Are all the friends in the circle of friends showing off?

Are all the friends in the circle of friends showing off?

Is it all to show off in the circle of friends? Friends circle is people's main social platform. Since the launch of WeChat circle of friends, people's lives are inseparable from WeChat. Many people share their lives through the WeChat circle of friends. Are you all showing off?

Are you showing off in a circle of friends? 1 In everyone's circle of friends, more or less some people often take pictures to express happiness.

Some people often bask in all kinds of delicious food they eat, some people bask in their luxury homes, luxury cars and companies, some people often bask in beautiful pictures of their travels everywhere, and some people often bask in their happy love with their couples.

These people are really winners in life. Do some people live a life we envy every day?

In fact, the more people who lack something, the more they will show off, and the more people who have nothing, the more they will shout.

All human beings have the psychology of want. The more unsuccessful people are, the more they want others to respect TA, so they often pretend to be rich and hope others will worship TA.

The more unloved people are, the more they want others to think that TA is very happy, so they often pretend to be very happy. I hope everyone envies TA.

1, people who often eat delicious food, in fact, most people usually eat fast food.

People in the circle of friends often say what they ate at noon today and where to eat a big meal tonight.

It seems that ta people have a good appetite and often eat all kinds of delicious food.

In fact, everyone in the industry knows that people who really eat regularly will not bask in food in a circle of friends.

Only those who usually scrimp and save, often eat fast food, occasionally decide to treat themselves, or occasionally someone invites them to dinner, will be excited to make friends and make everyone envy TA.

2. People who often bask in luxury houses, luxury cars and companies are actually mostly for financing or cheating money.

Some people often bask in various luxury houses, luxury cars and companies in their circle of friends. It seems that they are all winners in life and have reached the peak of their lives. Let us who squeeze the subway bus to work every day have to feel ashamed.

In fact, those who often bask in various luxury houses, luxury cars and companies are mostly for the convenience of financing. In order to convince others of their economic strength, lend him money or invest in his company and projects.

There are even some people who have exposed various luxury houses, luxury cars and companies, not their own, but others'. The purpose is to cheat others' trust and then get more money.

3. People who often bask in various tourist circle of friends, in fact, most people rarely go out to travel.

Tourists who often travel abroad rarely take photos of various tourist maps in their circle of friends.

Most people are working at ordinary times, how can they have so much time to travel?

Only during holidays do most people have time to travel.

People who often take various travel photos in their circle of friends are mostly novices who rarely travel. In order to send those travel photos, they just want to show happiness and make others envy him.

4, people who often show love, in fact, most people are unhappy.

Those who often show love in the circle of friends, in fact, most people were unhappy before.

Now that I have found someone, I feel very happy and want the whole world to know.

Some people even want to declare sovereignty to their predecessors, former partners and rivals.

These are all manifestations of TA's inner immaturity and lack of confidence.

People who are really mature and confident will not do this.

Are all people in the circle of friends showing off? 2 1. I don't like making friends either. Only I know whether my own life is happy or not. Is the circle of friends really happy? I just want to keep a low profile and live in reality.

I don't like making friends myself. I feel cheerful, showy, idle or simple, and people with little talent like to make friends. Low-key, mature and introverted people, or lazy people who don't like new things and socialize don't make friends. My personal opinion.

3. I like to send friends, but I don't show off anything in my circle of friends. I just want to share with my friends what I should share and the happiness in my life. I just want to remember the happiness when I read it one day.

4. Actually, it is a person's personality problem, and personality is always determined by introversion and extroversion. Making friends does not mean showing off, not making friends, or keeping a low profile. Because my personality is outgoing, cheerful and optimistic, and I like to make friends. Making friends will bring me happy mood. Well done! Like to make friends doesn't mean not to keep a low profile, just want to live in a 20-year-old mentality forever.

I think there are many people who don't like to send friends, just because she thinks that most of the things in the circle of friends are unrealistic. She is tired of watching it, and there is no need to waste energy in the virtual online world. Life is like a fish drinking water, and you know it well. There is no need to show it to others. They live more realistically, pay more attention to reality and are not addicted to the internet.

Are all the friends in the circle showing off? 3 0 1

On the Zhihu, someone asked: What is the mentality of people who often send friends?

Netizen "Gao Qingqing" replied: "Actually, it's nothing. Why do you look at others with such a' thorn'? People may just be a record of life. "

Radish and cabbage, each to his own liking. You like playing the piano and singing, he likes writing and reading, she likes dressing up ... even if no one likes it, she can have a good time.

There is a good saying: "Love yourself and please yourself is the best life."

For a friend with a little shit, you should look at it in two, otherwise your vision will be particularly narrow.

02

Show off your mind everywhere, show off yourself anytime, anywhere.

There is such a view: "People who have never seen the world will make friends at every little thing."

People who have never been to grassland often sing grassland folk songs and write poems related to grassland; People who have never seen the sea can say a lot of lyrical words to the sea in the network; Occasionally, people who go to hotels will take gorgeous photos. ......

It seems that most people have time to show off. He is showing off and others are jealous. In the long run, what you show off is regarded as talk capital by everyone, and it will be taken out at any time to derogate.

A female reader shared a story that she would take selfies when she missed her grandmother. She wants to let grandma know that she is doing well through her circle of friends.

A friend left a message: "Don't show off your necklace."

Another friend said, "Did you climb up to a local tyrant boyfriend and give him a luxurious necklace? Still cheated? "

It turned out that everyone saw a special necklace around her neck.

The female reader said, "The necklace was given by my grandmother. I really don't know that I will be misunderstood by so many people. "

You know, not all showing off is useless. Some beautiful things need to be shared with others. "Showing off" is a person's nature and a way of emotional interaction.

There is a warm saying: "I admire those who are not commented and praised, give yourself a little love."

Not all ostentation should be laughed at. You don't understand others, others don't blame you, but don't judge them.

03

Go your own way, your own circle of friends, and make your own decisions.

There are always some people who live freely and will not be overwhelmed by the hardships of life. Even at the bottom, I will be happy. There is always sunshine in his circle of friends.

During the Song Dynasty, Su Dongpo was demoted many times. On one occasion, he was banished to Huizhou. Huizhou was a remote place at that time, and the air was very hot and humid.

In his spare time, Su Dongpo wrote a poem-300 lychees a day, at the expense of being a Lingnan person.

Someone who is good at something thinks that Su Dongpo's "circle of friends" is unique and has not suffered enough. Underhand mischief led Su Dongpo to be assigned to Hainan as a policeman.

Be a man, really don't be so pessimistic. No matter whether others like to send friends or not, you can't lose friends. You know, it's not the circle of friends that traps a person, but your own pattern.

You can't even send it to your circle of friends. What reason do you have to call yourself brave?

04

Seeking a caring attitude and hoping to find a trace of warmth in the network.

The host Wu Danru told a story: When she went to the hospital, she met an old man.

As soon as the old man entered the hospital, he shouted and thought that everyone was unfriendly to him. Arriving in the ward, the old man began to scold the children and blame them for not visiting.

After a while, the old man answered a phone call, then calmed down a lot and said, "Later, the eldest son said he would come to see me."

Wu Danru commented: "How can this old man get true love by insulting him?"

Courtship to people around you seems to be a very unreliable thing. Caring is a willingness to fight and a willingness to suffer. If not, love will turn into hate and become a very troublesome thing.

The reason is obvious, but not everyone understands it. There are always people who want to attract others' attention through the internet.

For example, when taking an injection, take pictures of your poor side and make friends. Many people left messages to show their love, and his illness was reduced by half.

05

Very curious attitude, pour everything you see and hear into your circle of friends.

In fact, many old people are curious about things on the Internet. He thinks everything is true. For example, if you see some health care methods, you will immediately collect them and forward them to others.

A person who is keen on sharing may send dozens of messages a day, but he means no harm. These things are normal to you, but he doesn't think so.

No one can tell how much content the network produces every day, but you can't finish reading it in a day.

If you have enough time and like studying, you can immerse yourself in the internet all day. Sharing, commenting and explaining can bring you happiness.

06

In the circle of friends, what should I do if I meet a friend who has broken something?

Haruki Murakami once said, "Not all fish will live in the same sea."

Others like the circle of friends, you hate it, and there is no need to say it. In interpersonal communication, not disturbing is a kind of high emotional intelligence.

First, respect their way of life and don't hate it. If you really don't like it, you can block it. Classify friends so that people who like to make friends don't come into your field of vision. When you open your circle of friends, you will naturally feel at ease.

Second, don't boast about interaction. Everything is seen from a distance. Some people say, "Like it is also a courtesy." If you don't want to be disturbed, you have been crossing other people's worlds without any intersection.

Third, kindly remind him of his fault and stop him from sending some negative energy content. From the perspective of helping friends, stop the spread of some rumors and bad comments.

Fourth, fade out of the circle of friends and pay more attention to the life circle. If you don't watch your circle of friends, all the shit has nothing to do with you.

What is more terrible than sending a circle of friends casually is human prejudice.

When you criticize others, remember that not all people are like you.

Lang Lang Gan Kun, the world is very different, don't impose your ideas on others.