I like a girl. I come from Dalian. She is in Hangzhou. I have known her for a long time. Send a text message and call to ask, besides eating, what about the weather? what can I say?

I can see that you like her very much, and I have had similar problems with you. There are two things you must find out for yourself. You spent so much effort to ask this question, do you really like her from the heart, not because you can't get it. If you really decide, then I can understand why you are afraid to confess, because you are afraid of losing her. Second, you are in Dalian and she is in Hangzhou. This is a long distance. Are you ready? Back to the question: besides eating and the weather, we can also talk about work and study. If family members are together, you can also talk about your hometown, former classmates, former teachers and some interesting things when you are together. We should also know what she likes, what color she likes, what books and movies she likes, or give her some unexpected surprises, send some greetings and some humorous short messages. I agree with your step-by-step approach. If you really like her, you will patiently change some of her misunderstandings about you and let her know your kind and excellent side, and she will eventually come together with you.

However, I also advise you not to take feelings too seriously. Love is not the whole of life. There are many other meaningful things to do besides feelings. Even if it is rejected, it's nothing, no shame. Read thousands of books and take Wan Li Road. If you can't extricate yourself, even because this annoying thing has affected your normal life, you might as well give up your work and go out for a complete madness, such as a long-distance trip with no money (only dry food).

I don't approve of chasing others, although it works sometimes, but such feelings come too easily, but they are not as worth cherishing as you have persisted for so long. But also bring trouble to others, and lose yourself while pursuing others. To like someone is to be good to her inexplicably. Now that you have been able to be good to her, what can you pray for? When you are in love, you should also pay attention to "benefits". Benefits mean that you can bear this feeling and the efforts you have made to pursue it, persist in it for a long time, keep it forever and let it go. That is to say, even if you have to give up for other reasons, you can face it calmly.

Finally, good luck. Everything will be all right, jack shall have Jill!