I want to ask a divorced woman I am pursuing with my children. She always says that she is busy when she calls back.

There is too little information to distinguish.

The other party is divorced and takes care of the children. How old is the child? Did she bring it herself or did she leave it at her parents' house for her parents to bring? If you bring your own, you will be very busy, because children have a lot of things to do, and if you don't take care of them, something will happen. If it is brought by parents, it depends on her usual specific arrangements and whether she is perfunctory.

Secondly, how long has she been divorced? If it is a recent divorce, it is understandable that she doesn't want you to make a big splash now, otherwise it will inevitably come out that she divorced you for something. It is normal for her to have such concerns. If she has been divorced for a long time and has no such worries, it depends on your specific situation.

How old is the other person? What are your terms? What's the plan? Now that she has a child, it can't be so romantic. The real problem is unavoidable. It is difficult to judge what kind of concerns and purposes her behavior is based on when the specific circumstances are unclear.

Best wishes.