How do I know if a girl is interested in me?

Usually, if a girl flicks her hair from time to time when you are talking, it is a very good sign that she has unconsciously begun to care about her appearance.

In the short message chat stage, it can be roughly divided into three levels of interest indicators.

No-benefit stage: She will answer whatever you ask.

You: "What about you?"

She: "Class."

General interest stage: She shares her feelings with you.

You: "What should I do?"

She: "I'm in class, so sleepy."

High interest stage: She also wants to know about you.

You: "What should I do?"

She: "I'm in class. I am sleepy. What about you? "

Let's talk about the dating stage.

It's good to be with you. A friend who has a car can do this test, pass by somewhere, tell her that you have to get off and do something, which takes about 10 minutes (for example, to go to a friend's place), and ask her if she would like to wait for you in the car or accompany you. Generally speaking, girls who are interested in you will not choose to wait for you in the car.

It is good to be willing to walk together. For example, after afternoon tea, it's time for dinner. One is a restaurant near you. You can walk there. The restaurant far away must take the bus to see where she wants to go. Girls who are interested in you will choose a restaurant near you. In the same way, after dinner, I am not in a hurry to end my date, and I don't want to spend any more entertainment, but I am willing to walk and chat with you until that girl is often the most interesting. To put it bluntly, "like you" means "like being with you", and "interesting to you" and "interesting to the date you arranged" are different. When MM doesn't know us very well, we need to arrange interesting dates to get the chance to meet, but don't forget, ultimately it depends on whether MM is interested in herself.

Let's talk about the face-to-face chat stage first.

When dating, if one party talks a lot and the other party listens actively, then the listener is usually attracted to the speaker. At this stage, listening to you carefully is a very important indicator of a girl's goodwill. Even if you say trivial things, she will listen with relish and respond with questions, which shows that she is interested in you. The reverse is also true, which is exactly what we show in front of the girls we like.

It is worth noting that at the beginning of the date, the girl's talk only shows that she has some trust in you, but if she is in this state and never pays attention to your situation, it means that you may be regarded as a trash can. The perfect date should be two-way, with serious conversation and positive response. Therefore, when the date reaches a certain stage, you must talk about yourself, so that you can see how interested she is in you from the other person's reaction.

In the process of men chasing women, because we are eager for success, we often ignore these simple truths, blindly cater to the needs, and are busy building a good impression, while ignoring the judgment of the other party's interest in you.

In addition, it is emphasized that asking questions is not necessarily an indicator of interest. Some realistic girls will ask, "Where are you from? What kind of work do you do? " That may have nothing to do with interest at all. I'm just doing a preliminary screening. At this time, we should recognize what a "material girl" is. It is normal for women to have material requirements for men. Most women will judge whether a man is qualified by his details, which is a euphemism and implicit "woman's way". The "material girls" are often naked and direct, and they adopt the "man's way". From the perspective of evolution, women will face the world like men only if they are unsafe. Therefore, we don't like "material girls", in fact, we don't like insecure women.

Therefore, just as men should talk and do things like men, women are lovely to us when they are like women, and insecure women tend to think and act like men. For example, "What do you do?" And "What do you do at work?" As men, women are certainly more willing to choose the latter way of speaking. Because the former focuses on social values, while the latter focuses on your state, that is, being interested in you.

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