Why does Do Minjun like Cheon Songyi?

Cheon Song Yi is a national goddess and movie star. At the beginning, Professor Dou had not met Qian Songyi a few times, and every time he met, he saw a negative image of her, which inevitably made Professor Dou feel disgusted.

Why does Professor Do hate Cheon Song Yi so much at this time? Let’s first analyze Professor Du’s personality traits:

Look at his robot-like standing posture, meticulous wearing of suits and leather shoes every day, and his clean and orderly home. He is a very rigorous, methodical and principled person. Sexually strong people.

If you only see this, of course you won’t understand why he fell in love with Qian Songyi. But if you switch to the language of psychoanalysis, it becomes much easier to understand.

Reason is the defense against emotion. Reason as powerful as a robot is to defend against emotions that are as flooding as the inner flood. 400 years ago, when he first came to Earth, he met "Qian Songyi" who touched his heart. His eyes 400 years ago were still full of curiosity and openness, and he was willing to get along and communicate with humans on the earth. In the past 400 years, he has experienced all kinds of things. The woman he loved was separated from the yin and yang in an instant. He was betrayed by the person he saved. However, the person he saved made others fall into a more miserable situation. His only good friend spat in a teacup...

What was told in the TV series but not told, the pain, helplessness, and harm to the sincere feelings during this period are beyond the imagination of ordinary people on earth.

So, in order not to be hurt, he wrapped himself tightly, and his inner emotions were isolated layer by layer with reason. In ancient times, he would still associate with a group of people, but later on he would associate with fewer and fewer people. In modern society, he only associates with one person, and there is no absolutely sufficient reason to stop helping anyone.

Behind his cold-blooded and rational nature like a robot, behind his rigor, orderliness, and adherence to principles, is a cautious, delicate, and sensitive inner emotional world. He is worried that the slightest breakthrough in his principles will bring about consequences. Catastrophic consequences of destruction. These are also fully reflected in the layers of his feelings for Qian Songyi, how he wants to love but dare not love (he dare not confess, so he can only secretly hold her hand and kiss her secretly during the still time), and immediately after confessing his love Among the various manifestations of regret (sending a text message "I like you" on the phone, then immediately stopping time and quickly deleting the text message).

Why is Professor Do so obsessed with falling in love with Qian Songyi, whom he hates so much? Continue to interpret it in the language of psychoanalysis, and you will understand it easily.

Attacking is to hide intimacy. Hating and despising someone is essentially an act of aggression. When Professor Do looked cold and said with disdain: I hate women like Qian Songyi the most, what he was actually saying subconsciously was: The attraction for this woman Qian Songyi is so strong that I can’t help it. Resist the strong emotion, but I can't have such strong feelings for a person because it will lead to devastating consequences. So, I'm going to push her away with my attacks.

Why does Cheon Song Yi strongly attract Professor Do? In addition to the description in the plot that Qian Songyi was the woman who made his heart beat and heartache 400 years ago, there are also psychological reasons.

First, these two people are essentially the same type of people. From the TV series, Do Min Joon and Cheon Song Yi appear to be two completely different people. Cheon Song Yi is hearty, enthusiastic, and expresses her emotions completely externally, while Do Min Joon is sensitive, cold, and completely wraps up his emotions. In fact, they are the same kind of people. As analyzed above, Do Minjun actually has passionate emotions in his heart, but they are just defended by his reason.

Qian Songyi also has a lot of wounds in her heart, the trauma of her original family, the resentment towards her mother, the fierce competition in the entertainment industry, being scolded and ridiculed by fans... The wounds deep in the two people's hearts are very important to them. The longing for sincere and passionate emotions is consistent and resonates deep in the heart.

Secondly, Qian Songyi has qualities that Do Minjun likes but has to hide. What attracts him the most is that Qian Songyi shows these qualities so unabashedly. , because these are things he dare not reveal.

Let’s take the trivial matter of being drunk and rude. Why does Do Minjun say that he hates women who are drunk and rude? Because he himself was drunk and lost his temper hundreds of years ago. In public, he made cups, plates and almost everything in the room fly around, scaring many people.

Of course, he also frightened himself, because this identity could no longer continue, and he had to run away, end one life and start another one. Therefore, he did not dare to get drunk again for hundreds of years. How depressing this must be...