Show Lo broke up by text message.

Some time ago, a message detonated the hot search.

Grace Chow published a long article in Weibo, announcing that he broke up with Show Lo. As soon as the news came out, the explosive barrel was immediately ignited, and people gathered to watch and eat melons.

Why did you break up? In Weibo, Zhou Yangqing said: Show Lo had an unbearable relationship with other women, and more than once. During the period of love, Show Lo cheated many times, and kind-hearted Grace Chow chose to forgive again and again, expecting his change. But now it seems that nothing has changed.

Someone commented: Show Lo people should collapse, this is love rat.

Some people say that their three views have been destroyed, and some people lament that the entertainment circle is too deep.

Nine years of love, phone porridge every day, an important festival I never forget, and finally I can only stay away from tea.

I saw three truths about love.

? The purpose of true love is to be content with the status quo, not to be philandering.

I saw a story on Zhihu some time ago:

A friend who answered the Lord took a fancy to a girl. After getting the girl's WeChat, I began to pick her up from work every day.

Fortunately, the girl told him that she had an ex-boyfriend, and in a different place, A treated her much better than her ex-boyfriend. A I'm glad I can spend my life with this girl.

After getting along for a while, I found that my ex-boyfriend had just quarreled with a girl and it was not over yet. Although I like A, I still don't give up my ex-boyfriend in my heart.

Later, the girl quarreled with Xiao, saying that he was naive, and told him not to pick her up from work and to keep a certain distance from her. Later, they broke up and the girl went back to find her ex-boyfriend.

There is a very popular word in the last two years: freshness. After a long time, I lost my original feeling. The appearance of A brings freshness to the girl's life. During that time, when a girl quarreled with her boyfriend, A could take advantage. When the novelty dissipated, the girl understood what she wanted and left him.

True love is not the excitement brought by short-term freshness, but the sureness brought by long-term life.

Zhang Ailing once wrote: Maybe every man has had two such women, at least two. Married a red rose, over time, the red one turned into a touch of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one was still "the bright line at the foot of my bed"; Married a white rose, the white is the rice on the clothes, and the red is the Zhu Shazhi in my heart.

Good love is a little smug. People who satisfy themselves will not compare with others, but will enjoy it and will not be philandering.

The love between Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang is envied by everyone.

"Before I met you, I didn't want to get married. I didn't think about marrying anyone else when I met you. " This is Qian Zhongshu's sincerity to Jiang Yang.

Qian Zhongshu was naughty when he was a child. He painted a turtle on his daughter's stomach and damaged things at home. Jiang Yang smiled at Qian Zhongshu to comfort her. This is Jiang Yang's tolerance for Qian Zhongshu.

Harp, harp and voice, taking Qi Mei as an example, are all portrayal of family happiness.

If there is no carefree love, how can love be sweet if you eat what is in the bowl and watch what is in the pot every day, envy the love of others and find fault with your boyfriend?

No one is perfect. To love someone, we should not only be attracted by her advantages, but also tolerate her small shortcomings.

? Love is precious, but you are more precious.

When chatting with a friend, he said something that impressed me deeply: "the gentleness of a man is the most useless." He can't give his beloved girl bags and cosmetics, nor can he give her the life she wants. You have nothing but tenderness. "

I don't fully agree with this sentence, but it makes sense to think about it.

When we met love when we were young, we threw ourselves into it and regarded love as the whole of life. He was everything to me. Slowly, for another person, I gave up myself. Surround each other all the time.

As we all know, love is only a part of life, not the whole of life. It's hard to meet another person, and you are more precious.

In the movie Passing Through Your World, there is such a sad scene:

Swallow and pig are lovers in college. After graduation, Zhu Bajie stayed in the Chen family, eating and drinking every day, trying to make money, and sending it to the swallows after making money, which made him hard up.

Swallow graduated and went abroad for further study.

When they reached the age of marriage, the pig borrowed money from a friend to buy a house, hoping to ask her to marry him when the swallow came back. Swallow came back and told him: Break up.

The swallow finally took a taxi and left the pig head. The pig finally ran behind and cried and asked, "Swallow, you must be happy. How can I live without you? "

Helpless, worried.

Swallows are growing, pig heads are still, and the gap is widening.

Really valuable, not short of the gap between the two.

The pig's head loves lowly and loses himself, thinking that it can catch up with the swallow with a sincere heart. His sincerity is insignificant and not worth mentioning.

Love is a bit snobbish, both sides should be evenly matched, not completely different.

Unfortunately, even if he pays more attention to himself and improves himself, the swallow will not leave him.

As "Muslim Funeral" wrote: "People can lose everything, but they should not lose themselves."

If you compare life to a pie, love can account for a quarter or even half, and the rest is to study, work and improve yourself.

Love is a subset of life, not a complete work. No matter what love is, don't lose yourself. How to have a better life is more worthwhile than a beautiful love.

Life is not only the beauty of love, but also the pride and joy of self-improvement.

There are only 0 and countless infidelities.

My friend B recently called me to complain that she broke up.

I feel very shocked and incredible. Ask her why.

She told me: "once when she was having dinner with her boyfriend, he sent a message on his mobile phone, but he didn't watch the news first." It's that he looked at me first, then watched the news and saw the news. Although I didn't laugh, I could still see that I was very happy and asked me to work overtime at night. I thought it was wrong, so I followed him, and sure enough, he cheated. I wanted to break up like this, but he cried and knelt down and told me that I wouldn't make any more mistakes. My heart melted and I thought he would change. But I was still naive. He continued to break up with that woman, and finally he decided to break up. "

A person who really loves you is unwilling to share this love that belongs to you with others. He can't bear to make you sad, nor can he bear to see you sad.

If there is an affair in love, it is not love, it is a temporary passion.

We often hear the saying: "There are only 0 and countless times of derailment."

The first derailment is to test your bottom line, and you forgive it, which shows that there is still room for manoeuvre and the cost of derailment is low. Then there will be a second, third, or even countless derailment.

Like a frog in warm water. I didn't feel anything at first, but I gradually got used to it and it became more and more terrible. Some things can't be done at once.

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Of course, love is beautiful. Some people are bad and defile the beauty of love. We can't give up our yearning for love because of their actions. Before the arrival of love, silently improve yourself. Low quality love is not as good as high quality loneliness.

As Jane Eyre wrote: "Love is precious, but personality is more expensive."

An independent, mature and responsible self is a better self. When love comes, you can better seize it and live a good life with your other half.