the other person is the right person, and the dishes they are looking for are all over the plate.

But often this kind of marriage will bring secondary harm to children.

Because there are no carefully selected men, problems may arise and the family may break up again.

When a child is taken from one broken family to another, he is actually doubly hurt.

Moreover, such a mother is actually weak and can only change from attachment to one person to attachment to another.

Like vines, the word "clings" is written as the main theme of life.

When the mother is attached to the man and the child is attached to the mother, it is inevitable to feel dependent on others.

Children who grow up in this kind of family either drop out of school early or are cowardly and careless.

Because his mother taught him by behavior, independence is not what we should do.

3. remarriage is not to find him a "new father"

Marriage is not like a hemostatic bandage, it is not just to find a section and put it on immediately after injury.

Marriage should be a gift given to oneself when one is in a good state.

Many girls who divorce with their children will think about how to find a person who is good to their children.

This view should be abandoned first, because we are not looking for a father for our children, but for ourselves.

Don't marry someone just because he is kind to his children. Marriage is based on his own first perspective.

The children are far braver than we thought. They can bear a lot and learn a lot.

Two people born without blood relationship can live under the same roof even if they are not close, just like the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Forcing children and stepfathers to have a good impression will raise "deformed" children.

Besides, we don't have to worry too much at all. A good husband naturally has the potential to be a good father, but a good father is not necessarily a good partner.

Only when we are happy can we bring a happy home to our children.

Finally, no matter family of origin or remarried families, each family has its own problems.

However, in order to be a role model for children, some roads are difficult, but we must start.

Author | Lexus, who is keen on thinking about the relationship between evolutionary psychology and gender emotion, is on the road of finding true love with everyone, convinced that the best time to cultivate a relationship is always now.