How to treat mistress correctly

How to treat mistresses correctly? Nowadays, more and more men cheat, which is a great blow to women, so many women hate mistresses. The following is some information I have compiled for you about how to treat mistress correctly. Let's have a look!

How to treat xiaosan 1 1 correctly? Don't cry, don't make trouble, don't hang yourself.

This is actually a very irrational way. Many people have done this, but what's the use? The more you do this, the ruder you are.

You have to understand that tears can't buy sympathy, fooling around is just the opposite, and hanging yourself is what you want.

Therefore, it is better to handle the problem gracefully, which will not make people look down on you.

2, can only outwit, not recklessly.

Since a man is cheating, he must have his own reasons more or less. If it is really his own reason, he should reflect on it and pull his heart back instead of pushing him out.

As the saying goes, "flies don't bite seamless eggs." The proverb says, "The fence is so tight that wild dogs can't get in." Since mistress can get involved in your marriage life, it shows that your marriage has already had a certain crisis.

Of course, if it's not our own fault, then we should consider that we are no longer suitable for each other.

3. Give full face and treat it rationally

Men are the proudest. Once you tear this net, the other person may also break the jar and fall.

Especially in public, don't let him down, even if he is wrong, go home and close the door, and then clean him up. As the saying goes, "Don't wash your dirty linen in public".

How to treat mistress 2 correctly and call back her husband's heart?

In the face of the intervention of mistress, we must first pull our husband back to ourselves, let relatives and friends do ideological work, and let him understand that a beautiful marriage cannot be destroyed by mistress.

Ideological work.

Tell San Xiao that you love your husband very much. Your children need a complete family. Your husband can't live without you and your children. You get along well with your parents-in-law. Let mistress know that she can't replace you at all.

Moved by reason, understood by emotion.

Tell mistress that your current behavior has seriously hurt you. If one day your husband abandons his wife and children and chooses her, then today is her tomorrow, because your husband can abandon his first wife and will abandon her one day. Please think twice.

Control the husband's actions.

When you find your husband having an affair, you should control him and let him go home in time after work. You can't go out alone. You must go shopping or take a walk and get together with your friends. This way, if the mistress is left out, she will take the initiative to quit.

Public opinion attack.

If all the above methods fail, then use the method of public opinion attack. Yes, the unit leader can report the problem of Xiaosan's life style, or try to tell Xiaosan's parents and friends about her emotional problems. I believe that few people can ignore other people's opinions.

How to treat San Xiao 3 correctly and be loyal to yourself forever?

First of all, in the case of determining that the man has a mistress, look at yourself calmly and ask yourself, "Do you still love this man?" I believe you have the answer in your heart at this moment.

Don't be a roaring emperor

Learn to be calm, and don't lose your temper, quarrel or cry crazily with that man. This is not only unhelpful, but also demeaning yourself in the other person's heart. At this time, if San Xiao takes the initiative to tell you about the relationship, you don't need to reply to her immediately, wasting her, ignoring her, ignoring her, which is also a punishment for San Xiao.

Divide it if you want.

If you have no feelings for the man and decide to break up with him, then you can choose to point out and break up with him in a way that makes him feel lost. Dumping him is happier than being dumped.

Improve yourself.

If you still have feelings for the man, first of all, you should improve yourself from the appearance, and create a white celebrity style by means of weight loss, slimming, hairdressing and makeup, so that you will feel ashamed to see you. This move is a powerful weapon to defeat San Xiao. Secondly, show your culture, literacy and knowledge at all levels. Even if mistress scolds you with dirty words, learn to let the other person choke back without a dirty word.

Have a good time

Learn to enrich your life, read more books, make more new friends and circles, and at the same time do a good job in your own career, so that you can become an independent and confident woman of the times, instead of an abandoned wife who lives by a man, and deliberately let San Xiao see your current living conditions, believing that she will hate her teeth.