My boyfriend travels a lot and ignores me every time he sends him a message. What should I do?

In view of this situation, we should understand each other. After all, the boyfriend is going on a business trip instead of traveling. Of course, he didn't reply to your message because he was too busy at work or too tired to chat. For whatever reason, a girlfriend should be considerate of her partner in this state. In addition, women should also cultivate their independent consciousness and strong psychological quality, and learn to live their own lives as usual when they are separated from their boyfriends, instead of annoying each other with news. When the other half doesn't want to chat, he can't complain, because he must have a special reason. Although girls don't have to be considerate, they should at least respect and understand the other half, which is very important for the cultivation of feelings.

First, husband and wife should understand each other. If you are lucky, you may have to get along for life. At this time, conflicts will definitely break out for various reasons. If you don't have an understanding attitude to accommodate all this, then the greetings to both sides in the future may be endless quarrels and abuse, and feelings will undoubtedly be slowly exhausted in this process. It's as small as making a mistake to make the other person sulk, and as big as the differences in personality, outlook on life and principles of doing things lead to irreparable differences on many things. So at this time, the only solution is to think from the other side's point of view, understand his imperfections, and let the other side reach a unified opinion through concessions. There is also a reason why my boyfriend didn't reply to the news, so understanding him is far more conducive to consolidating our feelings than meaningless blame.

Second, women should be independent forever. Once a girl falls in love, it is easy to fall completely. At this time, the center of her whole world becomes her boyfriend. Wherever she goes, she always revolves around each other, and even thinks about each other most of the day and wants to chat with him. This is an irrational psychological state, and it is easier to get hurt in love. Therefore, it is very important to cultivate an independent personality, so that you can enjoy the sweetness of love, endure the loneliness of being single, be loyal to yourself and not be attached to anything external. Only by doing this can you really live freely.

Third, treat contradictory girls with a normal heart, because they are naturally sensitive, they are very easy to suffer from loss. This is also the reason why they subconsciously doubt whether their boyfriends have stopped loving when they suddenly ignore themselves in love. This is a typical manifestation of psychological fragility. There are too many similar psychological tests in real life. If you surf the internet every time because of small things, the whole person is bound to live very tired.