Kim Jonghyun's 8-year-old veteran fan committed suicide with grief. Is Korean food so crazy?

Yes, South Korea seems to have a higher suicide rate than China. Because South Korea is a patriarchal society, their moral requirements are higher than ours.

But this is not madness, but is determined by their social culture.

I once heard a friend from South Korea say that if a little morality is violated in South Korea, a star may be abandoned by the public. So their superego should be more developed than ours. But in this way, it is difficult to take care of their id, so Kim Jong Woon will feel very tired.

Because we like a person, it must be because he has something similar to us. Fan, an 8-year-old veteran of Kim Jonghyun, may be the same person as Kim Jonghyun, or his life mission and goal will disappear with the departure of Kim Jonghyun, so he also chose to give up his life.

Please note that this is written in Kim Jonghyun's suicide note:

I am miserable (ill) because of me. All because of me, because of my incompetence.

People with depression are like this, pointing their incompetence at themselves and pointing their faults at themselves. So, when you think you're dead, you're completely relieved.

For people with depression, what we need most is to accept them completely and accept everything they have. His doctor, on the other hand, blamed the introverted personality in a gentle and slow voice.

I believe his doctor means well, but the values projected by social culture will inevitably make doctors have some tendencies to show them.

Therefore, please all living people cherish their lives, life is only once. When you are depressed, you must turn to others, family, friends and many helplines for help. I wish I could help you.

Psychological Self-Healing with Lively Colors and Fragrance —— Su Xin's psychological painting (ID: Suxin 1920) gives you more.