It has been more than half a year since I broke up with my ex-boyfriend. I suddenly got a message from him yesterday that I wanted to get back together. What should I do?

Be sure to combine the actual situation, ask your best friend's opinion before making a decision.

Generally speaking, couples break up because they have accumulated many minor contradictions and reasons. Moreover, compared with boys, girls are always soft-hearted, easy to be coaxed by flattery, and always look forward to the past.

Ex-boyfriends get back together, and girls' psychological activities begin to flourish, which are shown as follows:

1, you don't know how to cherish yourself until you lose it. Now I finally know that I am the best one. ? When I think of the advantages of my ex-boyfriend, I feel less uncomfortable, as if I was wrong before. ? It's a pity to think that the feelings I paid before have no ending. After all, together for so long, both sides have emotional foundation.

These are the reasons why boys want to get back together: 1. Comparatively speaking, my ex-girlfriend will save trouble and money. 2. I chased the girl I liked around and didn't catch up, so I thought about going back to find an idiot ex-girlfriend to spend an empty window. I'm free anyway. His ex-girlfriend can bring him many benefits.

In short, in the relationship, boys will eventually weigh the pros and cons to find the one with the highest cost performance, while girls will easily choose by intuition, regardless of whether they are rich or poor, they don't know why it is yours.

Especially girls who lack their father's company in childhood will feel insecure psychologically. Without a great father around, they lack fatherly love. Once they meet a man who lets girls relax their vigilance, they are easily caught up.

Therefore, analyze contradictions, analyze the psychology of both sides, listen to the thoughts of onlookers in combination with the actual situation, and get in touch with other opposite sex to increase your knowledge, and don't be soft-hearted for a while. After all, when you ask this question, your heart has already begun to compromise.