Chasing a girl, she said she had a boyfriend, but didn't tell me to get along for a while, and then she said she had a quarrel with her boyfriend.

20 12 chasing girls requires tactics to win the surprise attack.

1. Be confident. No matter how ugly and poor you are, be confident. Maybe the girl you like likes you. So before you pursue a girl, you should have confidence.

Don't think that you can catch up with all the girls just because you are rich or handsome. Moral girls will appreciate your connotation more, so when you get along, show your self-cultivation and demeanor.

Don't be arrogant, and don't show off your advantages and capital everywhere. This will give people a frivolous feeling. Don't brag. Girls are not fools. They can see your good points. Girls like boys with depth very much.

4. Having culture and connotation does not mean giving up individuality. On the contrary, boys with personality will fascinate girls now, but the performance of this personality should be mastered well, and don't draw a tiger to make trouble.

Be generous, even if you have no money, don't be so stingy in front of the girl you like. Not that you are extravagant, but don't haggle over every ounce. Of course, many girls still like rich boys, but I have never looked down on such kitsch girls.

6. In the process of pursuing beauty, you will definitely pay a lot, and you may not be rewarded. But don't talk about what you have done for her all day because you have paid so much, which will make them look down upon it. Girls will not be touched by your efforts on the surface, but they are still very happy inside. She will remember everything you have done for her. Try to keep working hard!

7. Some people say don't give girls gifts casually. I don't agree with this. I think we should give them gifts and do more for them. A girl with a conscience will feel indebted to you, so she won't have the heart to refuse your date and so on, so that she can get along. Of course, the premise of giving gifts is that girls have a good impression on you.

8. The purpose of our pursuit of girls is to make them fall in love with themselves, so we should be like Leslie Cheung in "Standing in Okinawa": we have been circling in front of Faye Wong, not to see Faye Wong, but to let Faye Wong see him. We should learn to show our strengths!

9. Learn to speak sweet words. Although everyone knows that sweet words are deceptive, girls just love to hear them. Don't be afraid of nausea and affectation. You know it's false, but you must say it.

10. Women are proud of themselves. So we should always praise them. Even if they are as ugly as Zhao Benshan, we should say that she looks like a fairy. They may not believe it, but they must be very happy.

1 1. Learn to do romantic things, and remember that any girl likes romance, even if she is usually serious. I once lit a heart with a candle under my ex-girlfriend's dormitory. Many people think I'm shameless, but I won the heart of a beautiful woman.

12. As the saying goes, men are not bad and women don't love them. When you are very familiar, playing a little evil, saying some naughty words and touching your hands will make girls very happy. Don't always be such a gentleman, it will give people a feeling of Mona.

13. Don't slander your rival in love in front of her, we should be generous and cheat him behind his back! Appropriately praising your rival in love will make her appreciate you more.

14. Be careful, pay attention to her usual words and give her a surprise. For example, the first time I pursued a girl, the night before, she casually said that these shoes were a little cramped. The next day, I braved the rain and went to town to buy her a new pair of shoes. She was very moved.

15. If you want to be her boyfriend, you must be friends with her good friends. Buy off her friends. When you are unsuccessful, it must be her good friend who is with her. If her good friend puts in a good word for you, you will get twice the result with half the effort. This also helps to understand her personality and dribs and drabs.

16. Stick to it. If you ask her out, she may refuse you the first time, but don't give up. You should ask her out in another way, and take the initiative to ask her out as soon as you get the chance. Every date should make her feel good and happy, and there will be more dating opportunities in the future.

17. It should be hot and cold, and there are advances and retreats. You can accompany her to study in the study room for four or five days in a row, and send her text messages and phone calls for three or four days in a row, but suddenly you are cold to her for one or two days, which will appropriately make her lose her appetite and make her feel inseparable from you.

18. In fact, the best trick to use, which is also the trick that everyone loves to use, is to make friends with her first, so that you will have more opportunities for performance and more opportunities for success. But what many people can't do well is get along too well, which will make the other person feel nothing for you. So to make you her friend, not her friend, you should try to show all your advantages, but don't show your past and your thoughts easily. It's more attractive to leave some mystery.

19. Be self-motivated, even if you don't like learning very much, show your ambition in front of her. And in the process of getting along, you should show your shrewdness and ability. Girls in this era don't like timid and ordinary men.

20. Don't act like she won't marry. Make her feel that you are very important to her and that she can't live without you. If we meet a girl who likes losing boys, we will lose a lot.

2 1. In the communication place, we can't understand her preferences and personality. At this time, you have to be mysterious so that she doesn't know you. When you get to know her, she will immediately become the kind of boy she likes, regardless of her dress and personality.

22. Have a sense of humor, but don't be too poor. Don't tell a joke several times. Humor won't make you just tell jokes. But I don't know how to have a sense of humor. I'm poor anyway.

23. When you feel that you have no hope of catching up with her, you can give up temporarily, give the other person space to think and give yourself time to re-examine. Make a new plan and appear in front of her with a new attitude. This is called retreat for progress.

You can lie to her, but don't let her know that you lied to her, or you will be finished, depending on your level of lying. Of course, it is best to be sincere!

In fact, any so-called method of picking up girls and the dogma of chasing girls are useless (including the above points). As Feng Qingyang said: winning without recruiting is the highest realm! So no matter who you pursue, don't use these methods rigidly. In fact, every girl has her own personality, and not all girls are the same. One of my ex-girlfriends doesn't like clean boys and thinks I am the most handsome when I grow a beard and smoke. Very interesting. So instead of learning how to pick up girls, it is better to pursue every girl with your heart. First of all, there are usually two reasons for this situation: first, she has a boyfriend or a favorite, and she runs away to avoid the trouble and embarrassment of the two people in the future, so you'd better give up, because there can be no result! Second, even she doesn't know whether she likes you or not, but your behavior may scare her and make her feel at a loss, because girls are always slower than boys, not to mention that she doesn't necessarily like you! The more you pester her now, the more you will arouse her disgust! You have to find out the situation before you can take action! Don't trap yourself in a boring relationship, it is you who will hurt you in the end. I said the second case. Although she is at large, she will feel sorry for you and your kindness. But there is no way, she may just want to be quiet, and she will be resistant to any short message you send now and will not accept it! I suggest you give each other some time to think about it! Adjust yourself at this time. Women like a generous man with a sense of humor. The most important thing is to be masculine. Don't cater to her deliberately, it will make her think that you have no opinion! Don't text her that you are wrong, it's even more stupid! After she calms down for a while (definitely), send her some funny messages to show your humor. Pretend you don't care. In fact, a woman is possessive. The less you care about her, the more she thinks you want to be with you. Conquer her with your charm, not beg! Come on ~ ~ you can do it!