How do I flirt with my love rival?

Do you love her? If you love her, stay together. If you don't love her, don't ask for your feelings. In the end, you won't be able to deal with it. Do you feel that you are with your original girlfriend because you are lonely and alone? If so, let it go~!

Do you like what your classmates introduced? If you like it, go for it~! When you catch up with a girl, try to find out if it is the one you like. When a boy chases a girl, it feels like one thing, and when you catch up with a girl, it feels like something else. You only need to feel suitable for yourself.

Love and like They are different:

A light love is like, and a deep like is love!

What you like turns out to be love, and what you love turns out to be family affection!

There is one emotion in the world called "like" and another called "love"

Love means that when he is there, he is the only one in the eyes; when he is not there, everything else With his shadow.

I like it when I suddenly think of him while reading a book late at night, imagine what he is doing now, and feel a light warmth in my heart, but I never take the initiative to call him. A few minutes later, my attention was attracted by the plot of the book again!

Love is in the lonely night, longing comes like a tide, I hold the book in my hand but I can’t read it, and I am thinking about it in my heart. Wondering whether he is still working overtime at this time, whether he has eaten dinner, whether he is thinking about himself as much as he is thinking about him

I like to discuss issues with him and argue with each other, not giving in, and acting like he is in front of him. Like a hedgehog, he never admits defeat, but in his heart, he has long secretly admired his knowledge and talent.

Love means hoping that he will be in step with you and be connected to your heart. A joke he said unintentionally can make you feel depressed or even tearful in an instant. In front of him, I was never defensive.

What I like is to send him a text message when I’m out and tell him the weather here is nice, turn off my phone, play wildly alone in a different place for a week, and then suddenly appear in front of him with a tan and scare him. One jump.

Love is wanting to be with you wherever you go. You can stand on the beach and call him on the phone and let him listen to the sound of the waves; you can also stand still for a long time because you see a figure that looks exactly like him on the street in a foreign land.

Love was what he had been told before leaving on a business trip. He stuffed his backpack with clothes and food, and would not leave until the train left at the station. And in the days after he left, I was uneasy every day, praying over and over again for his safe return.

What I like is that when I am hurt, I don’t want him to see my fragile side, so I quietly wipe away my tears in front of him, and turn around, still looking happy and strong.

Love is when you are wronged, crawling on his chest and crying bitterly, without pretense or worry, telling him all your troubles, and longing for a smile from his arms.

Like, only when we are together do we miss each other.

Love means that even if we are together, we miss him every second.

If you like someone, many friends will also feel happy.

Loving someone is a world where two people will feel uncomfortable if there is one more person.

It is sweet to like someone. Loving someone is a blessing in disguise.

If you like someone, you will be very happy when you are together

If you love someone, you will be inexplicably disappointed when you are together

If you like someone, you I won’t think about your future

If you love someone, you will often look forward to tomorrow together

If you like someone, you will always be happy when you are together

Love someone People, you will often shed tears

If you like someone, when you haven’t seen each other for a long time, you will suddenly think of him

If you love someone, when you haven’t seen each other for a long time, you will think of him every day

If you like someone, when you think of him, you will smile slightly

If you love someone, when you think of him, you will be in a daze at the sky

Like someone People, you will think that if they have children, you will definitely like them very much

When you love someone, one day you will suddenly be curious: what will our children be like in the future

To like someone is to hope that everyone will be happy

To love someone, hope that he will be happier

To like someone, you only need today

To love someone, What you expect is forever

To like someone is to see his advantages

To love someone is to tolerate his shortcomings

When you stand In front of the person you love, your heartbeat will speed up

But when you stand in front of the person you like, you only feel happy

When you make eye contact with the person you love If you vote, you will be shy

But when you make eye contact with the person you like, you will only smile

When you talk to the person you love, you find it difficult to speak

But when you talk to the person you like, you can speak freely

When the person you love cries, you will cry with her

But when you like When someone cries, you will comfort her skillfully.

When you no longer want to love someone, you have to close your eyes and hold back the tears

When you no longer want to like someone, Just cover your ears!

Like is a mood

Love is a feeling

Like is an intuition

Love is a feeling

You can stop if you like it

Love has no end

It is very natural to like someone

When you love someone, you feel very calm

When you like someone, you sometimes look forward to being with them

When you love someone, sometimes you are afraid of being with them

If you like someone, keep arguing with them

If you love someone, keep giving for them

If you like someone, hope that they can find you at any time

Love someone, hope you can find him at any time

Like someone, always smile for him

Love someone, always cry for him

Like is persistence

Love is worthy

Like is like, very simple

Love is love, very complicated

Like You, but I don’t necessarily love you

If I love you, I must like you very much

In fact, liking and loving are only one step away

But if you want to take a step This step

It depends on you

Whether you like to take this step

or love to take this step

Decide whether you love it or like it , A person cannot fall in love with two people at the same time. You can like several people at the same time, choose the one you love!

Follow the one you like! Information for your reference:

I don’t regret what I did, I regret what I didn’t do, don’t let yourself regret it! As a boy, you should take the initiative. Opportunities will not be left to those who wait. If you like it, take action~! If you don’t know how to do it, I’ll give you reference materials for you to take a look at. There’s nothing wrong with taking the initiative to fight for what you like. Act bravely~!

When he doesn’t love you, it doesn’t matter whether he loved you in the past but forgot about it, or whether he never loved you before.

. When you cannot be the person in his heart, his heart will not remember you. Although he knows that you love him deeply, he would rather pretend not to know.

When he doesn't love you, please don't disturb him when you are unhappy or in trouble and hesitant. His place is definitely not the place you should be at this moment. Maybe he will comfort you with a few words when he receives your call, but that's all. Maybe you will want something more, so you say: "Let's meet." And he must be irritable. When he doesn't love you, your love and your people will seem much cheaper. You have the upper hand, that's human nature. He will say: "Okay, but I have something to do now. You can call me later. Or I can call you." And you must not take it seriously at this time, he just found someone who is not very smart. Reasons to prevaricate you. Please, don't really wait, don't lie to yourself.

When he doesn't love you, please don't tell him your trivial matters. Maybe at this moment, you just want to get more familiar with each other. However, he has no time and no interest in getting to know you, your life, your past, what do your strengths and weaknesses have to do with him? Even if you talk about it. He will forget it soon, just like he forgot your birthday, your address, and your phone number. Without love, you are destined not to squeeze into his life. Even if what you want is just a small corner.

When he doesn't love you, please don't shed tears in front of him, and don't tell him when you are sick. He cannot give you care and attention. At most, I sympathize with you, but please don't give up your pride if you are proud. Although too many people have lost too much in the face of love. I don't even have the courage to stand up. Why be proud? However, remember that only those who love themselves can truly cherish you. Instead, look on with sympathy. mercy.

When he doesn't love you, your love is his burden. Please don't count your efforts and don't expect anything in return. Loving someone who doesn't love you is unrequited. Don't worry about right or wrong. This will make you happier. Remember, the love between you and him is one-sided. You put your heart into it, but he doesn't. So don't blame him. Because maybe he also wants to do something better. Don't be so indifferent to you. It’s just that if you love someone, be kind to someone. It's just instinctive. Sorry, he doesn't have such instinct.

When he doesn't love you, please don't lose your self-confidence. Because loving someone is not about his excellence, but just a feeling. He makes you feel this way, and you love him. Similarly, if he doesn't love you, it doesn't mean that you are not good. Excellence is not a reason for love. Seeing that there are so many people who love you, smiling slightly is also very sweet.

When he doesn’t love you, you must also bless him. When there is love, there should be no hatred. Love is beautiful. Hateful but ugly. Why let the best things in life turn ugly? Don't think it's unfair either. About leaving. What he lost was someone who loved him, and you lost someone who didn't love you, but you got a chance to live and love again.

Please don’t think about “forever”. Love doesn't last forever. You love him deeply at the moment, but you are destined to stop loving him one day in the distant future. He just got to this day one step ahead of you. When he doesn't love you, please gently embrace the warmth in the memories and gaze gently at the withering tenderness.

When he no longer loves you, my dear, please take a deep breath. The road of life is covered with buds of love. There is always one that belongs to you, not to comfort you. Rather, this has been destined for life after life.

The greatest charm of a man is a successful career. Young people do not work long hours and cannot be considered "successful". At this time, you have to make your sister think that you are a motivated person.

You can talk nonsense about other things, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell mm that you are full of confidence in the future, that you are not satisfied with the status quo, and that you already have long-term plans. In short, your future Not a dream.

I am a girl, and I feel disgusted when I see some boys who want to chase the girl they like but dare not chase her, and even want her to chase her instead.

From a girl’s words From a perspective, I understand girls’ psychology better. Most girls will not take the initiative to pursue the boy they like, unless they really like him too much or are brave girls with more personality. So, if you like a girl very much and think she is interested in you, then take the initiative and don't get into a tug-of-war with her. If you feel uncomfortable, the person you like may also suffer too.

Whenever a girl is chased by someone, her psychology is very complicated. She may be happy, but she is also a little scared. She has an ambivalent attitude towards this boy who breaks into her peaceful life. She does not mean to refuse but welcome him. Don't think that she is testing you, she is actually fighting with herself, and she is afraid of being hurt.

Don’t be afraid that your initiative will offend her. If you don’t take the initiative, she won’t take the initiative either, and she will slowly fade away. If your initial confession is rejected by her, that's normal. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking?

Maybe if you confess your love twice more, she will be moved by you. A good girl with a kind heart is easily moved.

If you suffer a setback, leave immediately, never talk to this girl again, protect yourself tightly, and lick your wounds silently. While you are in pain, little do you know, that girl Maybe I am feeling regretful and regretful in my heart! Maybe she will cry secretly and regret rejecting you. She will also be very sad when she sees your indifferent eyes, but she will not tell you and will definitely not ask you to come back and chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart.

She will think that you don’t really like him, otherwise why would you just give up on her?

Some people say that it is so difficult for boys to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role positioning of men and women. From a physiological and social perspective, women are always passive. If it were the other way around, if men were made shy and women became courageous, the world would be in chaos! A woman's shyness is always beautiful and touching~ I have always heard that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are very few examples to the contrary.

Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are stalkers and get a bad reputation. But I think that when a boy pursues a girl he likes and continues to be nice to the girl after some setbacks, it means that he really likes her and is sincere. If he doesn't succeed, he doesn't regret it. It's nothing, right? Who made people like it? I hate other people messing around the most, and I also hate boys who have no idea of ??their own and care too much about what others think of them. Such boys deserve to be unable to find a girlfriend.

If you are a man, be brave. Girls are inherently emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you have worked hard, once your sincerity touches her, you will get more and longer love. Such examples abound around us. Girls are very gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. In exchange for this sweetness, what is the hard work in the beginning? And most good girls are very devoted and dedicated in love.

So, I suggest some boys be brave and pursue the girl they like. Don’t be so timid. Firstly, it will make people think you are unmanly. Secondly, it will make you feel uncomfortable. But the most important thing is: in the end you get nothing. Happiness is always earned by yourself, don't expect others to give it to you!

One more thing, I think it’s good to be proactive, because your goal is something you really like. Girls are often passive, and the passive ones can only choose to accept or reject, so I would rather take the initiative. , love what I love, no regrets!

1. Be confident and responsible

Don’t be like a child. Girls are very lazy and hope to find someone to rely on. You have to show your confidence and Come on with responsibility.

It is better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.

2. Don’t be too serious, but don’t be too casual either.

Be serious where you should be serious, and laugh when you should be ridiculous.

Girls like men who are a little cynical, so don’t appear to care about anything, as that would be too dull.

3. Look more mature

A man who is calm and unhurried in situations is fatally attractive to girls.

2. How to have further contact with mm (time: the beginning of chasing)

1. The most important thing at this stage is not to be anxious, not to make things so clear, let People can tell at a glance that you are chasing them.

Think about it, most people will not fall in love with you at first glance, but they will also not hate you at first glance. They are all ordinary people’s children (unless you look like Chow Yun-fat, Andy Lau or Kevin Coster) (Na), goodwill needs to be realized as understanding continues to increase, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

Think about it from a girl’s perspective: If you rush over to find someone so directly, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If I find out that I don't like you after being in contact for a while, wouldn't it be like playing tricks on you? So if you come out with a determined attitude from the beginning, you will basically be put back immediately.

2. Start with a low profile

First of all, you must position the relationship as a "friend". It is originally an "ordinary friend". If you want to become a "good friend", it is okay if you have good taste. Ask the other person to become a "confidante" or something like that, but never say "chasing you".

Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then the girl will have less chance to "reject" you - how can she reject you if you don't pursue her? !

This can reduce the psychological pressure on girls and enable you to have a smooth relationship. Don't imagine that you will agree to marry you after only three days of knowing each other. You need to fully communicate and understand each other. Feelings do not arise out of thin air.

3. Don’t be too impatient in the process of dating.

Be relaxed and don’t pester others all day long. You will get tired of anyone who treats you like this. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing a girl is eight words - "hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the culmination of many years of hard work by my classmate).

Of course they won’t think well of you if you keep pestering them all day long. If you cool off for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your presence.

Also, don’t have the ambition of “I won’t marry you unless you want me”. It’s not good if the price is too low. Sometimes you can use some tricks.

4. Create opportunities appropriately

As mentioned earlier, don’t make things immediately turn into “you are chasing someone else”, and you need to get the opportunity to get close to girls. It all depends on your creativity.

You can collect intelligence and find ways to turn waiting around into an encounter; you can also pretend to be casual and find the most sufficient reasons to invite the other person to do something with you.

In short, this is the most technical place. If it really doesn’t work, you can ask your seniors for advice.

5. Don’t: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually.

Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things and give them to others. However, they don’t know that this is the most taboo thing for chasing girls.

As the saying goes, "No reward for no work". If you give people things like this, you are putting pressure on them. People will feel that they owe you something, so they will find a way to pay you back. If they can't pay you back, they will Find a way not to associate with you so that you don't always owe you favors.

If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well ask a girl to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat, or finding an expensive place to play together. Girls will naturally be able to see that you spend money. It was a lot of money, but after all, the money was spent by two people together rather than turned into things to take home.

3. What exactly is a “girlfriend”?

1. "Girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise

When you start dating a girl, you change from "ordinary friends" to "good friends", and then to To "a very, very good friend who talks about everything", you "accidentally" held her hand on a sunny afternoon; to "the moon above the willows", you suddenly attacked and kissed her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Regardless of whether she admits it or not, she already thinks that you are her boyfriend.

I know that the wisest person didn’t even ask “Will you be my girlfriend” until we went to bed? In the end, the girl got anxious and said, “Why don’t you ask me to be your girlfriend? ”

So, don’t rush to pierce the window paper. The more hazy the situation is, the better it is for you.

2. What is "confession"?

As mentioned before, confession is actually just a formality. The correct sequence should be: Only when she has actually become your girlfriend can you confess your love to others, and it will be a matter of course. Many people don't understand this issue and always think that someone agrees to be their girlfriend first and then does whatever they want. I can only say that it is very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid".

3. Is there ever a time when you “have no choice but to express your feelings”?

Yes, for example, a third party appears, or the relationship between you and the girl is not mature but the two of you may be separated for a period of time.

The confession at this time is an immature confession, and the risk is very high. It is similar to the serious situation when playing Go. The lagging side is forced to release the "winner's hand", and if it wins, it wins. If you lose, you can only say "Unlucky people are born".

4. Don’t say the word "love" easily

I often see "bold confessions" appearing on forums. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment, and even a kind of responsibility.

Men who say "love" casually are irresponsible.

4. Civilized love cannot be forced.

1. Not every girl can be pursued.

There will always be many people chasing good girls. No. Maybe everyone's wish comes true, but there will always be losers. For example, even if you study hard and master the most advanced principles of chasing girls, you still can't catch up with anyone in TWINS.

Think about the problem from another angle. A rural nanny who has not graduated from elementary school, no matter how nice she is to you, earns 600 a month and buys you 700 gifts (overdraft), and is willing to "play a role" for you. "You won't fall in love with her either. If she cries and pesters you every day, you will definitely feel annoyed.

So love needs a material foundation, or at least a balance.

2. Chasing girls is a serious social activity.

Don’t annoy others and leave a way out for yourself. Why should a man worry about not having a wife? Some girls are indeed snobbish (a minority). If you are not convinced, you can work hard and use facts to prove that "she was blind at the time." Never mislead others or yourself.

Two final points:

① Never appear cynical in front of MM. Being cynical sometimes means "you are a failure". The boy who really loves you can't tell you the reason why he really loves you. He only knows that he doesn't care about paying attention to others. Guan Guan Suijiu, in the river island. A graceful lady, a gentleman is fond of quarrels. If you don't get what you want, you will sleep hard and think about it. "It's leisurely, you're tossing and turning." Indeed, after quietly falling in love with your sweetheart, but not knowing how to express it, this is a problem that many young men and women often encounter. You are ashamed to ask for advice, and you are even more afraid of "falling in love." "Flowing water is ruthless", so you have to remain silent and have no choice but to be anxious and distressed.

In fact, there are many ways to express love to the person you admire. As long as you are good at observing carefully and catching the connotation of love in time, you will always You will find the right time and method. Here are several methods for your reference.

Creating suspense: When the secretly voluntary relationship between young men and women develops to the point where their goals are determined and their affection is persistent, they first create suspense and intentionally set up an invisible "second love" in the other person's heart. "Three things" create a tense and ambivalent state of mind in which love cannot be achieved and can't let go. Then, the other person suddenly realizes the truth, realizes the turning point of love, and pushes love to a new depth.

Marx is an example of successfully using this method when he confessed his love to Jenny. He said to Yanni: "Yanni, I have fallen in love with someone and decided to express my love to her." Yanni has always been in love with Marx in her heart. At this time, she couldn't help being stunned and asked eagerly: "Do you really love her?" I love her, she is the best girl I have ever met, and I will always love her from the bottom of my heart!" Yanni suppressed her emotions and said calmly: "I wish you happiness!" Marx said wittily: "I still have her by my side. I have her photo with me, do you want to see it?" She said and handed Yanni a beautiful small box. When Yanni opened it anxiously, she saw a small mirror with the "photo" in it. It's Yanni herself. Marx deliberately set off waves in Jenny's ocean-like affection - creating tension, so that Jenny, who loved him deeply, was surprised and mistakenly thought that he loved someone else. When he realized that Jenny looked painful and lost because of losing him, The expression on his face immediately induced her to resolve the suspense and open the box containing the "photo". The person in the mirror was herself. A false alarm shows Marx's unique way of expressing love.

Erotic romance: Both parties know their feelings, but are timid to express their love directly to the other party. You can choose a small gift with profound meaning to give to the other party to express your love, which will express your love implicitly. Basically, it adds a romantic mood. When a small gift from a sweetheart arrives suddenly, the recipient's imagination will run wild, and a "miracle" will appear.

A girl met a boy. The boy had a very good impression of her. In subsequent contacts, they fell in love with each other, but they never had the courage to confess to each other. Later, her sister came up with a clever idea: prepare three beautiful cards and hand-deliver them to the boy on his birthday. The first card showed a girl in red, pinching her nose playfully, and the card said: "Please remember me!" The second card was a simple picture, with the rays of light reflecting the lake into orange, and the title There are two lines of small words: "If it was a mistake from the beginning, then why, why is it so beautiful?" The third picture of a girl playing the piano under the moon says: "I miss you so much!" How interesting! This way of expressing love is not only unique, accurate and interesting, but also full of romantic sentiment. Anyone who is shot by Cupid's arrow will happily accept it.

Turned and implicit: If your sweetheart has a strong cultural quality and understanding ability, you can keep your emotions hidden in each other's conversation, so that he or she has a twist. The path leads to a secluded feeling, and I feel that love is mysterious and sweet, and it is very artistic.

A young man won first prize in a prose competition and received a microwave oven. When he told his sweetheart the news, he said: "I finally have my own microwave oven, and I won the first prize in the essay contest!" The girl also said excitedly: "Then I congratulate you!" "It's too boring to celebrate like this. Come on, how about we have a family dinner?" the young man suggested. "Okay!" "But I don't know how to cook. What should I do if I don't have a master to operate it?" The young man seemed embarrassed. "Can I try it?" The girl volunteered. "That's great. It would be great if I could often eat your cooking!" "As long as you don't think my cooking is lame, I promise you that!" The young man used the prize as a topic and cooking as a topic. The main line, after going in a big circle, finally cleverly guided each other's conversation into a "normal track" with expressive expressions, as if a marriage was finalized inadvertently.

Speak directly from the heart: Some people express their love very concisely, straightforwardly, and without any pretense. They boldly and unreservedly pour out their feelings to each other, just like the gurgling stream. Generally speaking, this method is suitable for people who are straightforward and like to get straight to the point when expressing their thoughts and feelings.