What are the etiquette of greeting each other every day?

It seems simple to meet and say hello every day, but it is actually very learned. The following is the etiquette that I collected and arranged for you to greet each other every day. I hope I can help you!

Meet and say hello every day.

Hello? Thunder monkey

When it comes to Cantonese, most people think of thunder monkeys. In fact, hello is a very formal occasion, such as telephone consultation or first meeting. Generally speaking, when you meet and say hello, you will have a cold sense of seriousness and distance, so friends don't say hello when they meet.

The following greetings are more common:

? hello

? hello

We are all modern people, of course, we use this greeting more. There are also two common expressions:

Good morning? (early) morning

Morning is usually used to greet people when they meet in the morning. Of course, you can also use it when you get up late in the afternoon. It's almost time anyway.

Did you eat or not?

As the saying goes, food is the most important thing for people. Say hello to others, of course, is to ask others if they have eaten. Did you eat when people told you? At this time, you can tell the other party about black pepper steak, Korean barbecue, tofu seafood soup, sashimi platter, chicken slices, barbecued Lamian Noodles, pizza, pasta, roasted goose with litchi wood, sea cucumber with abalone sauce, etc., so as to win the other party a smile. (There should be a smile here)

If you don't want the other person to talk to you about the delicious food he just ate, and you want to say hello to a friend you haven't seen for a while:

How's it going? Come closer.

This is a friendly inquiry, and there is a 90% chance of starting a long conversation. (This is another smile)

If we are friends, the super good one can use the following:

Where the hell have you been recently?

Friendly reminder: it is best not to say this to your elders or girlfriends. Yes, there is a smile here. )

Regarding goodbye, in fact, we are all saying goodbye, but there are actually some who say goodbye.

See you again.

Or you can simply say one word:

Rolling (LAN)

Friendly reminder: don't say this to your elders or girlfriends.

Daily meeting etiquette

First, shake hands.

(1) Keep your posture.

A handshake gesture. When shaking hands, they are about one step apart. The upper body leans forward slightly and the right hand is straight. Four fingers together, thumb open. The palms of both sides are perpendicular to the ground, so don't shake hands too hard. On the principle of not hurting each other, the weight of the object is about 2 kg. When shaking hands, look at each other and greet with a smile or a simple greeting or greeting.

However, when men shake hands with women, they should hold them lightly with each other's strength, but not too hard.

(2) the order of shaking hands

The order of shaking hands mainly depends on the principle of "honour person first". On formal occasions, the order of reaching out when shaking hands mainly depends on position and identity. Generally speaking, it mainly depends on age, gender and marriage.

1. When people with high status shake hands with people with low status, people with high status should reach out first.

When the elder shakes hands with the younger generation, the elder should reach out first.

When the married person shakes hands with the unmarried person, the married person should reach out first.

When the teacher shakes hands with the students, the teacher should reach out first.

When a woman shakes hands with a man, she should reach out first.

6. The first person to come and shake hands with the last person in social situations should reach out first.

7. When the host entertains the guests, the host reaches out first; When the guest leaves, the guest reaches out first.

(C) the six taboos of shaking hands

1. Don't shake hands with others with your left hand, shake hands with the opposite sex with both hands.

Don't shake hands in a hurry, do it in order, and pay special attention not to cross the hands of the other two when shaking hands.

Don't wear gloves when shaking hands, but in social situations, it is allowed for women to shake hands with people wearing tulle gloves that match their dresses.

Avoid shaking hands with one hand in your pocket.

5. Avoid shaking hands without expression, saying nothing, looking erratic and ignoring each other's existence.

6. Avoid wearing sunglasses when shaking hands, except those with eye diseases or eye defects.

Second, pay tribute.

Greeting is a common etiquette, which means greeting. It is usually used in various occasions to greet people you know. When greeting each other, be sincere and have an affable expression. If you are expressionless or depressed, you will feel perfunctory. The specific greetings are as follows:

(1) Raise your hand.

Sometimes I will see familiar colleagues and friends, but I am very busy and have no time to meet. I often raise my hand to greet them. Raising your hand can be accompanied by related words and gestures. The correct way to raise your hand is:

1. Stand up straight, smile, look at each other and nod slightly.

2. The arm extends gently from bottom to top, and the arm can be completely straight or slightly bent.

3. When greeting, open your palms and face the other side.

4. Don't swing your arms back and forth.

(2) nod.

Nodding slightly to show politeness to people is a kind of nodding ceremony suitable for more casual occasions. If you walk on the road or meet an acquaintance in public, you can "nod" and nod in a friendly way. When you forget the name of the other person or just feel that the other person is familiar, you can nod, but smile when you nod. This is polite to people.

(3) Bend down to pay tribute

Learning is a polite way to show self-modesty to others. It is slightly different from bowing. Bow your head, but lean forward slightly, and your eyes are still looking straight at each other; Bow and stand up. You can stand or sit.

(4) Take off your hat and greet

In social situations, men can take off their hats to show their respect for each other. When you meet a familiar person, if you can't shake hands because the two sides are far apart, you can gently take off your hat and nod slightly to each other.

On solemn occasions, such as attending important gatherings, playing the national anthem and raising the national flag, everyone except soldiers should take off their hats. On sad occasions, such as attending a memorial service and saying goodbye to the body of the deceased, everyone present should also take off his hat.

When entering the room, the man should take off his hat; If a woman's top hat is part of her clothes, it is not necessary to take it off, otherwise it must be taken off.

When watching movies and plays, both men and women should consciously take off their hats in order not to block the view of the audience behind them.

Iii. Introduction

This is a means for people to get to know each other, which is often encountered in daily life and various social activities. The correct introduction can be that different people know each other, or they can promote themselves through introduction, showing good communication manners.

(1) classification

1. According to the position of the introducer, it can be divided into three types: self-introduction, introduction for others and introduction for others.

Self-introduction is a common way of introduction in social situations. When the host is unable to introduce you or forgets to introduce you, you should introduce yourself and identify yourself. When you want to know someone, you should also introduce yourself.

To introduce others, we must first understand whether the two sides have the desire to get to know each other, and if they are interested, then start introducing. The principle of introduction should be considered when introducing.

Introduction means that you are in an introduced position, and you are introduced to a third party or more people. At this time, you should stand opposite the person introduced by the other party. After the introduction, you should reach out and shake hands with the other person and say something like "Nice to meet you" and "Nice to meet you".

2. According to the number of introductions, there are two kinds of introductions: individual introduction and group introduction. Introduce yourself to others; Group introduction is introduced to most people in a certain order, and is often used for banquets or meetings.

3. According to the way of social occasions, there are formal and informal introductions.

(2) Introduce yourself

In the process of interpersonal communication, the first impression is often the deepest, which social psychologists call "the first cause effect". People introduce themselves to each other in the first few minutes of contact. At this time, a person's behavior often determines the communication image in the eyes of others.

1. You must be confident. Only people who are full of self-confidence can make people sit up and take notice, have charm, and have trust and goodwill.

It's best to know the character, hobbies, specialties and achievements of the communication object first, and then introduce yourself. After getting to know each other, the topics are extensive and the relationship is easier to be harmonious.

3. When introducing yourself, you should express your attitude and desire to know each other, and hope that the other person can accept your meaning.

When introducing yourself, you should express your good wishes with natural and friendly facial expressions and smiling eyes.

When the other party introduces his name or the name of something, he should listen attentively, and it is best to repeat it orally to show respect.

6. Be very clear when introducing names, and give examples if necessary.

7. When introducing yourself, don't raise your price, brag about yourself, and cause the other person's disgust.

(3) Introduce others

As an introduced person, you should show your enthusiasm for getting to know each other. Face each other, and everyone should stand up when introducing, except the lady and the old man. However, you don't have to stand up in the middle of a meeting or a banquet, you just have to bow slightly. When being introduced, keep your eyes on each other, don't look around, be absent-minded or shy, and don't dare to look up. After the introduction, the introduced parties should shake hands and say hello to each other.

1. In social activities, the host should introduce strangers among the guests.

2. In the office, receive strangers and discuss with them at the same time, and introduce both sides to the guests.

3. In public * * * occasions, introduce others who walk with others, whom Lu Yu knows but his companions don't know, to your companions.

4. I would like to recommend someone to your familiar social circle and introduce them.

5. Being invited as an introducer by others.

6. Accompany relatives and friends to visit people they don't know.

As an introducer, it is best to know in advance whether the two sides have the desire and necessity to know each other, and don't rashly introduce two people who don't want to know each other. New guests don't need to be introduced to the departing guests, and those who have an appointment with Luyu in a hurry don't need to be introduced to their peers.

(4) Business introduction

When introducing business in modern society, we should pay attention to three points:

1. Seize the opportunity. When consumers or your target audience are interested, you can make an introduction and act according to circumstances, and the effect may be better.

2. Pay attention to the way. Generally speaking, you need to pay attention to business introduction. First, you should tell him the uniqueness of your business, products and services. Secondly, people are taller than me, and everyone has some products and services, but your quality is good, your technology can be guaranteed, and your follow-up services are in place. Finally, people are superior to me. The quality technology of this modern product is becoming more and more mature, and everyone's general service is relatively high quality, so in this case, you should introduce him to the new aspects of your product and service. Novelty, you introduce him.

3. Be honest.

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The etiquette of greeting each other every day.

Greeting language expresses the communication relationship between the greeting and the callee. It is impolite not to say hello when you meet an acquaintance or to pretend not to hear someone say hello to you. Greeting happens in an instant, but the impact is long-lasting. The following analysis of several greetings.

"Have you eaten?"

This is a long and common greeting used in the history of China. "Food is the most important thing for the people". In China's long feudal society, what most workers want is to be able to eat their stomachs. So asking each other if they have eaten is a concern for each other.

With the improvement of people's living standards in our country, the problem of eating has been solved. However, greeting "Have you eaten?" It's been handed down. However, this greeting has basically lost its original meaning. It just became a form and no longer contained the original content. Ask, "Have you eaten?" Just a greeting, meaning "I see you, say hello to you!" " "It doesn't matter whether the other party really ate or didn't eat. So, in economically developed areas, "Have you eaten?" This question is gradually replaced by new greetings.

"What are you going to do?"

This is also a relatively primitive greeting, which is used instead of all languages to show that we have met. As for what the other party does, it doesn't matter, just say hello. In western developed countries, there is basically no such greeting, because "what do you do" is a private matter, and they don't want others to interfere in their private affairs too much. This kind of greeting appears in China, which also reflects the mentality of China people. With the development of economy, this greeting will be gradually replaced by new greetings.

"Where did you get rich?"

This is a problem that has only become popular in China in recent years. In the long history of China, the concept of "a gentleman values righteousness over profit" has been deeply rooted in people's hearts. However, with the deepening of China's reform and opening up, "profit" has attracted more and more attention. The policy of "allowing some people to get rich first" has made the people of the whole country rich and blessed each other to get rich.

Therefore, this greeting faithfully reflects the cultural psychology of seeking prosperity with economic construction as the center in recent years, and reflects the people's higher pursuit after eating enough and wearing warm clothes first. How to greet each other in daily meeting is a historical progress and a business etiquette.

"hello?"

This kind of greeting is concise and universal, and it is also a blessing to others. Therefore, this kind of greeting often appears in an open society with developed economy, frequent communication between different social groups and loose interpersonal relationship. Especially in some cities, with the accelerated pace of life, people come and go in a hurry, and the previous conversational greetings are no longer applicable. It is very polite to say "hello" in a lively rhythm when meeting, accompanied by actions such as smiling and nodding. Therefore, this is a new greeting with the development of the times.

In addition, in some specific occasions, such as people who are far away and not suitable for conversation, or relatively conservative people, just smiling or nodding at each other is also a greeting.

meeting etiquette

Daily meeting is the beginning of communication, and the first etiquette between people in daily communication is meeting etiquette, which leaves the first impression on each other and plays a decisive role in the depth and breadth of communication. Being dignified and elegant in manners and elegant in speech can make the other party form a solid psychological set at the beginning of communication and will have a positive impact on future communication.

The use of business cards

Exchanging business cards is a common way in people's communication, and there are many kinds of stresses when using them. Business cards usually have three uses: first, they are used in social courtesy calls; Second, it is used for horizontal contact and communication with commercial nature; Third, it is used to express feelings or congratulations on some occasions.

application area

In interpersonal communication, business cards can be used for the following ten purposes:

1。 self-introduction

When you meet someone for the first time, you'd better introduce yourself with your business card. It can not only explain your identity, strengthen the effect, make the other party unforgettable, but also save time and avoid verbosity and ambiguity.

2。 make friends

Taking the initiative to hand over the business card to the communication partner means friendship, trust and hope to the other party. In other words, clever use of business cards can pave the way for making friends.

3。 keep in touch

A business card is like a pocket address book. Through the information it provides, you can keep in touch with the business card provider. It is precisely because of the various contact information provided on business cards that people's "frequent visits" have become more realistic and convenient.

4。 business introduction

Business cards list the units they belong to, so they can also be used to promote business for themselves and their units, expand exchanges and win potential partners.

5。 Notify changes

By using my business card, I can inform my old friends of my latest situation in time. For example, after promotion, moving to a new home, changing companies, and changing phones, you can greet old friends with new business cards with small change, so that they can keep in touch unimpeded and the other party can understand their own situation more comprehensively.

6。 Visit others

When visiting someone's residence or work unit for the first time, you can give your business card to the doorman, secretary or family of the other person, and give it to the interviewee, so that the other person can confirm "who is here" and decide whether to see or not. This practice is more formal and can avoid unannounced visits.

7。 short message

When visiting others, or when you need to ask someone to convey something, you can write a few lines or nothing on your business card, and then leave it or entrust others to convey it. Doing so will make the other party "like to hear his voice and meet his person" and will not spoil the trouble.

8。 Used as text information

In the lower left corner of the business card, write a few lines of words or phrases in pencil and send them to others as formal as a long letter. If there is more content, you can also write it on the back of the business card. In foreign countries, it is popular to write French abbreviations in the lower left corner of business cards to express condolences, encouragement, thanks and congratulations to others.

Note: it means "attract attention"

P.F. means "congratulations"

Public relations means "thank you"

P.C. means "my condolences"

P.p. means "introduction"

P.p.c means "farewell"

P.f.n.a means "Happy New Year"

9。 Used as a gift list

When giving gifts to others, you can put your business card in it, or put it in an unsealed envelope, and then fix the envelope above the gift package. The latter is the standard practice to explain "who gave this".

10。 Introduce others

When the introducer meets with others, he can use a paper clip to fix his business card (top) with that of the introduced person (bottom). If necessary, you can also write the French abbreviation "P.P." in the lower left corner of the business card, and then put it in an envelope and give it to the introducer. This is a very formal letter of introduction and will be highly valued.

Business card classification

1. Entertainment card

Entertainment business cards, also known as real-name business cards. As the name implies, its content usually only contains a personal name, plus my native place and font size at most. Entertainment business cards are mainly suitable for dealing with casual acquaintances in social occasions, showing identity when visiting others, replacing gift lists when giving gifts, and being used as notes or short messages.

2。 Social card

Social business cards, especially personal business cards, are mainly suitable for social occasions to introduce themselves and keep in touch. There are two contents: first, the personal name should be printed in large font in the center of the business card; The second is the contact information, which should be printed in smaller font on the lower right of the business card. Its contact information mainly includes home address, postal code, etc. , if necessary, you can print the home phone number. It generally does not print the office address to show "clear distinction between public and private". If you don't like to disturb, you can also print only your home phone number without printing your home address and postal code.

3。 business card

Business cards refer to personal business cards used in official business contacts such as government affairs, business, academics and services. It is the most common personal business card at present. A standard business card should include three contents: the unit to which it belongs, my address and contact information:

(1) ownership unit

This content consists of three parts: enterprise logo, work unit and department, which can be increased or decreased as appropriate. However, there should be no more than two employers and departments, so as not to give people the impression of being unprofessional. If necessary, they can print more business cards. In addition, employers and departments should use their full names.

(2) My name

My address consists of three parts: my name, my position and my academic title. The last two items are dispensable, but not too much. It is impolite to add "sir", "miss" and "madam" after my name.

(3) Contact information

This item consists of three parts: company address, office phone number and postal code. Because the three are indispensable, it is also called "three elements of contact information". Here, it is not appropriate to provide home address and home phone number. Whether the mobile phone number, fax number, telex number, voice mail number and e-mail number need to be listed depends on your actual situation. Usually, my address should be printed in big font in the center of the business card, and my affiliation and contact information should be printed in small font in the upper left corner and lower right corner of the business card respectively. If necessary, you can print the business scope or location map of your company on the other side of the business card without printing a foreign language.

4。 Company business card

Company business cards are also called business cards, because they are mostly used by companies and enterprises. Mainly used for publicity and promotion activities of the unit. Its content is divided into two items: one is the full name and logo of the unit, and the other is the contact information of the unit. The latter consists of company address, postal code, company switchboard number or telephone number of public relations department.

Use business cards

1. Deliver business cards

(1) When attending various formal activities, always prepare your business card, put it in a special card holder and put it in a pocket that is easy to take out.

(2) When you need to hand in a business card, you should get up and stand up, walk to the other side, look at the other side with a smile and friendly eyes, and deliver the business card to the other side with both hands. Never pass your business card with your left hand.

(3) When handing the business card to the other party, it should be accompanied by oral introduction and greetings.

(4) If business cards are handed to many people at the same time, they can be handed in the order from respect to inferiority or from near to far.

Accept business cards

(1) When accepting other people's business cards, stand up respectfully, smile and look at each other.

(2) When accepting other people's business cards, you should hold them with both hands and say "thank you".

(3) After receiving the business card, hold it in front of you and read it carefully from beginning to end. It is best to read each other's name and position softly to show respect.

(4) Put the other party's business card in your business card holder or coat pocket, and then hand in your business card. If you don't have or bring your business card, you should explain the reason and apologize to the other party.

Ask for a business card

(1) transaction method

The trading rule refers to "if you want to take it, you must give it first." When you want to ask for someone else's business card, the easiest way is to hand your business card to the other person first. It is impolite to say "come without going". Pass your business card to the other party. It is impolite for the other party not to reply, so the other party will usually return it to you.

(2) challenging methods

The so-called provocation means that sometimes the people you meet have higher status than us, or as the opposite sex, you will inevitably be wary. In this case, give the business card to the other party, and the other party may not return it. In this case, you might as well explain a little when handing the business card to the other party, such as: "Mr. Wang, nice to meet you." I wonder if I can have the honor to exchange my business card with you? " In this case, the other party will usually return the business card.

(3) Modesty method

Modesty refers to making a little preparation before asking for a business card from the other party in order to ask for it. For example, when you meet an expert who studies computer technology, you can say, "Nice to meet you. Although I have been playing computer for four or five years, it is still a drop in the bucket compared with professionals like you. I hope I can continue to consult you in the future. I don't know how to ask you in the future? " The previous words are the foundation, and only the last sentence is the real purpose.

(4) Contact information

Modesty is generally applicable to people with high status, not to peers or younger generations. In the face of peers and younger generations, we might as well use contact method. The standard statement of contact information is: "Nice to meet you. I hope to keep in touch with you in the future. I don't know how to contact you more conveniently? "