A marriage that has been cheated on repeatedly

I originally wanted to search something on Baidu, but a video of "Gold Medal Mediation" popped up on the page. The introduction of the content piqued my curiosity. I opened the video link and watched it. I was deeply impressed by the heroine's video. Niyuan felt unfair and felt sorry that she could not defend her life.

There is a couple in the show who are in their late teens. The woman always wears a pair of sunglasses. It seems that she is unwilling to show her true colors. In my opinion, these sunglasses just reflect the weak side of her heart. .

The first time the husband cheated on his wife was when his wife went out to work. In just a few months, the husband brought his lover home and was caught by his son who was in high school. When the wife found out, she refused to let him go and sought life and death. The husband knelt down The problem was settled by begging for mercy, but my wife had a knot in her heart that she couldn't break and couldn't bear it.

The husband cheated for the second time a year after the first time. He went to work in other places, and then rekindled his old relationship with his lover. It lasted for three years before his wife discovered it. She went to the construction site to find him. Instead, she was violently beaten by her lover many times, but the husband did not maintain a neutral attitude. The wife once again resorted to the woman's method of crying, making trouble, and hanging herself. She drank pesticide and failed to commit suicide. The husband finally returned to the family, but he was still disconnected from his lover.

The husband cheated on her for the third time with another woman. They gradually fell in love in the name of their son's work, and were finally discovered by his wife through other people's rumors. This time the wife chose not to make a fuss or make a fuss, and her calmness made her husband feel guilty. In fact, the reason why the wife is so calm is not because of her magnanimity as a woman, but because it is the critical moment when her son marries a wife. The wife chooses to endure it. In her own words, she knocks out her front teeth and swallows it in her stomach.

The wife spoke loudly on the stage, and the husband also admitted everything. He made mistakes many times and corrected them many times. His face did not change when he said it, and his heart did not beat. Everyone in the audience felt blushed by it, but he himself was calm and calm.

Finally, the husband expressed his true feelings: The reason why he cheated on her many times was because his wife was unreasonable and nagging, which made him feel that she was doing something wrong, so he cheated on her to seek psychological comfort. The wife asked: Do you think it is appropriate to use such an excuse to cheat? The husband stopped talking.

My wife has always stressed that she has endured many years of suffering, tortured herself mentally, and suffered unbearably, but she refused to give up on this marriage.

The mediator hit the nail on the head: You are sitting on the wall now. You are not happy to jump in, and you are afraid of getting hurt when you jump out, so you keep torturing yourself by riding on the wall. Rather than being in so much pain, it would be better to make a choice quickly.

The video ended abruptly here. I don’t know whether the wife jumped into the wall or out of the wall in the end, but I feel sad for such a woman.

Allowing a person to make a mistake once can be forgiven, but if you do not change it repeatedly and it is related to the happiness of life, making it again and again is a matter of personality. Why not get out of this pain as soon as possible? How many years in life can you torture yourself?

If a responsible man chooses to cheat, he should stop getting entangled in the maintenance of his family. This kind of injury is a wound that will never heal. If you want a family, you must decisively reject all temptations!