Xiao Qu-Kong Qunfa sends short messages.

These days, if you don't say ode to joy, you feel that you can't play well with people.

Hey hey, do you like Dr. Zhao or Bao Yifan?

Hey hey, who do you think is meaner, Fan Xiaomei or Qu Xiaoyu?

Yo yo yo, look at Andy's bag, but it's a limited edition of Hermes!

At lunch, I was dragged by my little sister and asked, which girl on the 22nd floor do you like best?

When I used "Ode to Joy" with popcorn, I was forced to become a "thinker".

To tell the truth, a woman with another woman can't be happy from the heart at all.

Besides, they are all so beautiful that I can't help being jealous.

However, I was so bored that I filtered them out of my mind one by one. When I passed the Xiao Qu Hole, my body couldn't help shivering. ...

Qu Xiaogan, this girl, she is not alone.

Dr. Zhao's description is right. She is a leprechaun.

Bao Yifan is right. Whoever meets her is unlucky.

There are many "daughters" around me. Everyone can write a book "How to Torture Boyfriends Effectively".

I often think about a question, are those who scold and beat usually true love?

Because sometimes, even I am an out-and-out feminist, I don't like the overbearing treatment of my boyfriend by my daughter.

Until recently, I watched ode to joy.

I suddenly realized a possibility. Is it because I love you too much or because I have no choice?

We don't have to say that we love too much. Love is meaningless. I am willing to abuse it. I owed Ta in my last life.

"Too helpless", personally, maybe it's just a good next home. If you have no family, you can only stay at home. Home, at least have face.

Dr. Zhao in Ode to Joy actually belongs to this situation.

Zhao Qiping, aged 3 1, is an attending physician at the level of deputy director of orthopedics in Sixth Hospital. She is unmarried, but she has a girlfriend of seven years, who is said to be the daughter of a leader of the Health Bureau.

I didn't get this information, but I took a fancy to his Qu Xiaoyu.

That's right. Qu Xiaoyu had a girlfriend when she took a fancy to Dr. Zhao. Here, I believe most people think that Dr. Zhao has reached marriageable age, and with his girlfriend of seven years, he will be eager to get married. In this case, it's hard to be reluctant to like it again.

But Xiao Qu Gan doesn't think so. She has her own theory:

"This is not a problem. Talking about being unmarried for seven years shows that the relationship between the two is not very good. "

So, how do people do it?

She doesn't care about anyone's feelings at all, including Dr. Zhao, the client. So he put on a "natural" look and threw off his arm to catch up.

This situation reminds me of Zhang ailing's classic sentence: "I love you, it's none of your business, and I can't blame you."

Qu Xiaoyu is too like Zhang Ailing. Superior family background and aloof temperament. Not only character, but also the courage to "kill men".

Qu Xiaoyu: What? Have a girlfriend? That's nothing. The relationship is not so good, whoever grabs it will be counted.

Zhang Ailing: What? Do you have a wife? That can also be called things, birthright is nothing, and whoever guards it counts.

This kind of women, they not only crush countless traditional women in "thought", but also never lose to any master in "action".

Therefore, I sincerely advise those "daughters" who love princess disease not to break up with their boyfriends easily.

How good a boyfriend is, let you run wild, or importune, still guarding you with no skin and shame.

What spirit is this?

This is the legendary great spirit of "taking advantage".

If you are not satisfied, please make up your mind-

One thousand one day, a powerful figure like Qu Xiaoyu appears around your loyal boyfriend. I wonder what your chances are?

Modern people are probably too smart about love.

I came into contact with a boy who changed girlfriends more often than I changed towels.

I asked him what he thought.

He naively replied that those girls are so secular, eating coffee and watching movies, and buying gifts on holidays. If we break up, we will lose a lot.

I laughed at him. Is AA your love rule?

He is honest, not afraid of spending money, but also able to give his feelings. It is better to be equal. Even if they are not equal, don't differ too much. Everyone is a wise man, and no one should treat anyone as a fool.

I have always kept a smile on my face, but my middle finger has always stood up silently in my heart. It is not difficult to imagine how much a man who starts to calculate the input-output ratio when he is in love can expect him to pay for you after marriage.

I also know a girl. And learned that she has always had a crush on her seniors.

In three years, she became good friends with every girlfriend of her senior as a confidante. The reason is I don't want to lose this relationship.

I love her very much and don't want to lose it, so I just want to have it.

She confessed with a wry smile and was rejected. I'm afraid she can't even be a friend.

I looked at her and didn't know what to say.

Behind the so-called "fear of rejection", is there really only "fear of not being friends"?

It's great that we protect ourselves. Like a cactus, it refuses to hug but longs for warmth, full of expectation but afraid of harm.

I often hear such doubts: Ta is so excellent, how can I not find a boyfriend/girlfriend?

At first, I thought, maybe my personal conditions are too good, so I have higher requirements for the other half, which makes it more difficult to fall in love.

Until I found Qu Xiaoyu.

Not so good. What conditions are not conditional and what difficulties are not difficult. Isn't affection based on "everything depends on human effort"?

Look at what Qu Xiaoyu said: "Every time you fall in love, you will act like you are forever. Not getting married is failure. Are you tired? " Falling in love is seeing the right eye, and it thunders. Instead of thinking about the east and the west there, it is better to kiss and hug, so as to know your true feelings. The more you think about it, the more wrong it is. Don't hesitate if you like it. Falling in love is falling in love. How can there be so many constraints? "

In fact, Qu Xiaoyu did the same.

What tricks did she use? Let's see:

1. Establish contact: Even if Dr. Zhao didn't recognize her message, she was still not discouraged. Instead, I invited Dr. Zhao to dinner on the grounds of expressing gratitude, and successfully obtained Dr. Zhao's personal contact information-WeChat.

2, soft grinding hard foam: Dr. Zhao failed in surgery and was in a bad mood, ignoring her to go to the hospital. She is still not discouraged. Not only as a driver for others, but also as psychological counseling for others. Unable to help her, Dr. Zhao promised to go to a restaurant for dinner. Who knows, she went on to suggest that drinking is the best way to solve her troubles. Finally, Dr. Zhao was successfully dragged into the "feast" and rolled sheets while drunk.

3, whatever you want: Dr. Zhao dislikes her lack of culture and asks to break up. Not only was she not discouraged, but when she learned that one of Dr. Zhao's little patients needed funding, she went straight to the hospital to donate money at the first time. Moreover, in order to please Dr. Zhao, she has always been only interested in eating, drinking and having fun, and even picked up a long-lost book.

4. Stalking and beating: In the face of Dr. Zhao's resolute parting attitude, she was not discouraged, but became more and more brave. In order to brush the sense of existence, she went to Dr. Zhao's Weibo to make trouble and leave messages crazily. Dr. Zhao was surprised and scared, complaining.

5. Playing hard to get: She has never been discouraged by Dr. Zhao's long-term cold violence. Cleverly borrow two men (Bao Yifan and Yao Bin) to stimulate Dr. Zhao. Finally, Dr. Zhao couldn't bear to miss her and took the initiative to come to 2203 to wait for her to go home.

This is Qu Xiaoyu. In order to get your own Ouba, spend time at any cost. The prey that has been targeted will chase it to the end and never look back after hitting the south wall.

So, I was thinking:

If the first boy could meet a girlfriend who treats money like dirt, he would have married and had children.

If Er Girl could be as brave and fearless as Qu Xiaoyu, she would have been with her senior for a hundred years.

There is a particularly hot word on the Internet called "scheming bitch". It refers to a kind of women who seem to be innocent, but in fact they hide their talents in the process of communication and are good at playing with people, but they often act harmless and have nothing to do with themselves.

I think "Qu Xiaoyu" is typical.

I won't wronged her, or I'll come to see you;

1. Investigate other people's background: No matter who has a boyfriend, the girls on the 22nd floor are keen to investigate that person's background. Euphemistically called: "I am afraid that my sisters will suffer." Looking at her excitement after the investigation, I can't help wondering whether she is really good for others or just worried that others are better than her.

2, testing other people's boyfriends: or "I am afraid that my sisters will suffer." She smugly used the way of "sneaking a business card to her sister's boyfriend" to test whether the man was a playboy. Fortunately, only the "white supervisor" in Qiu Yingying was arrested, and Bao Yifan (Andy's boyfriend) and Wang Baichuan (Fan Xiaomei's boyfriend) who were also "seduced" survived. Because of this, the friendship between sisters almost broke down.

3, clever use of Yao Bin: the so-called "intentional, ruthless". I know that Yao Bin admires her, but I am puzzled. Help her buy a house, help her move, contact business and provide information. Eat, drink and be merry, anytime, anywhere, when you call, when you leave. But for her, she is too shy to sit down and enjoy success. She is not polite at all.

4. Deliberately please Andy: When fighting for GI brand agency, she learned about Andy's noble position in the workplace. She stood at Andy's door with a bunch of gifts, begging and apologizing, and asked Andy to help her translate English materials. Then, during the negotiation, Andy wore a Bluetooth headset to help her at any time during the meeting, which succeeded.

5. Dealing with General Manager Bao: In order to gain economic benefits, I will not hesitate to sell my sister Andy's private life information. Although the ending is good, it is inevitable that people will feel that there is no bottom line if they want to trace back to the source.

It is worthy of being "Qu Xiaoyu". In order to achieve their goals, we should be flexible and be both civil and military. If you want to do something, you will never give up when you get to the Yellow River.

I'm glad that "Xiao Qu Kong" is just a role set in Ode to Joy, and I'm also glad that I can't find anyone like "Xiao Qu Kong" around me, otherwise I've been fooling around with the IQ of "growing up just to be tall".

Even so, I still don't hate "Qu Xiaoyu". After all, everyone's growing environment and educational background are different, and it is understandable to form a maverick character. I understand the truth that "people are omnipresent and tea has thousands of faces".

I just want to tell people who live a simple and pure life at the moment:

Cherish the fate, protect the sincerity, cherish the people and things in front of you, and don't let Qu Xiaoyu take advantage.

I often use "Xiao Qu Kong" to warn myself:

Don't let "free and easy" be an excuse to hurt others, and don't take "outspoken" as a reason for straightforward personality.

Some people care whether you are doing well or not, and some people care whether you are tired by plane.

Some people only see themselves, and never care whether you need comfort or not.

Some people go to the three halls for nothing, while others repeatedly ask not to enter.

Some people try their best to get close to each other, but they want to return home with a full load one day.

Some people are silent when you are happy, but they can give their hearts when you are sad.

Someone comes when you are successful, but they don't want to accompany you when you are frustrated.

Someone gave you a glass of wine, but it occupied most of your memory.

Someone has given you a lifetime, but you can't wake up the silence in your heart.

May you be clean and pure. o