I invited a man to dinner, and he didn't return my messages.

I think you should ask each other a few questions first: 1, what is love? Ask each other what to do and what not to do in college love! If you don't think the opposite, you can ask in person, or when you ask for the first time, you can ask the other person to think about it and ask again in a day and a half. 2. Ask the other person if he likes a girl, ask the other person what he plans to do in college for four years, including asking the other person what advantages and disadvantages you think you two have for each other, whether the man is an only child, whether there are other men as companions, and so on. 3. I don't know what the woman thinks. Maybe the man just wants to bring a partner to work and find someone to accompany him, but he doesn't want to take on love and the like; ; 4. Look at your own choice. If you don't have other boys you like, and you're not afraid of being misunderstood, it seems good to have a boy to spend four years in college with you. You can continue to let the other person study with you, study privately, or tell the other person when you meet love, and then quit; These are all yours, but I think you'd better buffer them when you handle them. Especially if you can't see your classmates at school every day!