What does it mean if men always secretly delete chat records and text messages with women in case you see them?

Personal opinion: secretly engage in ambiguity. Or avoid suspicion, be afraid of being unhappy after seeing it, and think too much. These are all white lies.

This situation cannot be a cold war. We should communicate calmly and frankly, and get to know each other's hearts. Don't just doubt. In addition, people who really love you can feel it from their ordinary lives. If they don't feel love in life, it's furtive ambiguity. If you punish, you will be punished, and you will be divided. Perfecting him is also perfecting yourself. Because a marriage without love will not be happy and will not last long. Forced to tie together, the deepest injury is yourself.

If I really love you, it belongs to the second case. White lies should be understood and tolerated, not exposed.

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The performance of truly loving a person in life (if you have the following performance, it means that he really loves you, and deleting chat records is a white lie)

1, show love

It is a process of confession, commitment and acceptance, which is much better than many people who clearly say they love you but dare not show their love. If a relationship can't see the light and make the happiness and sweetness of two people public, then it shows that this man still has scruples in his heart.

If a man really loves you, he will always show his love for you and take you to relatives and friends for dinner, because in his heart you are already his family and an inseparable part of his life.

2. Apologize first if you quarrel.

If you quarrel and you do something wrong, he will still take the initiative to comfort you, apologize to you first, and then tell you your mistake when your temper eases. Such a man must love you very much.

If the other party has done something wrong to you, you should apologize to me, otherwise I won't forgive your mentality. This kind of man certainly doesn't like you that much.

Don't hide your love history.

A man who loves you will tell you everything about himself, including his previous love history, because he loves you, trusts you and is willing to let you into his life and know everything about him. At the same time, he will also tell you his plans for the future and pull you into his future life. In his mind, you are the one who will accompany him all his life.