Remind middle-aged women that the more generous you are to a man, the more he thinks you are "cheap". Why?

When choosing a future partner, it is one thing to like it, and it is another to help yourself. They can fall in love with the person they like, but when it comes to marriage, he will weigh the pros and cons. Even if he doesn't like you, he will choose as long as you can help yourself at work or at home. Once men and women enter the marriage hall, for men, men should not only choose a woman they like, but also choose a person who is suitable in all aspects to live. At this time, women's character and personality are the key points.

Women should know how to manage themselves and stick to their own principles and bottom line, whether for themselves or to win men's hearts better. Whether in love or marriage, the more generous a woman is in these aspects, the more careless a man is, the more generous you are, the more stupid you are, and the less you cherish him after he owns you. He thinks that you are in jail and easy to be used. When the two sexes get along, the more generous a woman is, the more she will think you are a "cheap" man.

Life is like a train. From the train, we will meet all kinds of people. Some people will leave us with many unforgettable memories, but others will only bring us sadness and harm.

Although they are all passers-by in your life, it will take us a long time to heal the pain. If you choose generous forgiveness every time, the other person will only think that you are easy to bully, and even bully you more.

Therefore, no matter who the other party is, don't forgive easily. Even if you have a good relationship, you should know that a person who is really kind to you will only think about how to protect you, and will not push your luck to hurt you, because in his eyes, you are the most precious.

Throughout the real life around us, women who never know how to refuse others and have no sense of boundaries are often kidnapped and coerced by others for no reason, no matter where they go. The most fundamental reason lies in themselves. They are too weak to have a bottom line. They always give others some unwarranted "light of hope", which makes people feel that they have opportunities or profits. They are such fools that they can come and go freely without paying any price.

Knowing how to refuse should be a woman's most basic accomplishment! A good woman will make every kindness shine! As a woman, generosity can really make you more popular, but generosity should be used in the right place. Some things are too generous, which only makes the summary cheaper.