My boyfriend's mother died. What should I do if tomorrow happens to be my birthday?

Things happen by accident, so you'd better not say it yourself.

In the future, when the mother-in-law dies and something happens at home, it is important to greet relatives and friends who come to mourn, and then the old man is buried. This is a big event in your boyfriend's family.

You can celebrate your personal birthday another day, because you celebrate your birthday every year, but his mother doesn't.

The future mother-in-law will not disturb others if she is buried all her life.

The deceased is the biggest, or the funeral of the old man is the most important, so we are going. It's best not to tell anyone. This is good for you.

I think it's best not to mention it to your boyfriend.

The reason is that his mother just died, and he will be very sad and in a bad mood. There will be many trivial matters in his family that need his participation. He is very busy. If you ask to go out for your birthday in the evening, he will be embarrassed: his mother has just been buried, and he is already in a heavy mood. If someone at home asks him to discuss something, if someone says:

"He went to spend his birthday with his girlfriend!"

Besides, he wouldn't be in a good mood then. If you really go, you will be reluctant.

It's not good for you or him.

Outsiders will say you two are too ignorant. How can you still have the mood to celebrate your girlfriend's birthday on such a day?

(2) Celebrate your birthday silently at home and wish yourself all the best in the future.

(3) After this incident, it's best not to tell your girlfriends: People seem to sympathize with you for having a bad birthday, but they don't know what to say behind your back, right?

If you don't talk, outsiders will reduce their evaluation of you and your boyfriend's family.

There is no point in living your life and telling others. If you don't do it right, you will still be unhappy.

I used to work in a troupe. In the 1980s, an actress's mother died. At that time, the troupe was performing in other places. The group sent a person who ran to contact the performer to accompany the actress home to attend her mother's funeral. Contact the artists outside to buy tickets, arrange seats for the actress, take care of the actress, let the actress get home smoothly, bury her mother normally and so on. Before departure, the group leader had told the actress that she must come back to participate in the performance in three days, because there was an actress's play in three days. Contact the performer outside to buy a return ticket, waiting for the actress to return smoothly after handling the housework; On the way back, the actress wept bitterly at her mother's portrait, kowtowed to her mother, turned around and followed the troupe to contact the actors outside and went straight to the train station. Needless to say, it was hard all the way, but fortunately she caught up with the performance that night and didn't delay the play.

This is the inevitable way for our industry to encounter this kind of thing at home. I was crying just now, wiping my tears. When I come here, I want to dress red and hang green according to the plot and interpret the story of the ancients. It seems very uncoordinated, but this is caused by this profession. Everyone who acts knows that the focus should not be on family matters, but on the stage-the drama is getting stronger and stronger.

As an ordinary person, it's not like this. With this kind of thing at home, all entertainment activities should be cancelled, and a solemn atmosphere should be maintained at home, and there can be nothing unrelated to condolences.

Therefore, it is best to know the psychological activities of your boyfriend at the moment and not to add pressure to him.

We were engaged in the entertainment industry at that time, and the cast members of this industry were very helpless to talk about such things.

Today's young people have encountered such a thing, which is different from those of us who used to sing operas. Now you can control things by yourself. We all went through these things in the past.