I broke up with my first boyfriend for more than ten years and got married. Today, he sent me a message asking me how I was doing. I hesitated for a few minutes and promised him. ...

First love is the most unforgettable, and polite response is also acceptable. There is no need to continue talking, because we all have our own lives. Imagine what your husband would do if he knew. As a man, I know that feeling. My wife's last birthday, her ex-boyfriend sent her a text message, and she only replied with two words, thank you, and told me about it. I think people who have loved before, whether for the first time, the second time or the third time, are good for some reasons. Which means we can't go back. Sometimes we don't miss that person, but miss the innocence and beauty at the beginning. First love is the first time people put their feelings into it. It is bound to be serious and hard to forget. Relatives can't forget it at all. They can only say that they have put it down.

I don't think what you did is wrong, but I also want to advise you from a man's point of view, don't talk to him more, respond politely, and remember your naive self ten years ago appropriately. After all, we are not alive now. After all, he is not a teenager ten years ago, and you are not that lively girl. We are all growing up and getting old. . . Hope to adopt