Reflection on a couple’s quarrel

As partners who depend on each other, husband and wife should be considerate of each other. The following is a review of couples quarreling that I have collected for everyone for your reference! More information can be found in the review column!

Reflection on a couple’s quarrel (1)

Dear and beloved wife:

First of all, I want to say, I’m sorry, my wife, I know it’s me who has been bad lately, I shouldn't have yelled at you yesterday, I shouldn't have said that you don't care about me, and a few days ago, you said that I used to feel that you were very rustic and I didn't dare to take you out to meet friends. I shouldn't have said that casually. One is, because I originally said that I think my wife is the most beautiful now, I forgot to consider that my wife will always think in the opposite direction and always think that the words of praise I say are lies, even if I am misunderstood. I am still strong and do not hesitate to praise my wife time and time again, praising my wife passionately.

Then I will still make mistakes under the scolding of my wife. I should not still make such mistakes under my wife’s wise leadership. My flattering villain’s face fully reflects my naughtiness. Sex, compared with my wife’s brilliance and wisdom, I really can’t feel ashamed in this world. However, after careful consideration, I decided to find a place to feel comfortable. From then on, I made up my mind to obey my wife’s wise instructions anytime and anywhere. No matter how hard or difficult the things my wife wants to do, I will treat myself as a 250-year-old. In that case, I will definitely complete my wife’s tasks. What I require of me is that my wife’s happiness is my happiness, and my wife is the source of my vitality and the source of my soul.

My mistake is that I did not admit my mistake in time after making a mistake, and I also committed despicable behavior that the world cannot tolerate, and is despised, despised, and criticized by the world. I yelled at my wife and yelled at her. . It has been said in China since ancient times that a husband should obey the three virtues and follow the four virtues. He should speak softly to his wife, and should be silent when he hears his wife speaking loudly. He should also clearly realize that his wife is not yelling, but she is being nice to me and encouraging me. Me, I don’t have the right to be angry at all. Ask yourself, will my wife’s hard work be in vain? Alas, it’s all because of myself.

Moreover, whatever you do for your wife is what you should do, and you shouldn’t ask for anything in return. Every day, when my wife is older and my wife is younger, I cry. That is the supreme honor that my wife has given me, and I should cherish it. , I shouldn’t expect too much from my wife. My husband calls me something short every day. Although my wife doesn’t call me, she calls me in my heart all the time, thinking about me. I am shameless and demand so much from my wife. I deserve to be scolded by my wife. .

After a night of deep reflection, I fully realized my flaws and stupidity. Facing such a wise and graceful wife, some of my actions can only be described in three words. They are too ignorant. Think about it, from the beginning of our relationship, my wife has been so tolerant and forgiven me time and time again. She stayed with me when I was lonely; when I was sick, she took care of my illness by herself; when I was depressed, she encouraged me, Comfort me; on the other hand, I failed to discover that my wife was sick in time and accompany her to the doctor; when I was taking the train, I forgot to bring more clothes, which made my wife almost freeze all night; when my wife was angry, I It also added to the chaos and made me angry. Thinking about such a good wife, I couldn't find another one. I found that I was so lucky, but I was so numb that I didn't know how to cherish her. I really shouldn't.

Wife, allow me to interject a few words here, okay? Regarding the issue of love, wife, I know that our love can definitely exist beyond love, but the reason why love is called love is, Because it can make us love each other more. Wife, don’t do that to me. I want you to come back and make love to you. I like the feeling of being one with you, touching your smooth skin and kissing your forehead. You of all places. So, wife, let’s continue to be the same as before, okay?

In this way, I will listen to my wife more and do all the right things that my wife asks me to do. Wife, is that okay?

After careful consideration, I decided to learn from my mistakes and change my past bad habits in the future, and treat my wife with all my heart. Insist on putting everything about my wife as the center, and under her wise leadership, continue to continue our beautiful love, resolutely fight against all the evil forces that destroy our love (of course, most of them are my bad style), and remain steadfast , and my wife will go on forever. My sincerity, the emperor, the emperor, and the earth, I have learned from the experience, I hope that my wife will have a lot of pity on your husband, please forgive me this time.

Reviewer:

xx, xx, 20xx

Review of a couple’s quarrel (2)

Dear husband:

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In order to express my most sincere apology to you, I have made a deep review of my behavior. From the day we met, although there was sweetness in our lives, I broke your heart into pieces every time there was a conflict. In order to make our future life full of joy and warmth, I will carefully analyze my behavior. If there is any offense, I also ask my husband to be an adult and ignore the villain. For the sake of you being older than me , forgive me for all my faults. After my careful analysis, I summarized the following points:

First, I should not be too willful. Whenever I'm in a bad mood, I shouldn't blame you indiscriminately. You comfort me with good intentions, but I still don't know how to show appreciation. I glare at you and vent all my unhappiness on you. Don't you understand? Seeing the donkey going downhill?, I insist on irritating you, and then making everyone unhappy. When you are angry, you feel that the end of the world is coming, and tomorrow will be too late, and you feel that there is no good person in the world except yourself. From now on, I must "stop as soon as I see you". When you comfort me for one or two words, I must smile brightly. No, I will never be willful again and be a reasonable, gentle, virtuous, and virtuous good woman.

Second, I will never compare with others. I don't envy other people's good things. When I see other people's things, I will try to close my eyes. Anyway, out of sight is pure. I often say in front of you, you see so-and-so has a house and a car, and I promise never to say this again from now on, because I now realize that I am the richest person in the world, because I have you, you It is my greatest wealth. As long as we keep working hard, we will have all these things in the future. You always stood by my side when I was most difficult and vulnerable. That was enough. Why should I still be vain and care about superficial things? Therefore, from now on, I must be of one mind with you, and we must become one and the same. We must first become a spiritually rich person, and then become a spiritually and materially rich person.

Third, don’t be a coward. In life, I always argue with you. Because I always use the things I gave you to make excuses, I can only get a reputation of "a good thing turns into a bad thing" in front of you. In fact, I just want to remind you that you should also give me a small gift, otherwise I will think that you don't care about me and forget about me. Although we have been together for three years, you have only slept with me once. You only say "I love you" after you drink, and now I can't even hear it. Maybe this is what everyone calls the three-year itch. I will never use those things as an excuse in the future, as long as you live your life and think about me for a while.

Fourth, I must be a smart woman. Develop your own unique vision. Whether it is women's clothing or men's clothing, you must be able to tell at a glance which one is suitable for you and which one is suitable for me. Every time I buy something for you, I feel extremely excited and think you will definitely like it. But most of the time I buy it back and either return it or exchange it. I know this is all because I am too stupid. As a woman, I can't even do things like buying clothes. I am really stupid. Therefore, I must observe more, think more, practice more, and learn to make clothes. If you join me and make clothes, will you wear them?

Fifth, know how to save face for you.

When I was having dinner with my colleagues last night, I turned around and left because you said something that made me feel uncomfortable. I still got angry with you when I came back and didn't answer your calls. After you told me the whole story later, I felt that I was so reckless and ignorant. We must resolve any conflicts internally in the future and must not do anything that affects unity. I must increase the sense of collective honor, not hold you back, breathe the same breath, and share the same fate. In front of others, the two of us are like one person, let them envy you.

Sixth, get rid of the problem of being careless and putting things in one ear and out the other. Sometimes you assign me to do this today and do that another day. I agree, but never do it. I guess you will be disappointed with me now. In fact, I also want to do the things you asked me to do well, mainly because I am not aggressive enough by nature, and I always hope that you can accompany me to complete the things. You said I didn't take your words seriously, but I was speechless. I'm really sorry. In the past, it was because I was too indulgent to myself and developed a habit of laziness. Therefore, I must cultivate my ability to be independent, bravely take responsibility, and handle our relationship properly.

I stayed up all night last night because I had been thinking about my life and yours. No matter how fierce and cruel this society is, we should be full of confidence, even if we only do one thing in our life. Whatever you do, you must work hard to make your life rich and colorful. Even if the sky is cloudy, it cannot stop me from pursuing the bright sunshine.

Let’s summarize this first. I know that my problem is that I can’t finish writing in three days and three nights. I hope you can criticize and correct me for any shortcomings in my future life, so that I can clear the dark clouds and see the sunshine. Today, under your care and love, I can thrive and grow from a naive and ignorant stupid woman to an intelligent, beautiful and charming woman.

My self-reflection letter makes my heart clear. I hope your husband can forgive this woman who makes you angry every day.

xx, month xx, 20xx

Reflection on the quarrel between husband and wife (3)

Dear, respected, smart, capable, beautiful and generous wife:

In order to further deeply reflect on the serious mistakes I made two days ago and prevent similar incidents that made my wife angry from happening again, after two days and two nights of deep reflection, I have made a profound reflection to express my regret. Wife, your undying loyalty. If there is any inappropriateness, please criticize and correct me, and put forward more stringent requirements. I will accept it with an open mind, compare my own shortcomings, speed up the pace of rectification work, and work hard to be a more qualified husband! Now I will review the content The report is as follows:

1. It’s all done, advantages and disadvantages coexist

Today is a very memorable day. It has been 116 days since my wife and I met in the vast sea of ??people. , since we have been together for 70 days. In the past few days, there have been sunshine and wind and rain, just like our love, there have been sweetness and small unpleasantness. Investigating the reason, I deeply realized that my wife was right all the time, and the problem is still It comes from me, mainly reflected in the following aspects:

(1) The hardware conditions need to be improved urgently

Nearly 30 years ago, after the arduous efforts of my parents, we finally got the On the morning of the first day of the second lunar month in 1985, I came to this world and began my long journey in life.

In fact, I was so handsome when I was a child that many ignorant little girls secretly fell in love with me? Of course, there were also some who were in love with me openly, but at that time, deep in my young heart, I had a very firm belief,

None of them are my cup of tea, so I have to keep waiting for the one I love most in my life to appear? Time flies, time flies, and finally in the hot summer of 20xx AD, the hills of my hometown were in the beautiful season of colorful purples and reds. , I met someone who I firmly want to cherish and love throughout my life. That person is you, my amiable and lovely wife? However, time is a butcher's knife, although I have also had He was handsome in his glory days, but after years of vicissitudes, he has nothing to do with words like "rich, handsome".

My wife, you are tall, fair-skinned, beautiful and generous, smart and considerate, highly educated, and thoughtful (due to space, I will omit countless words of praise for you here but seek truth from facts). Most importantly, my wife has a A heart that pursues true love, even though I am "short and poor", but still firmly with me, giving me no reason not to love and cherish it. Here, I hold my hand just like when I swore an oath to the party flag. She clenched her fists towards the computer screen and said silently in her heart: "Honey, I love you, I will love you and cherish you!".

But wife, you are really wronged. When you are with me, you can no longer wear your beloved high heels. However, because of my body and skin, I cannot make myself more handsome because of my parents. But I can make myself twice as good to my wife. There is no best, only better. Although I can't make too much money, I will never just hand over 80 cents to my wife if I have a dollar. I also hope that you will continue to strictly discipline me in accordance with the principle of "high standards and strict requirements" and work hard to create a more perfect husband. Wife, you are actually the one who works the hardest!

( 2) Resolutely put an end to arguments with your wife

Dear wife, when I calmed down and decided to sincerely reflect on you, I blamed myself even more. In the days we have walked together, many times I have The reason why I make you angry is because I refuse to let you go on some issues and always like to argue with you. Now I deeply and painfully realize that my good qualities of being competitive and strong should be applied more to work. In the world of emotions, especially when facing a considerate and intelligent woman like you, I should completely put aside this If you have the mentality to argue with you, you must resolutely implement the six principles of loving your wife:

1. My wife can never be wrong;

2. If I find something wrong, it must be me I saw it wrong;

3. If I saw it right, it must be my fault that caused my wife to make a mistake;

4. If it is her own fault, as long as she admits it, She is not at fault;

5. If your wife does not admit her fault and you still insist that she is at fault, then it must be my fault;

6. In short, my wife will never be at fault. . Wife, it was all my fault that I made you angry before. You don’t care about the faults of small people, so you don’t care about me anymore.

To express my determination, I promise that I will firmly support the leadership of my beautiful wife, face you with a mind wider than the sky, and understand you in everything. When my wife hits me, I have to endure it, smile at my wife, and be willing to be my wife's vent. When my wife scolds me, it is definitely because I have done something wrong. I must accept it with an open mind and change my past mistakes. What we must truly do is "never hit back when hit, never retaliate when scolded", resolutely do not shirk, explain, or get angry when dealing with your wife's blame, and always defend your wife's dignity. We should further follow the basic policy of "Follow your wife when she goes out, obey your wife's orders, and blindly follow her when she makes a mistake", unify thoughts and actions to the basic point of making your wife happy, put an end to empty talk, and insist on implementation.

(3) I don’t care enough about my wife

Since I met you, in order to ensure that the foundation of our hard-won relationship is stronger and to let my wife truly understand my sincerity, I resolutely follow the basic requirements of being good to my wife, caring for and caring for my wife, and put an end to the thoughts of waiting, relying, and demanding. I am proactive, work hard, and have made some efforts in caring for my wife and making her happy, such as: Secretly go to your wife’s workplace to send roses, celebrate your wife’s birthday even though you are poor, remember to buy grapefruits for your wife at all times, don’t order eggs for your wife when you eat together, etc. Although my sincerity and hard work have won my wife's basic recognition, I feel that there is still a big gap between me and a husband who truly cares about his wife. This is mainly reflected in:

First, romantic feelings are still there. not enough. Whether it's because of EQ or IQ, I didn't create more romance to add more brilliant colors to our relationship. This is my fault. I believe that my wife will ignore past grudges and give me the opportunity to grow gradually.

Secondly, the sweet words to my wife are not enough. In the past, I only followed the basic requirements of caring for my wife through practical actions. I did not say too many sweet words to my wife, so that my wife was not sure of my love for you. In the future, I must implement it? I must use both words and actions, and I must be strong with both hands. ?’s principle makes your wife happy every day.

The third is that it is not careful enough. Details determine success or failure. In the past, I sometimes made my wife angry because of my carelessness, but now I have learned from the experience and decided to resolutely show my concern for you in details, such as: Don’t forget to hold your hand when crossing the road, and make sure to look at your face when talking to you. Looking at you, you must straighten your back when walking? Please ask your wife to supervise you.

Fourthly, machismo still exists. In line with the basic principle of "lenity for confession and severity for resistance", I admit to my wife that some things in the past were caused by my male chauvinism, which made you feel that I did not care about you enough. I have realized my mistakes. , we must work hard to correct it in the future.

2. Looking at the present, hardships and happiness coexist

Recently, we have closely focused on the core of "striving to build a warm little home", assessing the situation with a development perspective, and constantly exploring ideas , determined to forge ahead, and made great efforts to become a house slave. Now, this work has made phased progress. In the process of promoting this work, my wife, you have played a decisive role. Taking this opportunity, please allow me to say to you "My wife, thank you for your hard work!". At the same time, I will also report my recent thoughts as follows:

Dear wife, from the moment we decided to work together to buy a house in this city and build a small home of our own, I deeply realized the responsibility on my shoulders? This kind of Responsibility is a responsibility based on your unparalleled trust in me; this responsibility is the responsibility that gives a man the most motivation to fight!

I will never forget that we are together, whether we are facing the wind and rain or breathing heavily. When I went to see the house in the dusty air, I will never forget the differences we had over where to buy a house. I will never forget that my dear is so capable and always has unique insights into buying a house and decorating a house. , and you have put in hard work, which makes me admire your performance as a "female man". Let me call all of this a process of struggle. There are many hardships, but my heart is full of sweetness and happiness, because you are holding hands with me to go through it all. Wife, because of you, I am happy and contented, and I am also grateful to have you walking with me?

3. Thinking about the future, thoughts and actions go together

Dear wife, I Again, harshly criticize yourself for the many times I made you angry before. I hope that my wife, who is kind, tolerant, kind and loving, will hold your hand high and forgive me for my mistakes with the broad mind of "an adult does not remember the faults of the villain".

If my wife forgives me, I will definitely remember my wife’s kindness and use this to spur myself on to strive to be a more loving and better husband! If my wife refuses to forgive me, I will not be discouraged and I will definitely be more profound. Reflect and review myself, and use practical actions to prove my love for you.

In the days to come, I will love you well, love you well, and will never make you angry again. I can’t just care about my own feelings at any time, and think about problems from my wife’s perspective at all times. We must continue to follow the fundamental principle of "My wife is always right", resolutely treat my wife's words as orders, and recognize, accept and implement my wife's views, intentions, and decisions. There is no process of judging right or wrong, and there is no room for negotiation. We cannot object or resist.

Dear, although this in-depth review is only at the ideological level, my wife, please believe that as the saying goes: Before the troops are moved, thoughts go first. I will definitely take today's in-depth introspection as an opportunity to In practice, I will continue to improve my ability to care about my wife and love my wife. Please test me, my wife!

Reviewer:

xx, month xx, 20xx

Husband and wife quarrel Self-Reflection (4)

My lovely, beautiful and a little bit naughty wife:

In accordance with your imperial edict, I immediately, immediately, and very quickly made a decision on myself. A profound self-reflection. The following is a self-reflection letter I wrote to my wife. Please review it:

If there is anything inappropriate in the self-reflection letter, you can negotiate and correct it. My wife is always right

On May 20, 20XX, I made my wife angry. I really regret it, but every time I get angry, I am blinded by anger. I will learn to get rid of this bad habit in the future. I may really I didn't expect that I needed to leave some space for the other party. I just wanted to see if you said you cared about me or how you cared about the Fa. I only thought about myself, but kept putting pressure on you. I regretted it afterwards. But I know that regret is useless. I can only correct myself slowly in the days to come. I say in my mouth that I just have doubts and need to check with you, but in my heart, I really have doubts. I have 90 Wrong, I shouldn't doubt you, but 10 I think it's because you didn't make it clear to me. You know that I care about you. No matter what you need me to do, I will try my best to do my best. (You still need more supervision)

Regarding my wife’s views, I can only accept or implement them. There can be no process of reasoning, no room for negotiation, let alone objection or resistance. This is one point What I did was very bad. I lost my temper, ignored you, and even made you cry. I was wrong!!!

I seriously ignored that my wife’s heart is very easily hurt. , because my wife had been hurt before she got to know me, but I completely forgot that you are 6 years younger than me, and you are the person I love the most. I should hold you in my hands and let you feel it all the time. I love you, but I often yell at you, which seriously hurts my dear wife’s heart. My wife, I was wrong again!!

Wife, sometimes I am always blind. I ask you to be nice to me, ask you to change this for me, and change that for me, but every time I say that I will change your bad habits for you, I make a mistake. Since I can't do it myself, what ability do I have to ask you to follow me? I am the same. In fact, you have given a lot for me, what else do I want? I can't leave you. Without you, I will be very sad, sad and painful. I will regret losing you. If that time comes. What should I do? I don’t even dare to think about it myself. The only thing I can do now is to change myself!!

After the above profound analysis and self-examination, I decided to change myself in the future. In the days when I am with you, I will love you very much. Never allow yourself to indulge your own taste at any time. You cannot only take into account your own feelings and ignore your wife's feelings. You should even take care of your wife's feelings. What you say to yourself, Be responsible for what you do, learn not to hurt the other person, and learn to be tolerant.

This self-reflection is not only for you to read, but also for yourself. Let yourself always remember this day. Before you feel angry or angry in the future, read the self-reflection written by you first. My dear, I really know that I was wrong. Please forgive me. I will learn to face it with a peaceful attitude in the future. If there are any mistakes that have not been written, or there are mistakes in writing, please point them out. In any case, I will not ignore you in the future. , yelling, I am a pig, big pig head, don’t be angry with me, for the sake of our common ideals, please forgive me this time, I promise not to make the same mistake again in the future. , in order to make up for my mistake, from now on my wife says 1, but I won’t say 2. If my wife tells me to go east, I will definitely not go west. If my wife tells me to get lost, I will definitely not dare to climb. What do you tell me in the future? So what!!

I didn’t cherish the past days. I believe that in the days to come, I will listen to you, because you are the only one for me!

My dear, I don’t have many advantages, the only thing I have is a sincere heart, I love you

The following is my pledge

1: First of all, I must care for, love and be considerate of my wife. Mainly

2: No matter what you do, report the day’s work and living conditions to your wife every day

3: Don’t smoke, smoke less, don’t drink, drink less

4: If you don’t do anything to disappoint your wife, you will never be sorry to your wife when faced with a strong temptation. Even if you can’t help but cut off your penis, you can’t do anything wrong

5: I don’t quarrel with my wife. If I have a small quarrel sometimes, I will let her go.

6: Every day when I get up and go to bed, I have to say 10 times in my heart, my wife, I love you

7: No matter where you go, you must report to your wife and keep in touch. You must never not answer her phone calls or reply to her text messages (except for not hearing it, you will inevitably not notice it when you are away)

　8 : Never cheat on your wife at any time

9: Don’t make your wife cry

10: When your wife is unhappy, you must find ways to make her laugh. When your wife is happy, I should be happier than my wife

11: Resolutely work hard to complete the tasks assigned by my wife

Please, my wife, supervise me in my future life (don’t test me, I’m afraid) if Are there similarities, is it purely a coincidence? The final interpretation of this review belongs to my wife. This guarantee will be implemented on a trial basis from April 24, 20XX. If there are any additions in the future, my wife has the right to add them at any time!

xx, xx, 20xx