"Ode to Joy 2" Sharing (7): Everything you have lost will be reunited with you in another way.

In the second season of Ode to Joy, Andy and Bao Xiao, handsome in sunshine and full of gold, have been talking about love, and the whole person has become bright, vivid and warm. I have to say that the power of love can sometimes change a person greatly, which is a dazzling brilliance from the inside out.

Andy's life used to be too routine and bound, but Bao Xiao always didn't follow the routine, adding luster to Andy's dull life track, and the singularity died because of too many routines.

Singularity is a person who can deeply understand people's hearts. The time spent with him once made Andy feel warm, but it didn't make Andy feel safe enough.

When Andy was slandered on the Internet by an opponent who had a competitive relationship with Singularity, Singularity could not be contacted abroad and there was no news. Andy and Singularity have a lot of worries when they are together, and they can't help but think of their family history, which makes them fall into the emotional quagmire of contradiction and panic. Andy thinks it's all his own fault. Maybe she shouldn't get married in this life, and she is doomed to have no children, so she can't drag the singularity to choose to break up, although breaking up is a very difficult decision for Andy.

In fact, a person does not need another person or another person's love to survive. When we lose our minds and decide that we can live like that, that is love. What is more important than love is to find a foundation in our life. I love you, but I can't be attached to you.

A person's gain and loss is the conservation of energy. If he loses some in one place, he will surely find some in another place. When God closes a door for you, he will open another window for you, and everything you have lost will be reunited with you in another way.

Andy is sad to leave Singularity, but Bao Xiao will always be an angel sent by heaven to save her. Bad love makes people constantly doubt themselves, while good love makes people believe in themselves. Andy became less afraid after having a small bag, and even broke her rules. This may be the power of true love. Andy would rather get pregnant before marriage, stay with Xiao Bao, and never get entangled with Singularity again.

I once fell in love with director Bai with a beautiful vision and a longing for love. Because he met a bad guy, who was a love rat villain, and he changed his mind and forgot his justice. Finally, he was lovelorn and lost his job.

However, it was because of her brave exposure at the job fair that she found a new job in a coffee shop, where she met a steady and reserved person. Although they get along with twists and turns, according to the spoiler, she is the first of the five beautiful women to get married, and the ending is happy.

There is a kind of pain in life called missing. Some beautiful and precious things in life often pass us by, which always makes us feel regret and pain. Actually, you don't have to. You don't have to get what you like. Time will turn possession into loss, and loss into possession. What you had at that time may be lost today, and what you didn't get at that time may be much worse than what you have today. Sometimes missing is the starting point of future ownership, and sometimes owning is the reason for future loss.

Ordinary people ups and downs in the world, no one lives easily, facing the bustling indifference of the city. There are too many choices in life, and every time I finish one, I feel that I have lost too much, but how can I figure out the pros and cons before making a choice? Human nature is to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, but how can there be a foolproof life in this world?

Just like in the emotional world, some love will only sprout forever and will not blossom and bear fruit. Like everything, not every seed can complete its life cycle. However, no matter what you have experienced in life, don't back down and stop. Everything is the experience of life, so that all experiences become the color of life.

Everything is changing in the long river of time. Good things can turn into bad things, and bad things can also turn into good things. We think that bad things just go against our wishes and expectations at that time. Satisfying our wishes and expectations at that time is not necessarily a good thing, just like a child asking for sugar, blindly satisfying is harmful. It is difficult for people to grow up in joy and entertainment, and it is also difficult to experience. All our abilities and wisdom actually come from pain. In other words, ups and downs are the source of wisdom and strength.

In the years of tempering, we should gradually form a new habit of thinking: if we encounter an unsatisfactory thing, we will first think, what are its benefits? What does this mean to me? What does it need me to improve?

When we face the difficulties in life with such a rational attitude, the time of sadness will be shortened, the intensity of sadness will be weakened, it will be easier to find an outlet from adversity, and we will have more and more strength to recover, instead of falling into disappointment and staying in sadness for a long time as before.

Instead, I began to wonder about the growth brought about by difficulties. If you can understand this from the heart, there will be no good or bad in the world. Although you will still be disappointed when your expectations and wishes fail, you will feel sad when you encounter setbacks and blows, and you will be angry and blame yourself in the face of betrayal and mistakes-but the difference is that you will not stay in that mood for long, because you know that although you don't feel relieved at the moment, you still believe that everything will be arranged for the best.

Somehow, many things have their own destiny, neither earlier nor later. They can only appear in your life at the most appropriate time, full of magical mysteries. Sometimes they will regret wasting a lot of time and not cherishing the sand of time, but they have taken away the past and have no turning back, so they can only try their best to grasp the present.