Wang Feng sends video messages to Zhang Ziyi.

For those couples whose marriage is in crisis, divorce is a relief. But I don't know if they have ever thought that in the battle of divorce, the child is the most disadvantaged. Especially those couples who are not too old, often reorganize their families after divorce. At this time, the child needs to face the stepmother or stepfather.

In the reorganized family, it is not only the children who are hurt, but also the difficult stepmother. Do you often hear about it? Stepmother is hard to be? This is not unreasonable. In that new family, the stepmother has to face more than the legend? Difficult mother-in-law in later life, they will have to face children who may be very exclusive to themselves. If the child is still at an ignorant age, the parent-child relationship is relatively simple to handle. However, if children have long been sensible, they will often particularly reject stepmother. In their minds, they even regard their stepmother as a monster and an imaginary enemy, and even deliberately create troubles, create contradictions and deliberately find fault with their stepmother.

It is difficult to be a stepmother, and the most difficult thing is to take care of children. There are often two possibilities. The first possibility is that the stepmother takes good care of the children. In the eyes of others, she thinks that you are deliberately pleasing the children, and even thinks that you are deliberately pampering and conniving, and you have not disciplined the children well. Of course, it is also possible that you are good to your children and take it for granted in the eyes of others.

The second possibility is: after all, you are not your own child, especially if you are a stepmother, which is easy to be misunderstood. It is even more difficult to grasp the scale when disciplining children. In any case, others will think that your stepmother is unqualified. If you are not your own child, you will not care and ask. Discipline, can't scold, can't fight, and a careless one will be crowned? Vicious stepmother? In a word, this title is thankless.

But this cannot be generalized. People are full of meat. No matter how difficult the stepmother is, don't be that vicious stepmother. When you treat a child, you only need to be sincere and treat the child as your own. I believe that one day your children will understand your kindness and be moved by your sincerity.