Tell me how to let the mistress retreat when she is faced with difficulties.

First, a woman must love herself at all times, and the more frustrated she is, the more she must love herself;

A woman who doesn’t even love herself has no right to get a man. More and more lasting love. Of course, when I say this, I don’t mean that women should be selfish and not care about the life and death of others. Rather, it teaches them self-pity, self-confidence and self-improvement, and that they should have themselves in their hearts at all times, instead of foolishly treating themselves as accessories to men.

A considerable proportion of women’s marital misfortunes are caused or influenced by their lack of love for themselves. Especially when a man shows a slight slackness or indifference to her, she will not know how to love herself even more. You will become confused inside and less confident, so you will become shabby, unkempt, and unkempt, thus accelerating your own aging and strengthening your "bored" signal in the eyes of men. Since then, a vicious cycle has been formed. Even if the mistress outside does not take action, he will be defeated by himself.

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Second, never give up your advantageous position as a wife, it is better to use defense as offense;

Compared with the mistresses outside, I have always believed that my wife has the right time, place and people in terms of emotions, society and time logic. Under normal circumstances, as long as you can choose favorable terrain at the right time and don't easily abandon the city to attack, if you use defense as offense, you can probably win.

I’m afraid of those women who can’t hold their breath and try to “convince people with reason” and “overwhelm people with momentum”. On the surface, they can shout a few words and attract some people’s attention. , received sympathy and support from several people, but in fact she lost the most important person and the most important status. This person was her husband, and this status was her awe-inspiring and tolerant wife. When such a quarrel occurs, what is reasonable becomes unreasonable, and self-defense becomes attack. The consequences are often difficult to control.

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Third, learn from your opponents appropriately and change what can be changed;

Perhaps what I said before The two points are just a defensive method of self-improvement. But only by knowing yourself and your enemy can you win every battle. You have to know what your opponent is like and what her strengths are, so that you can decide how to deal with it. Obviously, the best and most effective way to cope is to learn. Learning from a mistress who seduced her husband may seem cruel on the surface, but it is actually a kind of wisdom and self-reflection. Who can make mistakes without being a sage? Since ancient times, no one is perfect. As long as it is useful to oneself and can improve oneself, there is no shame in learning from anyone.

Of course, the learning I emphasize here is moderation. It does not mean that you give up your principles and positions, but that you do something within your ability, or something that you could have done better. , these are all things you can change through hard work.

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Fourth, if the obstruction is ineffective, it is better not to obstruct it at all. It is better to blow on the breath to accelerate the oxidation of the "apple";

There is a kind of victory called victory without fighting. There are two key points for this kind of victory, which are time and letting the opponent collapse from within. Whether it was a moment of passion or love, he and his mistress will not be able to escape the test of time. Time will give them an answer. The world, which is more unfavorable than yours back then, will give them the resistance they deserve and will make them The relationship between them became more fragile and short-lived because of immorality. With all due respect, since then, this kind of relationship is probably no match for the love cycle you and he had.

Of course, few women can have this kind of mentality and can withstand this kind of waiting, because women’s youth does not allow it. Therefore, we should take some actions, even if we use external force to blow on the rotten apple, it may accelerate its oxidation. However, this kind of "blowing" does not mean that you should really blow on her. I suggest that it is best to blow on your man. If necessary, you can also blow on his parents. This blowing is not all about nitpicking. , you can also boast about it.