My predecessor hacked all my contact information. Why did you suddenly reply to my text message?

First of all, clarify the relationship between them.

Since the ending is the result of your relationship, letting go of each other is the best way. He blacked you out, you blacked him out, you no longer met, and the lovers who broke up became friends, which only showed that they didn't love each other deeply. No more contact is also to let the other person fade out of his life slowly, and no longer let the other person's every move disturb his heart, so as to sort out their relationship.

Second, allow yourself to be sad.

After breaking up, no matter who put it forward, you will feel sad and sad in this relationship. Allow yourself to cry and feel sad for this relationship, promise yourself that it will be difficult for a while, return to normal life as soon as possible after being sad, and completely let go of this relationship. Breaking up is no joke. When such excuses are used to solve emotional problems once, there will only be countless times.

Third, recognize the problem.

A relationship always breaks up for a reason. If the other party blames the other party for the problem, but does not review his own problems, then this relationship will be dull and will be tired of the other party for a long time. Only by realizing where the problem lies and trying to solve it can we get a better mode of getting along in the next relationship.

The other person suddenly replied to your text message, which may be a little lonely recently. I want to get a little tenderness from you, delicious but charming and fun, but my ex, if there is no determination and boundaries, it may be commonplace to be on and off. You made your own jokes so that you can stick to some of your beliefs about love loyalty, but the other person's words seem to be still evaluating and judging various judgments.

For example, he will say that you are also very good. If you are excellent, will you be his spare tire? When he feels lonely, he can send you a few words. The sudden news is like god sleeps. Be careful of your predecessor. Precedents are usually all kinds of pits. If two people are not suitable, it is impossible to suddenly go right. There must be some unsolved problems in this. You'd better handle them carefully.

Fourth, talk to people.

It can be seen from the conversation that the subject is a little unwilling. Actually, letting go of this relationship is not good for me either. If we really want to let go, there will be no more waves in any behavior of our predecessors, and no one on their emotional road has so much experience and past. When you are bored and confused, it is also a good way to talk to someone, such as asking questions on the platform. Looking at the solution to the problem from the perspective of others may solve the doubts in your heart.