What message did you send to coax your mother when you quarreled with her?

She said it, so stay away from her. But don't text less every day. Of course, don't mention her depressed things, send her some jokes or something. Know her daily state.

Ask her out again every few days, send her snacks by the way, and don't mention her depression.

When you see her in a good mood, you can tell her, "If you have any troubles, you can come out to play with me and walk together, and you will feel better." If you want to talk, talk to me. I am a good listener. Although sometimes I can't think of any way to help you, I will always be with you. . . . Blabla "that is to say, what you want to share for her, you'd better get down to business and make her deeply moved ~ ~ ~ ~ hehe."

Besides, if there is anything that can help her, don't be stingy. Actions are always more powerful than words.